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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: angel_111

Love the way u put it but I guess Leadership is not by gender , I have seen women who take better dicision than men at times. I guess it should be situational who ever can take charge at a point should be taking charge and the other person should just follow suit ..

I take my words back .. You know when I said I love the way you put it .. I think I did not read this well enoug .. But now when I do .. I DONT agree with what you say ..

Women excel in every field .. every step of life. Women were not meant to follow men ever. They were supposed to walk hand in hand. WHy in the world would a man make all decisions ?? I am married and its not my husband or me who take any decision alone. It never works like that in educated families.

I can name you wayy to many women leaders. not in politics only but go to any IIM and you will find wayyyyy to many women leaders. GO to any company and you will find women taking important dicisions .. No way is man meant to be a leader .. Leadership is in no way Gender specific.

Edited by angel_111 - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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i m a women too . i am not MLS or a male chavinist.i just believe that wife is the better half of her husband.she is the one who guides their married life. i said men to become a leader and i also men should serve their husband. NOONE is superior to anyone .i think both are equal. we should stOp imposing our views on anyone else.

jaskiran11

DO NOT MAKE SUCH individual POSTS IT IS EMBARRASSING AS WELL AS ANNOYING. SECONDLY I AM NOT A MALE BUT A FEMALE. I AM NOT A CHAUVINIST.I AM NOT AT ALL FILTHY .NEXT YOU THINK OF EXPRESSING YOUR VIEWS CHOOSE YOUR WORDS CAREFULLY .YOU MUST DISAGREE WITH ME BUT MIND YOUR LANGUAGE. I JUST SAID WHAT I BELIEVED .

angel_111
NOONE IS SUPERIOR TO ANYONE. I LOVE THIS SHOW TOO AND I DONOT AGREE WITH MLS .BUT IF U THINK I WILL SAY FEMALES ARE SUPERIOR TO MEN I AM SORRY. RAHI GENDER KI BAAAT TO KOI EK GENDER DOSRE GENDER KE BINA SURVIVE NAHIN KAR SAKTA. AND I THINK NOONE CAN DISAGREE WITH ME ON THIS.i believe both are equal and decision male ya female driven nahin hota . decision sahi ya galat hota hai chahe vo koi bhi le male ya female. agar male decision le aur female use female hone ki wajeh se disagree kare(thinking that she is stupid) then its is wrong. and agar female male ke decision pe usko stupid samajh ke decision manne se inkar kare then this is wrong too. i believe shadi mein husband wife should talk about things so that life turns out happy and fruitful not frustrated.

instead of getting excited and jumping to conclusions read my post again and try to understand what i wrote. I HAVE NO INTENTIONS OF OFFENDING ANYONE BUT I EXPECT THE SAME FROM YOU.

Edited by fear_of_luv - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
#13
I am not excited fear_of_luv, but what I commenetd was on these lines :

"I am helping him become the man, the husband, and the leader God intended him to be. "
God never intended any one to be a leader or a follower. Be it in the Human species or any other species. All I wanna say is women are equally good leaders as men and men can be as good followers as women.

-Peace

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Posted: 18 years ago
#14
I am totaly agree with soap-fun. Specially when live in joint family, man wants his wife to do eaveything and not complain or not to change their rules. They not to hear anything against their family eventhough it is true.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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angel,
admi ki ego female ki ego se badi hoti hai.they are physically more powerful.this gives them a sense of superiority.which is wrong .but at the same time it is true. agar tumne koi bhi religious book padhi ho to u will know god has roles defined for men and women.it i s good to accept and deal with thing rather than imposing ur views and argueing over them.
i have accepted men are physically more powerful. magar ur strength ko kaise use karna hai vo mujhpar depend karta hai.men have strength i have brain. balance .men are mor practical .female are more emotional.

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