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Posted: 13 years ago
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A perfect dilemma. That is what today's SNS was. What do you choose when you are caught between something you have worked for so hard and when your wife needs you? Which do you consider is the most important? Do you have to make a choice? If yes, what will you choose?

Add to this some manipulations by our back with a bang Rashi and that sums up the episode. Somehow, I did not even smile once. Not even once when watching the episode. Not when Ahem assured Gopi that he came for her and not when Koki made it her command that Ahem stay home. Certainly not when Rashi manipulated Gopi to say what she wanted to hear and used it cleverly and not when Gopi talked Koki into letting Ahem go. I could not and I do not know why

As much as I rooted for Rashi in the last few episodes, as much as I agree that it is good that she finally is coming to consider Jigar as her husband and thinking about him and his professional growth, I cannot reconcile myself and say, she was right today. I wanted to remove that smirk right off her face when she thought her plan had worked. Don't get me wrong. I again repeat, I have no issues with Rashi wanting Jigar to be successful but I have all issues with the way she goes about getting what she wanted.

First, I hated that she mentioned Gopi's mother again. Rashi has her mummy, we know. So is her excuse that she does not know what Gopi feels being an orphan? Is that the excuse? Has she not herself told her mother that they went too far telling Gopi about her parents death? She did that right? So how is today different? Bringing that up and using it was the worst Rashi could have done under the circumstances. Not only did Rashi use that with Gopi, she used it to make the only mother Gopi has known feel bad.. So bad that that person was moved to stop her son from going on a business trip. She made a mockery of motherhood today.
The worst part was that all her "You are my only sister" looks fake. I cannot decide if that is also part of her manipulation to get Gopi talking and I am leaning towards believing that. Can someone be so callous with another human being and their emotions? Can one not see just what they are doing wrong? 😕 Questions that keep bugging me when I see the manipulations happen and Rashi congratulate herself on a job well done🤢

It was cute that Gopi looked confused when Ahem insisted that she tell him what is troubling her😊 Gopi looked like Ahem was telling something that could not be deciphered and he was ever so caring. A phone call that made him rush home to be with his wife.. Ahem is trying to be the best of two worlds.. A husband and the businessman. He is just now finding out how difficult it is to be both.

That worry in his face as his mother ordered him to stay home. I know Koki meant well and I wanted her to tell Ahem to stay home but I consider her order a little too much. She was moved beyond control about the Mother comment and that showed in that impulsive decision. Koki loves her Gopi vahu more than any other person and you can see it shine through today⭐️ But Koki should stop interfering in business decisions. If Ahem says Jigar is inexperienced, he is.. That is the end of the matter. Koki has no idea what happens in the project to just command her businessman son to send someone in his place. She can advice delegation but cannot order one.

But still, we get to see just how important the project is for Ahem. The small smile when Gopi assures him that she will talk to Koki was proof enough and Gopi does as promised. She meant it. Totally.

Gopi is one of those scores of women who would not stop in the way of their hubby's dream. even if it means they will have to be content being with themselves. I salute her selflessness. In her position, I will not have such a generous heart 😊 That conversation with Koki got me today. Here she stood explaining to Koki what she was explained during the initial days of marriage. Koki was proud and immensely so. Gopi deserves every bit of love that is showered on her. 😊

The family readies to send their son on his dream project with a party for their anniversary. All's well and hence we need something to go wrong. Gopi does that in the precap by accidently pouring glue on project papers.

Ahem is angry and justifiably so. He does not have a copy and the original is a legal proof of contract. This project is so close to his heart that he has chosen that risking not being for his first born's birth. So it is a big project. His frustration is justified.

But it was an accident and Gopi did apologize. An apology that will be wholeheartedly accepted when he gets the copy of the documents back in hand. Will Ahem get in from Bhuj thus missing those moments remaining on his anniversary day? Irony that the year back, he wanted to wish his wife so badly but never got a chance until the end and this time... this time he has forgotten the day for his dream project. I hope his project is worth this investment😊

** Are the elder Modi women getting more lenient.. A day without work for Rashi🥳 It needs to be declared in the Guinness book of records😉
** I have a bad feeling that Jigar is going to be the one facing Ahem's anger next. The comment that Jigar is inexperienced.. Either that or it will be Jigar who saves Ahem from Aman. 😊 Whatever it is , I am looking forward to see JiHem in this track
** Ahem needs to go to Bhuj for the document. So Bhuj is in Kutch. Why cannot Ahem go the next day as he is making the trip anyway? I am really confused😕

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Wonderful post as always.. i'll b bak later to comment limited time since i'm on my break ...

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Rashi I haven't been routing for her ever since the Modi's let her in the house again she in this epi just proved how bad a person can be… never the less Rucha is a brillant actress no one better can b a be Rashi.. as much as we love to hate Rashi.. Rashi and her mum drama is wat makes SNS, SNS if you get my dift.

I felt that she mention Gopi's mum on purpose this person seriously dnt u have a heart or do u have a brain.. Gopi is your sister and no stranger to you yes Gopi doesn't hav a mum but she has her Maji 😃

In this epi all of sudden their Anni's are announced and then behold the precap.. I dnt know but I'm sure Ahem is sure to forgive Gopi.. This epi was fulled of Gohem scenes..

As there are only 8 epi's left till the 700th lets see how the cv's unfold the drama ahead.😃


Edited by Deepikz - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Harini wonderful post as always...you really explained so well 👏, I can't explain you how much I disliked rashi's act today...if she wants her hubby to get really succeed then first she needs to stop all these short cut ways...she can help, encourage and pray but should not manipulate in wrong way.,...first she should live a normal conjugal life with her husband leaving kks and cell😕...on the other hand koki she did not want ahem to stop from bottom of her heart, she just wanted her gopi bahu to get some peace at least this stage of life, she can feel her pain as a mother, that girl has suffered a lot, as a daughter, as a wife she never got things easy...even with ahem she faced so many obstacles in life, now this is the time she should get something good in return...koki just wanted to make gopi the first priority at least one stage of life...she wanted to make ahem realize that business goes comes, but the first experience of looking your baby, holding small hands and staying beside your wife is priceless...there cannot be anything more Important in life...koki just wanted to convey that message...like mother like son ahem accepted but by blood he is a businessman...he had worked hard..so totally obsessed about work,that is very normal for everybody ...but gopi, I liked her so much today...that scene where she convinced koki, reminding same things what koki said to her...that was awesome...I felt devo was looking too confident and calm...👏...and now she did a mistake , ahem's anger was justified , any human being will react that way...I also confused with kachh and bhooj...can only understand their going to be some drama...
Not to forget about kinjal falguni war, today I also felt falguni was doing everything deliberately otherwise why should somebody give change , I think she knows about urmi's nature and she was using that...urmi was like 😃 seeing 1000 note...urmi is the limit...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Good post ... love the way gopi explain to koki how ahem needed to going on this meeting ... what a wonderful wife she is ... rashi is nothing like that , even when she want jigar to suceed coz she is really doing it for herself.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Awesome post Harini
i too din't like Rashi coz for her husband's growth she drag Gopi mother her feeling
Gohem made for each other very lovable
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Awesome Post Harini 👏

First me to dont like rashi the way of KK 🤢 Rashi thinking wasnt wrong being a wife. Has worried n concern was all correct for jigar future. But the way she play KK was highly redicouls 🤢 she have no right to gets hurts some one feeling like this!! I hated!!

Koki pass the order it just for coz she knows in last stage of pregnancy how much one wife need has hubby. I agree with Anasuya 👍🏼 she absolutely correct. Koki just want see his son experiences the each n every bit of the stage. It is the lifetime experiences of hiim. But Ahem is Ahem bussniess is runs in his blood. This project is his dream project so Ahem all tenes n argue was obvious. He really want to go n look after his dream project thats y he looks happy when asure him. Or gopi did it 😉 nodoubt the way she convances koki was very appericatible.Koki all happy n proud to have vahu like gopi. 😳

but in last gopi did a attentionly mistake. Ahem Ofcourse his anger fully justfied this deal is really important for him or the legal documents more... How much Ahem is serious abt his work his anger shows us very well 😳

actually went to kutch for placing his work But coz Amaan is from bhuj or his office in bhuj. So thats y Ahem n Amaan will go bhuj for papers 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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today was a tense full on drama episode...nota feel good one but one to make us all curious to kn ow what comes next...I loved ahem rushing back to be with gopi and the way he talked to her and Goopi's confusion...and I absolutely admired Gopi's conviction in explain in g to Koki...Gopi has come along way...she is confident ...and slowly I see her taking over responsibility as lady of the house..in her position of elder bahu...she is managing her hubby on one side ..ma-in-law on the other ..
it was a great SNS episode...gohem scenes as usual a pleasure to watch ..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Awesome take on episode Harini...
its absolutely right on part of Rashi to wish dat her husband become sucessful lik his brother bt the way she try to do dat s wrong... jigar shld bcme successful by hisown hardwork nd nt by taking credit of someelse's work evn if dat person s your brother... Rashi always played with ppl emotions to get her way yesterday ws worse i wuld say coz she dragged gopi's mother into it... evry girl wishes her mother to be with her during this time nd Rashi purposely used it... it ws wrong...
Ahem was n dilemma bt as always Gopi cme for the rescue... bt i ws Happy dat one phone call frm Rashi nd he cme running to his wife... he s so concerned for her...
Precap felt sad for Gopi she dnt do it purposely neither did Ahem bt still he shld check his anger eventhough its shwn rarely nw...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Fabulous write up Harini... I too disliked completely Rashi's chaal in making Gopi say what she wanted to hear.. I am like..... why does she want to do it.. If she wants her husband to progress he should work hard and get the deal and work on it... Not that just because Rashi wants him to be a part of it, she emotionally hurt Gopi..But anyways this is not new for Rashi... crazy woman... 😡
Gopi still said that she has Maaji, Kaki ji and Baa she has not problems, but she wanted to hear from Gopi what she wanted to...
I also did not like how Koki felt when she heard that Maa ki mehsoos hoti hai.. what non sense was that.. For Gopi her Maaji is Maa...😡 .. How stupid CVs did not bring that in when Rashi did that..
As you said.. I was sad seeing Friday's episode...😔

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Great post Harini.

Gopi continues to show just how selfless she is. She had convinced her husband that she will talk to her maji to change her mind and send Ahem on his business trip and she had told her maji of not wanting to stop her husband from making progress in his life.

Ahem could have stopped Gopi but he did not. It tells that he really wanted to succeed in this business deal and that it mattered much more than his Gopi. Will he regret his action now much more after shouting at her for her clumsiness? Further his mind is clouded by this looming business trip and will be paying less attention on his anniversary. This should mount his regret further, shouldn't it?

If this business trip turns out negative as the rival article stated and the pregnancy being in the final days, Ahem will be facing tough times ahead.

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