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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ponny.. Me still waiting for you take😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -GiNa-

Awesome post Harini 👏

First thing... Im only sis of my 3 bro's.. And my 3 bro's are also ready to make my wish come ture or they did to my any wish of mine they fufiled with in mins... To be honest... When i was thinking for kinjal... Im wondering wht a kinda girl she is her bro are also make her wish come ture n shower their warm love on her... Exactually like my bro's... But i never forget their love in my whole like even when after my marriage to... Coz their love n concen for unforgetable forme... Same as my mom n dad... I accept kinjal anger on has family n all but it doesn't mean she forget everything... This is not the right way... has behaviour shows has redicoulsness.. If i have in her place so may be my anger was same but i never disrespect my family my mom dad n my bor's no metter wht they are ultimate for me 😊

I knows... Its such difficult to live in chal when u get used to many laxuiors n facilities but being a girl or when has married pass 2 years so now she have to accept the reality n live in wht she got... Esp she have to thankful n gretaful to Dhawal he such a angel... he always take has site in front of his fai n always tring to show his love n concen towards her but she were siting on a pik on patheticness 🤢 Kinjal as daughter, as sister and as wife are highly disgusting 😡 thats y i hate her most in SnS 🤢


Now back on My Naaz aya Ahem... Today Ahem as bro were simple incredible 👏 loved his gestures being ture elder bro 👏 or the way he taking stand against his mom n got ready to fulfil his sis wish n his promise were mindblowing 👏 Ahem always shows that how much he loves his little sis n how much he understand has condition n feelings 😳 just love his phone convo to... So gently n calmly he spoke with her or she throw stone of her taunts on him 😡 😡

Ahem as husband were also brilliant today ... The way he shows his love gopi n said ur the most easiest person who liked everything easily... 😳 or he holds her hand n shows his surity fo love towards her... Or other side when gopi saw has Ahemji in thinking mode so she holds his hand on her tiny hand were cho cute... N make sure him that Ahemji im always there for u in any such situation or in anyway... Today Gohem scene was just awww 😳


looking forwod to see koki plan n how she exciquet on Kinjal didi 😉


Aww Sherry🤗
Not many sisters can be like you and not all brothers are like yours but still the relationship that binds them is the same.

JiHem and Dhawal yesterday represented the ideal brothers gang. All the three had immense love and respect for their sisters. The sisters were all a different deal.

When one starts equating a relationship to just money or praise, there it starts unraveling. I do not say that money, fame, praise have no place in life but that should not take the topmost place in life. That is all😊
For Kinjal, the need to show Urmi that her family still cares for her has taken some ugly turns. For Rashi it still remains jealousy and unwanted envy. These two girls are never going to learn🤢
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: swasthi

Great post Harini.


What a contrast between the three women - in wants, desires and outlooks in life.

Just one thing to add.

Kinjal has reached this stage all because of the bitter arguments with Urmila. This ask from her is to settle her score with Urmila. The sad thing is that Kinjal is not seeing herself using her brother's as yet.

Sadly though that money, if eventually given, will be marked. Urmila has every intention of laying her hands on it.


Beautiful Swasthi⭐️
How can I not agree. Apart from Kinjal's bitterness, her need to prove to the goading Urmila that her family still loves her has become a driving force. Kinjal thinks she is showing the love her family has for her while not seeing that her family is not seeing this that way.
I hope that whatever lesson Koki is planning to teach Kinjal, she makes sure that Urmi does not lay her hands on the money😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: delsi

Harini i must tell you it was such a wonderful post
i loved it in my point of view
Kinjal feels she has been betrayed in the name of marriage, if a girl gets married from a high class family to a low middle class family it was obvious that she try to get money from their family to live a happy with money, but she din't realize the happiness is come from the relationship not through money.
Rashi i think she is not thet much bad coz, if we see constantly someone is praising other (Gopi) in front of her it ill make her fell jealous and that too influence of her mother make her worst, after marriage a mother should not interfere in her daughter's family matters that Cv is completely forget it.
i fell some time Gopi characher is over, coz every time it is not possible to go accordingly right path, the way she isgiving respect to her relationship was good but she need to realize what is right and wrong
Ahem is super duper husband, son and a brother he do wat to be done, he ill work to full fill all his duties towards his let us wait and watch how he ill play a role of father


Delsi, I accept and understand Kinjal's bitterness. All were at fault during her marriage but Kinjal was also at fault. She cannot keep blaming others and yet turn a blind eye to her faults Her realization, I hope is not too late.

As for Rashi, I will not agree. Urmi did not ask Rashi to be jealous of Gopi this time. Rashi in fact has got the most gifts and everything she desired for Diwali. A new sari, a pendant, anklets and then Dhawal's gift. Unfortunately she chooses not to see what she has but to see what Gopi has and is jealous. Gopi getting praised is just an excuse. Even if Gopi is not praised (like yesterday) Rashi is still jealous. That is Rashi. Hypocrite 🤢

I agree about your take on Gopi in some instances but yesterday, I loved her for understanding the basis of a bro-sis relationship. Sometimes it is good to be good. Gopi respects her and Ahem's relationships as her own. That is why she accepts Kinjal and the Modis as her own. She is able to blend in. If she had not done that Gopi will be Rashi, a girl who has not yet found her place in her sasural after 2 years😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShaunSA

Harini that was brill! 👏


Thanks Shaun😛
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Harini, that was the bestembest analysis!!👏 You said it all!!👏

As you said me too loved the confidence of kinjal in her bhai's love for her.. she was so sure that he will do anything for her😃 But what she did with that?!!😲 Really shocked seeing her weighing her brother's love in money!!!😲 The look on Ahem's face was really painful

But on the other side Kinjal wanted a clear victory over Urmi .. she really thought that money can make her a winner ... in a way she is right too!! With this pathetic act she can win over urmi, but at the lose of her family's trust ... The family, which loved her even after she let them down many times!!!

Rashi toh Rashi hai!!! as you said ,Selfish and self centered , these two words completely describes her 😉 yes nothing is taken away from her... But she wants everything!!! thats the problem... But I have faith... she will turn for good 😉

hetal is back with her 'jawa dena ,Kokila'...😛 But truely this time plz no jawa dena!!! This jawa dena only spoiled Kinjal... Its late now, but its always better late than never!!! Hope the Modi super ladies will show the light to Kinjal bhadakthi hui soul ... I so wanna see this for the sake of Dhawal bhai!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: dipsy80

brilliant post Harini! i love how you have drawn parallel between Gopi, Rashi and Kinjal...so much difference in all three!

its amazing that Ahem has changed completely being surrounded by Gopi's goodness since 2 years of their marriage while Rashi has lived with Gopi all her life and yet fails to realize her worth and see the error in her ways!Rashi sees Dhawal as her brother as he is related to him and does not accept any relation between Gopi and him..but her affection towards him is limited to the gifts he offers..it was Urshi's kalakari that got the poor guy married to this spoilt brat Kinjal (i am sure in their heart even Kohem regret Dhawal's misfortune!)...Rashi didnt even think of getting a gift for him and simply snatched Gopi's gift and gave it to him..the only reason she included Gopi's name while giving is because of the Modis' presence not because she wanted to (Koki knows but i really want Ahem to know how much regard she has for Gopi!!😡)..i couldnt believe that Rashi begrudged the gift that Gopi received from Dhawal..i mean how petty can you get!!!🤢🤢🤢
My heart broke for Ahem...it must be so painful for him to feel the guilt every time he sees Kinjal unhappy..yes in a way his failed relationship with Anita is responsible for where Kinjal is today..but Kinjal was no child..she finds it the easy way out to keep blaming the Modis for her so called dire straits but she herself is responsible for it..i didnt watch all the episodes in the Kinjal wedding track but she did lie about being pregnant and refused to marry the guy the Modis chose for her who was rich and capable of fulfilling her never ending demands didnt she 😡😡...its amazing that she insults and humiliates Dhawal at every chance she gets but the moment she sees him getting friendly with another girl it hurts her ego...does she expect him to worship the ground she walks on inspite of being so nasty with him!!! talk of being conceited!!!
i know that Koki's talk with Kinjal is really not going to yield any results other than another shouting match between mother and daughter..but Koki's punishments are unique..i am eager to know what she does to teach the brat a lesson!!
CVs have done well with this episode (poor Modis never get to celebrate anything in happiness!!!😭) but i hope they show Jigar or Gopi comforting Ahem...poor guy looked so sad when he agreed to fulfill Kinjal's promise..like he has failed as a brother 😭😭


Thanks Dipsy and what a beautiful reply 👏👏

Kinjal does have reason to feel let down Dipsy but she also has to realize and accept that she was not exactly an angel. Like she points her fingers at her family, she also needs to take a good look at herself.
Unfortunately Urmi keeps goading her and working Kinjal's biggest fear/weakness, the fact that her family does not care for her and that brings out the worse in Kinjal😕
Yesterday was just one example. Kinjal did expect a big gift at first and that was like a kid expecting Santa to bring back toys but Urmi raised the hidden demon in her and we have the result

Lets see what Koki comes up with. I feel for JiHem and their love for their sister. I hope there is a proper solution and no shouting match. I do not want to see Urmi smirking even if it is at Kinjal😡

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