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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well hi every bodody and Good Day!

Whatever i am going to write here i straight from my heart. I will not add mirch masala to this post to make it lengthy so coming straight to point!

Delnaaz always keep in instigating on two thing 14 years of married life and 14 years of friendship . She keep on playing trumpet about her broken marriage and make this a point to be good books of house mates and viewers .. the fact is Urvashi is also a divorcee not only this she is mother of two kids whom she brought since the age of 17 years. People see her loud nature , her rude behavior , her dominating personality but why dont they feel the pain of this single mother who solely raised her kids and gave them good values. A woman who have to move in society alone and have to support her family has to be strong. She cant be meethi goli. This is male dominating society were if you talk sweetly to men they will take this in another way. Delnaaz has her brother her family to support her Urvashi's brother dont even speak to her .. reason is unknown and is her personal so we better not discuss on this. Delnaaz's ex husband still want to reconcile and whom she constantly treat like a street dog. Sorry this might sound bit rude.

guys my mother in law got separated from my FIL when she was 27 (they are not divorced) she had four children to raise , my husband is the eldest. She is as strong as Urvashi, she is as rude as her she is as dominating as Urvashi is .. and she is as fun loving as Urvashi is .. I can relate her in every way with Urvashi she is even as graceful as Urvashi is .. despite of strong outlook deep inside she is still like small kid who so wish that in past if things didnt get worst she also could have spend a normal life ... my MIL calls her self as "MAN OF THE HOUSE" and she behaves in the same way .. she is not a typical MIL and I blessed to have her ! She had suffer alot in early days but she gave her kids good values .. my husband says at times they didnt used to have food to eat twice a day but my MIL worked hard to give them proper education and her children gave all teh respect back to her now they all are very sound and well established ... looking at our life style no body can say that once upon time my MIL , my hubby and BILs ever suffered with low income... My FIL came back few months back my MIL beahved nicely with him but she made a point that she does not want a divorce but also cannot live with him now ... anyways things are veryt well MashaAllah I am leading a prince's life in this home MashaAllah and so happy to have this family as MY FAMILY ...

My reason to quote few personal things here is dont hate Urvashi but try to understand her reasons as well... If Niketan can understand her reason being aman .. why cant Aashka and Delnaaz do the same .. why are they so insecure .. what keep them stick to bitching agaisnt Urvashi?

Thats all from my side .. One request dont be sympathetic towards my MIL i didnt write abt her for this I wrote to prove my point she is living a perfect life after all the hardships she have faced may Allah bless her with all the best things in life ever after! Ameen.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I don't hate Urvashi. I do have a problem with Urvashi's fans who write non sense about other contestants in the guise of supporting Urvashi. A question - if you can excuse Urvashi for her snappy attitude bcos of her situation, why can't excuse others too? There are 4 stages in grief - Urvashi's divorce happened long long ago, she's gotten over it. Delnaaz, on the other hand is recently divorced (3 months back) - it'll take time for a woman (or a man) to get over traumatic incidents.

Also, I see a lot of people commenting about Rajeev-Del's marital life on this forum. I'm not saying you don't have a right, but you don't have any basis to do so. Del must have her own reasons for leaving Rajeev and she told us in one line & I think we should respect it. She doesn't have any need to talk about it on television. She doesn't have to justify her decision on the show - if she doesn't want to live with Rajeev anymore, she doesn't. You wanna judge her on her fakeness, blah blah and whatever else on the show, go ahead. But please respect someone's personal life. You can't take back what you say, and remember you're ruining someone's reputation. Let's not don the role of page 3 journalists
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Long post didn't read but I can tell urvashi is mahan and needs to be worshipped. will visit her museum when it is made.😆 on a serious note, we will have a dooms day if Urvashi is evicted.and how will her some of the blind fans react when/if that happens😲

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Here, I would say that Rajeev-Delnaz themselves invtied problems by participating in BB together...may be they are paid extra...but it was very much sure the day they signed the contract. that the dirty linen will be hanged in public...plus more than Pillu, Del has bitched about her marriage...pillu is just chasing her...and making a fool of himself.
I know this was the post on Urv..but it was comparing...so I am writing about Del
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramygirl

I don't hate Urvashi. I do have a problem with Urvashi's fans who write non sense about other contestants in the guise of supporting Urvashi. A question - if you can excuse Urvashi for her snappy attitude bcos of her situation, why can't excuse others too? There are 4 stages in grief - Urvashi's divorce happened long long ago, she's gotten over it. Delnaaz, on the other hand is recently divorced (3 months back) - it'll take time for a woman (or a man) to get over traumatic incidents.


Also, I see a lot of people commenting about Rajeev-Del's marital life on this forum. I'm not saying you don't have a right, but you don't have any basis to do so. Del must have her own reasons for leaving Rajeev and she told us in one line & I think we should respect it. She doesn't have any need to talk about it on television. She doesn't have to justify her decision on the show - if she doesn't want to live with Rajeev anymore, she doesn't. You wanna judge her on her fakeness, blah blah and whatever else on the show, go ahead. But please respect someone's personal life. You can't take back what you say, and remember you're ruining someone's reputation. Let's not don the role of page 3 journalists


Agree Urvashi's divorce happened long back but do you think it is easy for a woman to forget the moments she spend with her husband specially when they had kids together .. probably her kids remind her everyday about what had happened in past with her. secondly first Rajeev, then Delanaaz and now her dear brother has given people chance to talk about their past life by making things public. Instead of crying behind the back of rajeev Delnaaz could have snapped back it on his face .. Even Delnaaz has dominating nature (Ref: ZND and NB) then why all of sudden she is being so sweet .. ok rajeev is co contestant .. but you can ignore him .. the person who has no ties with her why she is being friendly with him in first place yesterday she said they could have use this platform and could remain as friends well the truth is you cant friend of person with whom you spend 14 years of hardship and then finally you got divorce from him .. it is not so easy atleast practically it is impossible but can be possible in long running serials and this not a daily soap like how Urvashi is being potrayed as a vamp and Delnaaz as sati savertri . I agree many Urvashi fans bash Delnaaz but whatDelnaaz Aashka and Sana fan are doing WITH urvashi????
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Posted: 13 years ago
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people don't have problem with Urvashi but her fans...now thats tacky..

nice post TM😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: amina.ahmedraza


Agree Urvashi's divorce happened long back but do you think it is easy for a woman to forget the moments she spend with her husband specially when they had kids together .. probably her kids remind her everyday about what had happened in past with her. secondly first Rajeev, then Delanaaz and now her dear brother has given people chance to talk about their past life by making things public. Instead of crying behind the back of rajeev Delnaaz could have snapped back it on his face .. Even Delnaaz has dominating nature (Ref: ZND and NB) then why all of sudden she is being so sweet .. ok rajeev is co contestant .. but you can ignore him .. the person who has no ties with her why she is being friendly with him in first place yesterday she said they could have use this platform and could remain as friends well the truth is you cant friend of person with whom you spend 14 years of hardship and then finally you got divorce from him .. it is not so easy atleast practically it is impossible but can be possible in long running serials and this not a daily soap like how Urvashi is being potrayed as a vamp and Delnaaz as sati savertri . I agree many Urvashi fans bash Delnaaz but whatDelnaaz Aashka and Sana fan are doing WITH urvashi????


I'm not undermining Urvashi's circumstances even once. And am asking you to do the same of Delnaaz. You cannot compare two people's problem at the same level. But let's stick to judging contestants for what they're on the show. Whether she wants to be friends with Rajeev or not, is upto her. Urvashi is NOT being "portrayed" as a vamp - her aggressive nature & snappy tongue make her look like that. Delnaaz is NOT being "portrayed" as sati savitri - her let-me-be-safe attitude makes her look like a doormat actually. If someone calls you saali moti in your face - will you keep quiet smiling? That's what Delnaaz did.
I haven't seen other fans bash Urvashi as much as Urvashi's fans. If anyone disagrees with Urvashi's behavior on the show, that's it, Urva's fans will pounce on them.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramygirl


I'm not undermining Urvashi's circumstances even once. And am asking you to do the same of Delnaaz. You cannot compare two people's problem at the same level. But let's stick to judging contestants for what they're on the show. Whether she wants to be friends with Rajeev or not, is upto her. Urvashi is NOT being "portrayed" as a vamp - her aggressive nature & snappy tongue make her look like that. Delnaaz is NOT being "portrayed" as sati savitri - her let-me-be-safe attitude makes her look like a doormat actually. If someone calls you saali moti in your face - will you keep quiet smiling? That's what Delnaaz did.
I haven't seen other fans bash Urvashi as much as Urvashi's fans. If anyone disagrees with Urvashi's behavior on the show, that's it, Urva's fans will pounce on them.


I am not making any comparison here i am just saying that Rajeev and Delnaaz themselves invited people to comment on their personal life by making it public. Salman was so right yesterday that if she or they had such problems why didnt anyone of them left the show and bid adieu.. after all money is not more important then self respect. Secondly who called Delnaaz Saali moti on her face .. Urvashi didn't atleast! and yes she is behaving like a doormat who remained as dummy no matter even if her friend sana was crying when Sapna was yelling at her about Vishal's issue!

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