Episode 137 Discussion: 3rd Dec 2012 - Page 5

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Namzz

I watched the episode again, I know not everyone is happy with it but I liked it. It was heart wrenching to watch Madhu today but I guess it was needed. This episode was about Madhu's faith and trust in RK being tested. I found myself pleading to RK please get up and go, but more over, it would be a slap in the face the Bhatia's who think they know RK so well. Let me tell you, they obviously don't know the bond Madhu and RK have. Madhu's faith is going to bring RK to her, for the first time, someone has so much faith in him. It is bound to shake his very being. The three times, RK got hurt was when he had faith in the wrong people. Lets ask, is he going to do the same to Madhu? No, he won't. Bittuji's words and RK's restlessnes, his anger, is proof of his inner turmoil. He can't believe that Madhu would have so much trust and faith in him. Coz he thinks he is a Jaanwar and according to him he is not trustworthy...but that's where he contradicts himself. He is the most trustworthy person on this show.

I have to admit, I was in awe of Madhu's faith that he would come. Der se hi sahi but he will come. I feel that this episode re-iterated what RK has been scared of. His wife considers him her full husband and its scary for him but at the same time, this was needed to knock some sense into him. I would like to see the look on everyone's face when he comes and breaks her fast. To see that tomorrow, would be worth watching Madhu's agni pariksha for her genuine faith.

@Namzz, very nicely written, I really enjoy reading it.😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thanks Red! RK and Madhu ke chakkar mein hum bhi writer ban gaye😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: 0-SD-0


Zoe,

Liked it. 😊
Agree on the entire take. Feel the same.

@bold
Its like Dips was all along expecting it for Madhu to say it and so she ridiculed Madhu at her lagging. How did she say it...Bhabhi se Dipali ? 😆

@Shri, exactly right. She tried to steal Madhu's thunder during that scene. This was a great deal for Madhu, but she accepted it mockingly.
Also thank you for posting yet another wonderful post in regards to importance of humanity over rituals. Many times I have sensed that my culture has placed a great value over traditions, custom, and rituals while humanity has been pushed to take a back seat sliding further into regression.

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Posted: 12 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: Namzz

Thanks Red! RK and Madhu ke chakkar mein hum bhi writer ban gaye😆

You should write more often 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manonids


@ SD
Ufff ...and that soulful song on the two Sati Savitaris added more disgust to KC ...🤢...they could have saved the song for RK and MB instead ...Sigh ...

@ Priya ...u never fail to amaze me ..😆...Detailed analysis for this episode too 😲.😆


true ! all tht "ghar aaja pardesi" song playing in the BG was too filmy n overdramatic...🤢 disgusting actually
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Posted: 12 years ago
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SD & zoya can u explain me this im confused about that '.?

1)Are RK still love Deepli ? OR He thinking that he don't deserved madhu love?

in previous epi Deepali said to Rk she know she is only girl living in his heart. He only loved her '..( yah its looking true what Deepli said ) after Deepli RK not allow any ,girl live his heart ,😕

5 year is long time '.😔

It means RK loves with Deepali was deep & true love '..😔

RK still not love madhu

Means deepali is RK first & last love ?🤢

2) RK said he used his brain when choosing madhu, meaning she is a honest person, RK admitted that madhu is honest person than why not he believe her ..😕

Edited by maria_mahar - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: maria_mahar

SD & zoya can u explain me this im confused about that '.?

1)Are RK still love Deepli ? OR He thinking that he don't deserved madhu love?

in previous epi Deepali said to Rk she know she is only girl living in his heart. He only loved her '..( yah its looking true what Deepli said ) after Deepli RK not allow any ,girl live his heart ,😕

5 year is long time '.😔

It means RK loves with Deepali was deep & true love '..😔

RK still not love madhu

Means deepali is RK first & last love ?🤢

2) RK said he used his brain when choosing madhu, meaning she is a honest person, RK admitted that madhu is honest person than why not he believe her ..😕


Maria,
Every serious relationship when contact or original shape of it is non-existent, it then becomes a memory to us in time. Just a memory. Then some we are wilful enough to forget even the memories, so we destroy the physical items around that relationship such as tokens of love, gifts etc and sometimes, we change ourselves to. Still few memories have to be preserved just for sanity in order to know what happened to us in that phase of life and how I changed or was affected kind of factual requirement, its like mental case filing in the cabinet of our mind.

If the hurt around serious relationships is not replaced by good healthy feelings, things will remain pretty sticky, like sticky post-its.

RK three serious relationships made by his heart - parents and Dipali are a symbol of deception to him. He has made them memories. He destroyed lot of physical meaning for them. One is dead, second is metaphorically dead and third is living rememberance of how he could he have been a fool. So he is not laying importance on people, he is giving importance to the deceptive feeling he received.
Until his mind starts seeing new sap coming his way, that is bringing fresh perspective and making him see that he is not a fool, but a deserving candidate who had to go through all that pain to see a new found nectar of sweetness, he will not appear as normal person. So Madhu is that bringer of nectar, who is forcing him to drink it. He will drink it...

Maria, when understanding any character, we need to step into their shoes and understand them and when being analytical about their strengths and weakness, we step out of their shoes and talk about them. Becomes easy.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: 0-SD-0


Maria,
Every serious relationship when contact or original shape of it is non-existent, it then becomes a memory to us in time. Just a memory. Then some we are wilful enough to forget even the memories, so we destroy the physical items around that relationship such as tokens of love, gifts etc and sometimes, we change ourselves to. Still few memories have to be preserved just for sanity in order to know what happened to us in that phase of life and how I changed or was affected kind of factual requirement, its like mental case filing in the cabinet of our mind.

If the hurt around serious relationships is not replaced by good healthy feelings, things will remain pretty sticky, like sticky post-its.

RK three serious relationships made by his heart - parents and Dipali are a symbol of deception to him. He has made them memories. He destroyed lot of physical meaning for them. One is dead, second is metaphorically dead and third is living rememberance of how he could he have been a fool. So he is not laying importance on people, he is giving importance to the deceptive feeling he received.
Until his mind starts seeing new sap coming his way, that is bringing fresh perspective and making him see that he is not a fool, but a deserving candidate who had to go through all that pain to see a new found nectar of sweetness, he will not appear as normal person. So Madhu is that bringer of nectar, who is forcing him to drink it. He will drink it...

Maria, when understanding any character, we need to step into their shoes and understand them and when being analytical about their strengths and weakness, we step out of their shoes and talk about them. Becomes easy.

Beautifully explained, especially vis-a-vis context, Shri.👏
It is not helped by two of the three - Radha and Dipali - still under RK's roof, each of them trying to re-establish relationship with him.🤢
Edited by leelaa9 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: 0-SD-0


Maria,
Every serious relationship when contact or original shape of it is non-existent, it then becomes a memory to us in time. Just a memory. Then some we are wilful enough to forget even the memories, so we destroy the physical items around that relationship such as tokens of love, gifts etc and sometimes, we change ourselves to. Still few memories have to be preserved just for sanity in order to know what happened to us in that phase of life and how I changed or was affected kind of factual requirement, its like mental case filing in the cabinet of our mind.

If the hurt around serious relationships is not replaced by good healthy feelings, things will remain pretty sticky, like sticky post-its.

RK three serious relationships made by his heart - parents and Dipali are a symbol of deception to him. He has made them memories. He destroyed lot of physical meaning for them. One is dead, second is metaphorically dead and third is living rememberance of how he could he have been a fool. So he is not laying importance on people, he is giving importance to the deceptive feeling he received.
Until his mind starts seeing new sap coming his way, that is bringing fresh perspective and making him see that he is not a fool, but a deserving candidate who had to go through all that pain to see a new found nectar of sweetness, he will not appear as normal person. So Madhu is that bringer of nectar, who is forcing him to drink it. He will drink it...

Maria, when understanding any character, we need to step into their shoes and understand them and when being analytical about their strengths and weakness, we step out of their shoes and talk about them. Becomes easy.



thanks dear 😳 👏

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