Purvi lying great i am happy

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Hei guys I am back….

How is everyone doing? I am great. I wanted to wait and watch what was going in PR before writing my comment but couldn't help myself. I have a read a lot of Purvi the liar. Well I am not sure about you guys but I am very happy with Purvi the liar.

The Liar Purvi :-

Let's start with this. I have read a lot of comments saying what a liar Purvi is. She lied to Archu and she lied to Onir about who she is. Before we go to Archu, let's go to Purvi-Onir. I am smitten by Onir. This might be due to the fact that I like Shakti but his character for the time being is just lovely but yes, like you I have my doubts. However, I am crossing my finger and hoping that he stays positive. We have too much negativity in PR now days.

Why is Purvi not telling Onir the truth?

To me, Purvi is not telling Onir the truth about her family and Arjun (she might have but from the looks of things she hasn't) because of one reason. It is because Purvi doesn't want Onir to look at her differently. Once you tell someone everything about you, they tend to judge you and I don't think Purvi wants to look at Onir and see her past. She wants to move forward and not backwards. The baby she is carrying is more than enough a reminder of her past mistakes, why would she want to look at Onir and keep reminding herself of what she has done. Sometimes it is nice to be with someone and not have your past crushing down on you. You might ask me doesn't Onir deserve to know the truth. It is up to him, the fact that he has accepted her and given her the rights to use his name shows that he doesn't care about her past. He likes her for who she is, so what is the need to tell him.

Why is Purvi not telling Archu the truth?

This is easy, Purvi telling Archu she is married (honestly none of us know if they are really married or just good friends pretending to be married) will make Archu fly straight to Kolkata worried. Manav would also follow, which parents wouldn't be worried if you are calling them telling you are suddenly getting married? They rushing and seeing Purvi marrying Onir with a baby wouldn't that be too easy to tell that the baby she is carrying is Arjun's? Anyone can to the maths and a mother surely can. Besides, it took Purvi a few months before moving in with Onir (precap she was living in the chawl before that).

Secondly, in the 600 letters Archu sent Purvi she would have mention Ovi is pregnant, Arjun and Ovi are happy now you can come home. So, Purvi knowing the fact that Ovi is pregnant means Arjun has moved on. Why would she tell her mother the truth and make Arjun realize she is carrying his child?

Thirdly, I am very happy Purvi has not told Archu about Onir. I am so very happy that Purvi is finally using her brains and being selfish. Onir has been so nice to Purvi – why would she make Onir pay the price of meeting the D clan? She knows firsthand that it would be a lot of trouble for Onir. Purvi was very happy with Archu before the D clan came back from Canada. Since then she has been doing a lot of crying and has been through a lot of pain. Onir would be treated badly by some of the D clan and K clan members. She is finally standing by the person who has helped her a lot So, kudos to you Purvi.

I am also happy that Purvi is lying to her family about Onir because (remember the Shiv ji temple scene) she always wanted someone just for her. God, has finally answered her prays (hopefully Onir is as good as he is – too early to tell) by giving her Onir. She doesn't need to share Onir. Onir is hers and hersonly. She had to share everything and everyone in her life. Especially, the love of her life. Now, she doesn't have to share him. Why tell everyone and make her share him? So, Purvi I am happy that you are happy and you have someone who values you and respect's you and doesn't push you around and doesn't make you feel that you have no value (since you are adopted and was picked up by the road side) like you have been told you hole life. This is a guy, that you indebted too but he doesn't make you feels so. So, I am very happy that you have learned to lie to your parents (though the reason you are lying is for Ovi and so that no one knows you are carrying Arjun's kid).

Conclusion: - Why tell the truth to the D clan about Onir and about her past to Onir? Everyone is happy. The meeting of Onir and Purvi with the D clan will only bring a lot of trouble for Purvi. She has finally learned to be happy without her family why go back to the past that you have just walked away from. Besides, it is way too early to judge. We have to wait before we can say anything about Purvi-Onir because no one can say for sure what is their relationship except Ekta Ji.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I liked what you said about purvi. To me she was never a liar nor she betrayed anyone except I would say arjun. But I would still consider that her majbori. Even though both Arjun and purvi seemed living their life but I still won't think that they have moved in their life truly from their heart. Sure, if they want to show society how settled they look but from inside they are always close which we can clearly see from both sides. This is the purest relationship of hearts which can never be broken. You will see the pain, a broken relationship, loveless life that they are living but above all this, there is love that they feel for each other.

I absolutely defend purvi on your note. It takes a lot of courage and braveness to leave everything for the sake of your family. The sacrificed that she has made indeed has broken her into pieces and that's what we all need to see. Instead of blaming everything on her, we have to see the positive side which brought her in this circumstances. Lastly, I would like to add that I dont agree on the fact that she has moved on. One more thing to prove how much she has loved arjun, she has his unborn baby which she didn't abort.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manoshono

I liked what you said about purvi. To me she was never a liar nor she betrayed anyone except I would say arjun. But I would still consider that her majbori. Even though both Arjun and purvi seemed living their life but I still won't think that they have moved in their life truly from their heart. Sure, if they want to show society how settled they look but from inside they are always close which we can clearly see from both sides. This is the purest relationship of hearts which can never be broken. You will see the pain, a broken relationship, loveless life that they are living but above all this, there is love that they feel for each other.

I absolutely defend purvi on your note. It takes a lot of courage and braveness to leave everything for the sake of your family. The sacrificed that she has made indeed has broken her into pieces and that's what we all need to see. Instead of blaming everything on her, we have to see the positive side which brought her in this circumstances. Lastly, I would like to add that I dont agree on the fact that she has moved on. One more thing to prove how much she has loved arjun, she has his unborn baby which she didn't abort.



Hai there...like you i also believe Purvi was never a liar...Yes, she lied to Arjun. This part was her stupidity...nothing else...blind love and debt for her mother that she didn't think about Arjun and herself...a decision everyone is paying for now...and she knows it...as she has lost the most...

Like i said above...even i am not sure if they are married or are they just good friends acting...i would say the later...yes, i am smitten by Onir but the fact Purvi hasn't told anyone about Onir especially she didn't tell her mother to me shows that Purvi is not really married to Onir...that she is just acting...we have to see more to know what is real and not...I also agree she has not really moved on...she thinks about Arjun will doing tea also...😃 but i have to say right now i am just happy that she has someone through this tough time helping and supporting her...and i am happy that she is happy...😃

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Abi, brilliantly put! You have said everything I want to say but so much more coherently. She is not hiding anything from Onir, he knows she is pregnant to someone else and has accepted her, why torture him if he isn't interested in the minute details? I am only sad that her reprieve has been temporary and that the dreaded D clan is descending on Kolkata to snatch at her peace again.
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Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Abi, brilliantly put! You have said everything I want to say but so much more coherently. She is not hiding anything from Onir, he knows she is pregnant to someone else and has accepted her, why torture him if he isn't interested in the minute details? I am only sad that her reprieve has been temporary and that the dreaded D clan is descending on Kolkata to snatch at her peace again.





Janhvi di,

Thank you Ji.

You are right the bolded greatly said...😃 the reason i said so was because the has been a lot of saying that Purvi has been hiding everything from Onir... but u are right when Onir can accept her as pregnant why would he care who is the father...

Like u i am also dreading the fact that the D clan is coming...i only want Archu...i think u know very well how much i love these two...😃 other should stay away they have never accepted her why come now...

We shall see what happens...

Can't wait to see the flashback moments between Onir and Purvi...and how and why did Purvi come to Kolkata...



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Posted: 13 years ago
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wow just fabulous post . Onir knows her past as she carrying arjuns child so she not lied with Onir . it is nice to Onir that he never question about her past .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: arjunaluis





Janhvi di,

Thank you Ji.

You are right the bolded greatly said...😃 the reason i said so was because the has been a lot of saying that Purvi has been hiding everything from Onir... but u are right when Onir can accept her as pregnant why would he care who is the father...

Like u i am also dreading the fact that the D clan is coming...i only want Archu...i think u know very well how much i love these two...😃 other should stay away they have never accepted her why come now...

We shall see what happens...

Can't wait to see the flashback moments between Onir and Purvi...and how and why did Purvi come to Kolkata...




Yes I agree u fot following comment:

Like u i am also dreading the fact that the D clan is coming...i only want Archu...i think u know very well how much i love these two...😃 other should stay away they have never accepted her why come now...

We shall see what happens...

Can't wait to see the flashback moments between Onir and Purvi...and how and why did Purvi come to Kolkata...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Actually, Abhi, your eloquent and extremely well argued post is based on a non sequitur. There is in fact no indication of Purvi lying to any of the persons you have mentioned, nor that she has ever done so.

There are two aspects to lying. One is suppressio veri - hiding the truth - and then there is suggestio falsi - suggesting or stating a falsehood. It is only the latter that can really be called lying, and Purvi has definitely not done any of that.

As for the former, by dropping off the radar for the past 4 months, presumably about the time she married Dr. Onir, she has effectively avoided having to indulge in suppressio veri as well.

I do NOT believe, as some here seem to, that it is a pretend marriage between her and Dr.Onir. Why on earth would he, obviously a traditional Bengali bhadralok, agree to any such thing? It is not comprehensible at all. I also do not believe that they would contemplate making such a mockery of something so serious, if not sacred.

I hope Purvi does not start mooning after Arjun as and when she meets him again, and instead settles down happily with Dr. Onir, who seems to be one of God's gifts to women.He deserves no less. I do not have the extent of familiarity with the mindset of the CVs of such serials as some of those in this forum have , but I somehow cannot believe that he is anything but what he seems to be.

While I agree completely with @blue (there is a great deal of damage created by the desperate urge to confess and salve one's guilty conscience, at the expense of the hearer's feelings), I do not see why the Ds would be upset at her marriage to Dr.Onir, which could have been safely announced post facto.They would in fact be delighted. However, in her place, I too would want to shield Onir from her ghastly parivaar, and by this I mean both the Ds and the Ks.

Lastly, while it does not seem to bother many in this forum that Purvi is going to have a child out of wedlock (if in fact that is true, and I am NOT at all sure of that as yet, not to speak of hoping against hope that it is not true), it does matter to me. I defended her against all comers when such rumours about her surfaced months ago, and I would feel an awful fool now.

Plus, I might be an old dinosaur in such matters, but this will about finish her character off in my estimation. It is unbelievable for a girl who was always parroting lines about her middle class sanskaars to end up like this. If this is true, no wonder she ran away; life in the chawl would have been most unpleasant for an unwed mother. And she should thank her lucky stars that she ended up with Dr. Onir; things could have been much tougher and nastier for her as a single mother in Kolkata as well.

But I loved your post just the same.

Shyamala Aunty

Originally posted by: arjunaluis

Hei guys I am back'.

How is everyone doing? I am great. I wanted to wait and watch what was going in PR before writing my comment but couldn't help myself. I have a read a lot of Purvi the liar. Well I am not sure about you guys but I am very happy with Purvi the liar.

The Liar Purvi :-

Let's start with this. I have read a lot of comments saying what a liar Purvi is. She lied to Archu and she lied to Onir about who she is. Before we go to Archu, let's go to Purvi-Onir. I am smitten by Onir. This might be due to the fact that I like Shakti but his character for the time being is just lovely but yes, like you I have my doubts. However, I am crossing my finger and hoping that he stays positive. We have too much negativity in PR now days.

Why is Purvi not telling Onir the truth?

To me, Purvi is not telling Onir the truth about her family and Arjun (she might have but from the looks of things she hasn't) because of one reason. It is because Purvi doesn't want Onir to look at her differently. Once you tell someone everything about you, they tend to judge you and I don't think Purvi wants to look at Onir and see her past. She wants to move forward and not backwards. The baby she is carrying is more than enough a reminder of her past mistakes, why would she want to look at Onir and keep reminding herself of what she has done. Sometimes it is nice to be with someone and not have your past crushing down on you. You might ask me doesn't Onir deserve to know the truth. It is up to him, the fact that he has accepted her and given her the rights to use his name shows that he doesn't care about her past. He likes her for who she is, so what is the need to tell him.

Why is Purvi not telling Archu the truth?

This is easy, Purvi telling Archu she is married (honestly none of us know if they are really married or just good friends pretending to be married) will make Archu fly straight to Kolkata worried. Manav would also follow, which parents wouldn't be worried if you are calling them telling you are suddenly getting married? They rushing and seeing Purvi marrying Onir with a baby wouldn't that be too easy to tell that the baby she is carrying is Arjun's? Anyone can to the maths and a mother surely can. Besides, it took Purvi a few months before moving in with Onir (precap she was living in the chawl before that).

Secondly, in the 600 letters Archu sent Purvi she would have mention Ovi is pregnant, Arjun and Ovi are happy now you can come home. So, Purvi knowing the fact that Ovi is pregnant means Arjun has moved on. Why would she tell her mother the truth and make Arjun realize she is carrying his child?

Thirdly, I am very happy Purvi has not told Archu about Onir. I am so very happy that Purvi is finally using her brains and being selfish. Onir has been so nice to Purvi ' why would she make Onir pay the price of meeting the D clan? She knows firsthand that it would be a lot of trouble for Onir. Purvi was very happy with Archu before the D clan came back from Canada. Since then she has been doing a lot of crying and has been through a lot of pain. Onir would be treated badly by some of the D clan and K clan members. She is finally standing by the person who has helped her a lot So, kudos to you Purvi.

I am also happy that Purvi is lying to her family about Onir because (remember the Shiv ji temple scene) she always wanted someone just for her. God, has finally answered her prays (hopefully Onir is as good as he is ' too early to tell) by giving her Onir. She doesn't need to share Onir. Onir is hers and hersonly. She had to share everything and everyone in her life. Especially, the love of her life. Now, she doesn't have to share him. Why tell everyone and make her share him? So, Purvi I am happy that you are happy and you have someone who values you and respect's you and doesn't push you around and doesn't make you feel that you have no value (since you are adopted and was picked up by the road side) like you have been told you hole life. This is a guy, that you indebted too but he doesn't make you feels so. So, I am very happy that you have learned to lie to your parents (though the reason you are lying is for Ovi and so that no one knows you are carrying Arjun's kid).

Conclusion: - Why tell the truth to the D clan about Onir and about her past to Onir? Everyone is happy. The meeting of Onir and Purvi with the D clan will only bring a lot of trouble for Purvi. She has finally learned to be happy without her family why go back to the past that you have just walked away from. Besides, it is way too early to judge. We have to wait before we can say anything about Purvi-Onir because no one can say for sure what is their relationship except Ekta Ji.

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Originally posted by: arjunaluis

Hei guys I am back'.

How is everyone doing? I am great. I wanted to wait and watch what was going in PR before writing my comment but couldn't help myself. I have a read a lot of Purvi the liar. Well I am not sure about you guys but I am very happy with Purvi the liar.

The Liar Purvi :-

Let's start with this. I have read a lot of comments saying what a liar Purvi is. She lied to Archu and she lied to Onir about who she is. Before we go to Archu, let's go to Purvi-Onir. I am smitten by Onir. This might be due to the fact that I like Shakti but his character for the time being is just lovely but yes, like you I have my doubts. However, I am crossing my finger and hoping that he stays positive. We have too much negativity in PR now days.

Why is Purvi not telling Onir the truth?

To me, Purvi is not telling Onir the truth about her family and Arjun (she might have but from the looks of things she hasn't) because of one reason. It is because Purvi doesn't want Onir to look at her differently. Once you tell someone everything about you, they tend to judge you and I don't think Purvi wants to look at Onir and see her past. She wants to move forward and not backwards. The baby she is carrying is more than enough a reminder of her past mistakes, why would she want to look at Onir and keep reminding herself of what she has done. Sometimes it is nice to be with someone and not have your past crushing down on you. You might ask me doesn't Onir deserve to know the truth. It is up to him, the fact that he has accepted her and given her the rights to use his name shows that he doesn't care about her past. He likes her for who she is, so what is the need to tell him.

Why is Purvi not telling Archu the truth?

This is easy, Purvi telling Archu she is married (honestly none of us know if they are really married or just good friends pretending to be married) will make Archu fly straight to Kolkata worried. Manav would also follow, which parents wouldn't be worried if you are calling them telling you are suddenly getting married? They rushing and seeing Purvi marrying Onir with a baby wouldn't that be too easy to tell that the baby she is carrying is Arjun's? Anyone can to the maths and a mother surely can. Besides, it took Purvi a few months before moving in with Onir (precap she was living in the chawl before that).

Secondly, in the 600 letters Archu sent Purvi she would have mention Ovi is pregnant, Arjun and Ovi are happy now you can come home. So, Purvi knowing the fact that Ovi is pregnant means Arjun has moved on. Why would she tell her mother the truth and make Arjun realize she is carrying his child?

Thirdly, I am very happy Purvi has not told Archu about Onir. I am so very happy that Purvi is finally using her brains and being selfish. Onir has been so nice to Purvi ' why would she make Onir pay the price of meeting the D clan? She knows firsthand that it would be a lot of trouble for Onir. Purvi was very happy with Archu before the D clan came back from Canada. Since then she has been doing a lot of crying and has been through a lot of pain. Onir would be treated badly by some of the D clan and K clan members. She is finally standing by the person who has helped her a lot So, kudos to you Purvi.

I am also happy that Purvi is lying to her family about Onir because (remember the Shiv ji temple scene) she always wanted someone just for her. God, has finally answered her prays (hopefully Onir is as good as he is ' too early to tell) by giving her Onir. She doesn't need to share Onir. Onir is hers and hersonly. She had to share everything and everyone in her life. Especially, the love of her life. Now, she doesn't have to share him. Why tell everyone and make her share him? So, Purvi I am happy that you are happy and you have someone who values you and respect's you and doesn't push you around and doesn't make you feel that you have no value (since you are adopted and was picked up by the road side) like you have been told you hole life. This is a guy, that you indebted too but he doesn't make you feels so. So, I am very happy that you have learned to lie to your parents (though the reason you are lying is for Ovi and so that no one knows you are carrying Arjun's kid).

Conclusion: - Why tell the truth to the D clan about Onir and about her past to Onir? Everyone is happy. The meeting of Onir and Purvi with the D clan will only bring a lot of trouble for Purvi. She has finally learned to be happy without her family why go back to the past that you have just walked away from. Besides, it is way too early to judge. We have to wait before we can say anything about Purvi-Onir because no one can say for sure what is their relationship except Ekta Ji.

Abhi a great post again u made my day thumbs up for u...
Agree that Purvi is liying to onir bcoz she doesn't want her past to hit her present track n coming to archana she is lying her bcoz of the pregnancy issue,as far as i know Purvi never lied to archu nor she kept any secret from her,Again in the show Ekta is trying to make Onir a bakra between Arjun n Purvi its just for TRP's nothing else..
@Bold underline part: Abhi do u think that Purvi has forgotten Arjun in this six months,i don't think so bcoz the fb scenes are going through her mind of Arjun n other side she makes loveable scenes with Onir,Damn this is really confusing yaar what ekta is showing us?

Red bold part: Archu writing the letters to purvi that arjun has inimiate with ovi n got her pregnant but why will purvi come back again here if she comes again Ovi will become mad n blame her,Purvi is happy with Onir thats better but i don't think this happiness will stay more.
PS:Negativity will let down the show ekta wake up show some good scenes this not goona bring Pr in top 5 shows...
Abhi i was loving that Sulo-purvi-archu track that was far better than this prego n trio love story tracks..
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Hi Ms. Shyamala,

I've enjoyed reading your PR today analysis in the past, thanks for all those wonderful write ups.

Just responding to this part of your post -

Originally posted by: sashashyam

Lastly, while it does not seem to bother many in this forum that Purvi is going to have a child out of wedlock (if in fact that is true, and I am NOT at all sure of that as yet, not to speak of hoping against hope that it is not true), it does matter to me. I defended her against all comers when such rumours about her surfaced months ago, and I would feel an awful fool now.


Listed below are just a few threads to give you a drift of the general mood of PR fans/viewers since the marriage fiasco and now the post leap and pregnancy track. You can see the disappointment, disgust, satire, quitting declarations and various other possibilities in them -

PR to take seven months leap

purvi and ovi pregnant ang pv to take 6 month leap

New Article: Teju's Love Triangle

What is wrong with everyone??? (Page 2)

Trish's satire thread - How dare you Arjun

Honest feedback from PR citizen. CVs please read


For a lot of us ArVians, the situation has been of resigned acceptance for sometime now. We've complained, ranted, suggested more logical ways but also realized along the way that Ekta and her CVs aren't willing to lend fans a patient ear (prime example being this recent incident - Ekta bans actors as their fans were flooding her inbox, declares on a social networking site that she will never work with Harshad Chopra or Aditi Gupta again

Those of us who're still watching this show could be doing it for many reasons - the actors (that's my reason - Asha and Rithvik), the shock value, as Archana said in another post here (PR Today: What a Mess https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/pavitra-rishta/3329567/pr-today-what-a-mess ), a daily soap to learn Hindi (perhaps 🤔).

I've thrown everything but the kitchen sink when it comes to Balaji CVs and their PR tracks in my various posts over the years. Their lather-rinse-repeat formula (love triangles, multiple marriages, children etc.) is annoying. I'll just conclude with these lines for my views on PR right now - I don't get to decide, so I choose go with the flow -

Apni Marzi se kahan apne safar ke hum hain..
Rukh hawaon ka jidhar ka hai, udhar ke hum hain...

Cheers,
Peaches 😊
Edited by peachesnplums - 13 years ago

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