Frustrated and Upset

Some people frustrate me. I'm so pissed off right now. Me and my so called best friend just broke up. You know why? Because of a guy. Granted, we should have ended our friendship long ago, because she wasn't exactly a good friend. But I was what, ten minutes late to go somewhere and pick her up she snaps at me. I was waiting for my mom, and I find my mom more important than her boyfriend who was waiting for her. This girl was like, oh you made him wait for so long. And I was just like... hello, you're getting a ride off me, so you need to respect my timings. Ugh, that's just one of the reasons. We were friends for about four years. I guess it's good that it's done, but I am very upset right now.

Originally posted by: amouramalika

I HOPE YOU Everything will be fine🤗❤️

Malika

Aww thank you! 😊 You made me smile! <3

Oh well...Do not be sooo upset abt this...Anyway, just know in the future when you back at this friendship, you will either miss those fun times that you all spent together or you will be glad that you are no longer friends! Or maybe tmr you all will make up and be friends again! I am soo not helping I know...

Hello hi there don't feel so upset unfortunately life is such 😔 - when boyfriends and husband's come in ones life everything else seems less important and hence lots of other relationships break down and we loose our friendship which is very hurtful 😡 - world has become very selfish and selfcentered and you have to be strong 😊 and anyway you have loads of friends on IF 😊 and you did the right thing your mom comes first 😊 - so cheer up dear and smile 😊 (by the way I have experienced it as well 😭 and believe you me it's not a nice thing to go through - hope this helps)

Originally posted by: Prasadini

Hope this will make you feel better sweety biiig hug from me to you and when ever you need a friend all of us ARYANS are there for you my sweetheart

Aww thank you Prasadini! ❤️

Originally posted by: akui1984

Oh well...Do not be sooo upset abt this...Anyway, just know in the future when you back at this friendship, you will either miss those fun times that you all spent together or you will be glad that you are no longer friends! Or maybe tmr you all will make up and be friends again! I am soo not helping I know...

Just that when I look back at my actions during my teenage years and those quarrels I had with my friends and sisters, they seem sooo trival and unimportant now...😉

Haha...

Thank you for the advice! 😳 This isn't the first time I had a break up with my best friend. I've actually had like a zillion break ups with them because I had a zillion bff's. This isn't even the one that hurts the most. I guess, it just hurts because it's like any other breakup. And all breakups hurt to some extent! I'll get over it. 😊

Similar thing happened to me. I just carried on with my life.