I like Purvi - i like her gutsy attitude - which has of course been mellowed. I have never thought of Purvi as being a sanskari or a mahaan. I feel that she just wants to please her family and that she is willing to take the brunt of the bad as long as her family is happy. Does that make her a sanskari or mahaan? i don't know. i think she is someone who just wants her family to be happy.
Anyway, I think Purvi was wrong in giving up Arjun - i think Purvi should learn that sacrificing your own happiness does not guarantee happiness in others. I think Purvi should learn to weigh things and do according to what is for the greater good. Giving up Arjun was not for the greater good because Arjun really loves her and she does love Arjun. I can understand her wanting to do things for Arjun- she after all does love Arjun and as she is not a mahaan or a sanskari in the pure sense, she does follow her emotions - she has given up her love but finds it difficult to follow it through 100 percent - that's where Purvi shows her human-ness. So let us not put her down for that. She never claimed to be a sanskari - she gave up Arjun yes but at great cost to herself- if you reflect back, she never showed that she was happy - her unhappiness was apparent to all -
and that is where i feel Archana, Manav and Dk have failed as parents. Immediately after the marriage was revealed to the people, Vinod has said the adults must help to rectify the mistake the young did - unfortunately the PARENTS did not pay heed to this statement. Instead of helping to rectify - that is - making Ovi understand where she went wrong and making Purvi understand her mistake and giving a tight slap to Arjun for not manning up!! - they instead compounded the whole situation by accepting the marraige!!!
So people, i do understand if Purvi does make overtures of showing her love for Arjun - she cannot help it - she is only human. But i know she will never overstep the boundary or her limits. unless of course the CVs/Producers want to make a mockery of all relationships!!!