Virat Vadhera - Silence is Golden...

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hello ji🤗

firstly apologies .. this is a stale topic ..as i should have posted it after Wednesday's episode..but here it is...

Speech is silver, silence is GOLDEN

we have been reading this all our life. In Wednesday's episode .this is proven... in fact speech could prove to be iron as well..while silence is always GOLDEN. Never think silent people are dumb...because the dumb are the one's who blurt out without thinking for once...

now coming to the post, it is about Virat in Wednesday's episode..., now don't frown in confusion.😕.and i am not any lost soul to make a Virat post when he did not speak a single word... yes, he did not speak a single word.. but for me, he outshines every other character in the show,,,in Wednesday's episode...

In the episode, everyone spoke, either right or wrong, each one of them hurt the other with their words..but this guy, VIRAT, maintained silence.. My mom tells me.."when you don't know the complete TRUTH "Just Shut UP" "

Virat did the exact thing. he was unaware of certain things going on between Karan, Maanvi, Viren and Inder chachu.. he is listening but not taking sides.. People misunderstand him to be dumb as a prop for not speaking a word during the entire time .. ***shaking my head***

But Virat, proved SILENCE is indeed GOLDEN..he was not judgemental and he doesn't wasn't taking sides .. he would have definitely ended up hurting either of them, had he taken a side..so he chose SILENCE...

When Virat has to do something, his ACTIONS speak louder than WORDS
and when he has nothing to do. he prefers SILENCE to WORDS
But when Virat is aware of the ACTUAL truth .there is no stopping him..he is the one to fight against all odds and is upfront and confronts people who are wrong and stand by the people who are true and innocent ..gussa wala Virat ***sighs***


He did not question Maanvi, for any clarification, near the dining table..and again proves that Virat, whenever he has to talk to her, he talks to her in their own little world..if he has to get angry . or if he has a question or if he has something to explain to her.. he will cease the moments in their own little world and not in the outside murkier world..

In fact,when the things go out of hand like near the dining table incident .. people witnessing it automatically end up taking sides.. but you need to have some profound inner STRENGTH and CONTROL over your emotions to remain SILENT in such a melodramatic scene..so Virat, as always proves..his character is one of the emotionally STRONG character in the show..

we have seen him being silent when the family were scolding Maanvi after the KC...since he was unaware of the truth ..that Maanvi saw SB's picture in Karan's house.. he did not take any side, either Maanvi's or Families.. as he is bound to hurt either family or Maanvi when he sides one against the other..

Virat loves Maanvi unconditionally period. but people wonder, if he claims to love her so much, why is he not supporting her or defending her before the family, . but here again it proves that Virat is not being judgmental and definitely not biased,.

he should stand by her, for the reason that he loves her endlessly .now that is stupidity and blind trust ..

Here he as person..is being mature and sensible and not an emotional lover boy who sides his love without knowing an ounce of truth ..because at the end of the day .if his wife is wrong . he shouldn't be supporting her in her wrong.. ..He should be able to think with his clear convictions and should be able to show her his views, if she is wrong..

He should stand by her side, to hold when she stumbles, this is TRUE LOVE, and companionship of wife and husband..

p.s: I know .. this is really a very much delayed post ' blame it on Thanks Giving holidays.. and as always time for some sense/fry pans,, btw ,, one of the shortest path ,,

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Phew! At last, I'm first this time :) So proud of myself!
First of all, di I am very angry with you 😡 HOW CAN YOU possibly say that this topic is STALE?
Anything that has VIRAAT in it, can never be stale. UNDERSTAND?

see, the thing with Viraat is that he believes that ACTIONS are way, way more louder than WORDS.
When he needs to prove a point, he SHOWS it, instead of blabbering nonsense for the sake of it.
If only he feels the need to speak, he does. Otherwise, he prefers to keep his views to himself until it becomes necessary to speak up.

When he was unsure of whether M was right or wrong, he remained silent. He scolded her only after her failed attempts to prove what she was saying, when she failed to come up with proof about her allegations. It is wrong to accuse someone without proof, and that's why he spoke up and scolded his wife. When he knew his dadaji was wrong, he shouted put loud and didn't give a damn to who said what unless and until he came out with the truth.

Truly, the man is so perfect, I fear he is an angel in disguise.

Edited by ..Ankita.. - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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awesome post.U r awesome whenever it comes to explaining about Virat's character and his actions.I usually don't give much importance to those wen i watch but wait for ur post to understand.( wat to do, dumb soul like me do exist in this earth😆😆😆).U explain Virat's action well than the cvs themselves.(Better i should get private tuition from u in understanding people and their actions , specially it would help me a lot😃). A very lovely post.
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As always..👏👏👏 Dont you ever berate ur writing skills again dii.. Not after this..**Rapunzel Rolling Eyes**

Why did not Virat support his wife Manvi? Simple.. He loves his wife but doesnt claim of her living in his veins or flowing in his blood. He comes across as every normal husband who fights with his wife & then takes her out on a date, to mend the small fight they had! That would explain why he doesnt trust her blindly!


Still the question persists.. Why he did not voice his support for his girl?

1. He was unaware of the whole truth.

2. The most important reason..If he talks, he has to take sides & who will he side wen he's clueless on the whole issue goin around? Also, Taking sides would mean he will hav to hurt the other party who's also dear to his heart. Balancing relations is quite a juggle, but wen it comes to Virat.. The happy-go- lucky-guy is more mature than the elders in the family!



Had Virat taunted Maanvi in front of the entire family, the Vadhera's wud've stamped her as the criminal for sure..So, Virat Vadhera did the best thing.. He chose to be quiet. But His silence wrapped around maanvi a protective layer, of his own love, shielding her from the piercing needles of doubt shot by his family!


Silence for that matter, can also be selfless love.. when it comes to Virat!


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: preetipc

awesome post.U r awesome whenever it comes to explaining about Virat's character and his actions.I usually don't give much importance to those wen i watch but wait for ur post to understand.( wat to do, dumb soul like me do exist in this earth😆😆😆).U explain Virat's action well than the cvs themselves.(Better i should get private tuition from u in understanding people and their actions , specially it would help me a lot😃). A very lovely post.


Hi preeti 🤗

firstly thank you for commenting here ... I see u liking but never got to read .. thank you so much for your kind words . appreciate it 👏

lol dumb soul.. i thought i was one dumb soul..😆 come on join me.. 😉



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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: munnihyderabad


Hi preeti 🤗

firstly thank you for commenting here ... I see u liking but never got to read .. thank you so much for your kind words . appreciate it 👏

lol dumb soul.. i thought i was one dumb soul..😆 come on join me.. 😉






I usually hit like in ur every post but always wonder wat to comment as i am very bad or even worse at commenting . I don't know how i picked up courage to comment today.😆😆Seriously would be searchin for words and thinkin wat to write.After all my words would not be enough for praising ur posts.(Ok no false praises but true one ok.) 😊😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Again u made me change my POV because of ur topic..😲
Excellent post..will add later...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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munni di once again amazing post 👏 di u always makes me speechless👏how do u write everything so beautifully🤗
amazing
mindblowing
excellent
brilliant
superb
awesumm
as usual brilliant post🤗
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Munni, huggieee for the post🤗

But then again Munni stop being humble and demanding sense and pans for such sensible posts..😉

And again do we need a Virat dialogue in the episode to write on a topic abt him...Virat is one who speaks more with his eyes...So you can obviously write pages just abt the way his eyes speak.

Not everyone talks in words... Silence is the language of wise men... And this for sure applies to Virat.. 👍🏼His silence did speak volumes... His silence conveyed what other people with their pages of dialogues forgot--- A closed mouth catches no flies. Why get judgmental and taunt people and then regret.

And love it how Virat chooses to discuss his differences with Maanvi in private..👏 This is a way of showing how he values their relationship and Maanvi as a person..He is never imposing.. He gives her his opinion and lets her decide... He gives her space in the relationship..He does not command her to obey his orders like how others do..

He did the same in yesterdays episode when she decided to quit the competition. He questions her on her decision and wants her to think over it, but does not compel her. He wants her to do things with her heart in it. Loving Virat more every day.

Virman relationship reminds me of this quote: To keep the fire burning brightly there's one easy rule: Keep the two logs together, near enough to keep each other warm and far enough apart - about a finger's breadth - for breathing room. Good fire, good marriage, same rule. --Marnie Reed Crowell

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..Ankita..

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Phew! At last, I'm first this time :) So proud of myself!

pat you back sweetie 😉
First of all, di I am very angry with you 😡 HOW CAN YOU possibly say that this topic is STALE?

Anything that has VIRAAT in it, can never be stale. UNDERSTAND?

yep understood meri maa... anything that has Virat can Never be STALE

see, the thing with Viraat is that he believes that ACTIONS are way, way more louder than WORDS.
When he needs to prove a point, he SHOWS it, instead of blabbering nonsense for the sake of it.
If only he feels the need to speak, he does. Otherwise, he prefers to keep his views to himself until it becomes necessary to speak up.

this is what sets Virat from the other male and female leads who jumps and conclude things with half knowledge .. and when Virat has something to show. no one can STOP him

When he was unsure of whether M was right or wrong, he remained silent. He scolded her only after her failed attempts to prove what she was saying, when she failed to come up with proof about her allegations. It is wrong to accuse someone without proof, and that's why he spoke up and scolded his wife. When he knew his dadaji was wrong, he shouted put loud and didn't give a damn to who said what unless and until he came out with the truth.

@bold - total unbiased character .. he loves Maanvi more than himself.. but if she is wrong she is there to point and show ...and scold.. and he did the same with dadaji.. for Virat .. he is not biased .. be it his wife or bua or dadaji.. if he finds the person erring he is there right before them .



Truly, the man is so perfect, I fear he is an angel in disguise.

hmm i feel the man is so imperfectly PERFECT with his share of humanly flaws


reply in pink hun 😛

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