I have posted this interview before also at this forum , but i guess it was ignored by Members. Rajev is correct, he is trying very hard to save this marraige. Please go through this interview , which was given way back in 2011. Baktiyaar is lair. Please guys rajev is not telling lies. U guys can even go though the twitter account as well , which clearly expresses his feeling.
I don't want a divorce: Rajev Paul
- TV actor|
- Rajev Paul|
- Delnaazz
Rajev Paul, in a chat with Roshni K Olivera, says he and Delnaazz are made for each other and at the moment he is fighting in court to save his marriage
Actors Delnaazz and Rajev Paul seemed like a happy couple until news of them filing for divorce came in last year. Recently in an interview to BT, Delnaazz said she was coping well and making an effort to positively move on in life. But Rajev has something else to say. He doesn't want a divorce and is hoping for a patch up soon. Excerpts...
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What went wrong in your marriage? Why did you guys decide to separate after 14 years?
The space in your paper will not be enough to explain my love for Delu (Delnaazz). I don't want a divorce. She has filed for it... I have been trying to make it work. I wish I knew what went wrong. For the past one year, my entire family and I have been trying to reach out to her and her family. I have called Delnaazz's friends, her co-actors, producers, directors, aunts, uncles, brothers, mother and father (he is no more). I have gone all out to reach her, but they said she doesn't want to come back.
But didn't the two of you decide to part ways amicably?
Not at all, I still want her back. It's sad our society believes if a man leaves a woman he's bad. If a woman leaves a man, he again must be bad. If the woman wants to come back, she's great. If a man wants to make it work, he's a loser. I am fighting in court to save my marriage. I want good sense to prevail over her.
But there surely must be a reason for her decision?
I wish I knew. I want to know one couple that does not fight or argue and does not have issues. I have always loved Delu, supported her, been the proudest husband and she has always given me due credit. She's been an excellent wife and a great friend. Life has its highs and lows and yes, I have been on a low where I was too depressed. I was in a phase where I didn't want to talk to anyone and that's when there was a communication breakdown. But that's an error of judgement on my part and I have more than tried to make up for it. I have gone and stood outside our other flat (her current residence) for hours. I have gone to her mother and begged, cried, tried to reason, but to no avail. Unfortunately, they all believe that I am egoistic and arrogant.Where is my ego when I am publicly asking her to come back to me?
Technically when is the divorce going to come through?
I will get her back... there is no divorce. I am speaking now because my silence was being misinterpreted and people assume a lot in our industry. Every religion, every law in the world gives a chance to the biggest culprit to make amends. Am I that bad? I am not saying I have done something to deserve this, but Delu is too dear to me to let go.
So now what?
I don't want to be negative and talk about who did what. Delnaazz has been the most important person in my life. You know Guide and Abhimaan were my favourite films but I didn't know my life would become like them...sometimes life does imitate art. But the good side is that in the end, Mr Bachchan and Jayaji did get back together in the film. I truly hope that we both do the same. We are made for each other. I am a small town boy, I don't believe in divorces. When you can't divorce your mother, father, brother, sister, why should you divorce your wife?