Originally posted by: xx twisky xx
r u a bajaj fan?😆anways i agree with u sneha did some mistakes..so what?..that dosnt chnage the duty of a parent?..and no 1 can chnage the fact that sneha is anurag's blood...and she probably couldnt stop herself to go 2 anurag after all thats her real father..
This is where I disagree with u. I don't agree that sneha had to go to anurag , ignoring bajaj ,just because he happens to be her biological father. She had a choice- she could have chosen to continue calling bajaj as papa and anu as uncle. but by calling anu as papa, she insulted her relationship with bajaj. She killed that relationship.
i jus want to say that..prerna,anurag,bajaj are not doing the right thing at this moment..they both r forgetting that thr daughter has a life of her own too..no matter what she did to bajaj bajaj shouldnt have left her and the family alone to live in the streets..remember anurag is the 1 who said this..a child can do alot to the parent but a parent can never forget thr child..no matter hwat the child has done and is doing a parents duty is a duty and thr duty is to protect the child..and bajaj took incharge of it..
Why should Bajaj continue his duties towards sneha? She doesnt deserve it and he surely doesnt owe anything to her. What anurag said was in context of a biological child as the bond of blood stays on. But even anurag didnt care abt his adopted son shravan when shravan went to aparna. Anurag put a condition that he would take shravan back ONLY IF shravan ditches his biological mother. Till the time shravan was with his mother, anurag didnt do ANYTHING for him. Same applies to bajaj. and he didn't live any1 on street. His daughters are married n settled. Prerna was in jail . Tushar is married, and is working with anurag and if tushar-prerna choose to live with basus though they can afford to live elsewhere just due to sam's pressure, that cannot be called bajaj's fault.
and i dont think sneha has done anything rong..anurag is her father..and its normal for her 2 react like this.. but mayb she has hurt bajaj but that dosnt mean sneha shud be punished like this.
He hasnt punished sneha. He has only let her go because she gave his place in her life to someone else.
every1 makes mistake bajaj also maked mistakes hiding alot of things form prerna..but did prerna leave him?..no she didnt..thn why shud he back out of his relationship with sneha?..
Bajaj didn't go calling someone else as his 'wife' , the way sneha went calling anu as 'papa'. Bajaj apologised very sincerely several times to prerna before she finally forgave him. Sneha doesnt even realise she has hurt bajaj.
prerna made a vry big sacrifice and hats off 2 her but bajaj and anurag are not good parents..especially anurag..
Bajaj is a fairly decent Dad. especially he has been perfect Dad to sneha before she ditched him. Agree with u on anurag though..he has let sneha down.
so no 1 is"dood ka dhula hua"and if a person like yudi can be loved why not the druggie sneha?.. i think its about time anurag supports sneha because at this point he is her father..bajaj is not there so its his responsibility to get her on the right track..no matter wat it takes..yudi has done alot more den sneha u dont hate him? right y u hate sneha????? u dont think yudi has treated bajaj any better do u?..he made him leave his own house.. and hurted him alot too..and anurag aswell but theyboth didnt back out..den why shud this happne with sneha..prem is not any different den sneha..they both hav done alot against thr parents..but that dosnt chnage the fact that they are thr parents..and they shud do soemhting abt it..
Somehow, I dont hate udi because I dont even expect anything positive from him. He never lived with bajaj anyway. and he was always the bad guy. But sneha..she lived with him for 30-32 yrs. and then she just threw him away like a used napkin once she found her real dad. She is horrible. Maybe Prerna and anu can help her if they care to. But Rishabh Bajaj doesn't need to do fatherly duties for her as sneha ended their relationship willingly long back. Since this isnt a blood relationship, it CAN be ended, and sneha ended it. Adopted relationship is like marriage in the sense that the bond is of love, not of blood. But like- a marriage can be ended with a divorce, or when one partner finds sm1 else, and then - husband-wife dont have any duties left towards each other. This is similar. So now Bajaj isnt responsible for her state. It's entirely sneha's and anurag's problem.
Mangal Lakshmi
