Ek Hazaaron Mein Meri Behana ?????

Ek Hazaaron mein meri behana hai - what does it impart, so different and unique in terms of the relation between two sisters ? .Right from the 1st episode it intended and showed in making one sister the bhagwan to the other sister, by forgoing her unborn and save her sister . Is this the whole intention of the story from the diya scene in ganghat to BMT.. that ek hazaaron mein meri behana hain .. is to save a sister from death by sacrificing her unborn..

but in all this, there are innumerable demises, of the basic foundation blocks of human relations .. the trust, the support for her sister , protecting (not about BMT) your kid sister, standing by your your little sister, understanding her intentions ..on a .day to day basis... where there is unconditional love.. wouldn't you care to give an opportunity to your sister to explain herself.. don't you want to believe in her words.. don't you see the truth in her eyes. don't you see through the intentions in her heart ..

but in trying to glorify this single objective of the show, a sister saving another sister,I say that particular track is the spinal cord,, but what about the sensory nerves .. .they have missed out big time on the basic things, between the sisters.. where is the implicit trust? where is the firm support ? where is the protectiveness (I don't want to talk about BMT here ) ? where are the convictions.. her decisions are always influenced...where is the pillar of strength ? where is the understanding ? what is the priority of your sister in your life ?

If you go by the title one in a million sister,... let's see how the sister's trust, her support, her belief and her convictions in her choti behen are shown '

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It was jeevika's inquisitiveness,,, she asked Mannu about Maanvi's reference to Karan over the phone.. Maavi explains .. Jeevika is all ears to Maanvi's conversation without a question .. As and when she speaks of Swamini bua.. Jeevika drifts back to Viren's words.. to stay away from swamini bua...

and lo and behold.. instantly her interest in Karan's topic takes a backseat and she harshly tells off Mannu, to stay away from Swamini bua...and be a bahu and not a jasoos... If she is an elder sister. she can as well explain Mannu in a relaxed way..but aisa kaisa karegi.. di hain na.. no, maa hain na.. Maa doesn't try to find out the whole truth .. Maa doesn't believe her kid.. she just tells off coarsely 'she doesn't explain to Maanvi that Virenji does not want Maanvi or herself to get into SB's issues.. there is utterly NO TRANSPARENCY in their relation ..

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huh, really...there are more than one instance, where she proved who is number 1 for her, it is Viren ..but it is Swamini bua..more than Viren...

In today's episode, . as and when Maanvi speaks of Swamini bua.. Jeevika drifts back to Viren's words.. to stay away from swamini bua...her inquisitiveness,. her eagerness took a U-turn and she stood against Maanvi and told her off ..all because of Viren's words.. Is Maanvi number 1 for her di,..

In chachu's case, she took her husband and her in-laws side... and did not give a chance to the poor girl to explain, Here Maanvi is definitely not on top of her list...It was the choice she made to not trust the real intentions of Maanvi.. as she never cared to look at Maanvi's intentions...

After Virat and Maya's break up - she was against Virat and Maanvi's friendship.. because she was more worried and concerned about what the families think, specially swamini bua- she was thinking from their perspective and not from Maanvi's perspective.. here again, Maanvi was not at the top of her list .. she told off Mannu to stay away from Virat, never tried to understand or listen to what Maanvi has to explain... because, she might end up agreeing with Maanvi and going against her family ..which she did not want to...It was her own choice to stand against Maanvi..she stood against her husband.. because she cares more of Swamini bua and her izzat.. reminds of Kashish and Prerna.. .. in this where is the ek hazaaron mein meri wali behana.

during VirMan wedding, she ran away from her gudiya's wedding because bua was angry with her .. ohhh so you did this for bua,, tab toh Maanvi is not number 1 in your list

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hum hamesha saath rahenge, aur hamesha kay baad bhi:

why ? why do you want to stay with her so that you can take care of her as you are concerned for her?? really ??

today, in all this she makes a revelation that it was SB who first thought about Mannu's health perspective, If you are her di/Maa .. if she is your bachchi ..why did she not think of Maanvi's health even before SB thought .. this is not Ek hazaaron mein meri behana essence. the very dream of having her sister married in the same house, came true and now she does not even think of her Mannu's health perspective until swamini bua reminds of it...Is this the essence of Ek hazaaron mein ..

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Mujhe Mannu ki bahut fikr hain..,,
Ohh yeah .let's see how much fikr you have.., in today's episode.. she did not want Maanvi to be involved in SB's case.. reason is not that Maanvi might stress herself and exhaust herself..causing a physical and mental drain.. she never said "Maanu stay away . as you will be unnecessarily stressed out .. " there was no CONCERN for Mannu or her health .. .. it was a mere one sided decision, where she has to follow her husband's words..

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is it true .. is this how much you know yourself... your aatma.. aatma..keheti hain..can't she see what is in her soul ..
and please if people defend J's stand today, that she wanted to save Maanvi from any untoward trouble from their in-laws, then forget it ' if it is such a strong love for your sister over 20 years.. you will have the inner strength to stand against your family.,. your husband and support your sister.. instead of admonishing and telling her off, like a little kid..

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yeah technically for saving her life forgoing her unborn.. Maanvi is her bacchi..but will a mom leave and run away from her beti's wedding .. and for whom.. for swamini bua,.so here Maanvi is not number 1 in her list, proved...

Maa will always be concerned about her kids . wherever she is ..the thoughts of her kids will always be on her mind.. then why was it that Swamini bua had to remind about Maanvi's recovery and her health..why did not her maa/di remember it...

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Inder chachu's case:

Forget about ek hazaaron mein meri behana.. any sister, who loves her kid sister, would understand her, trust her, stand by her..during chachu's case..
forget about trusting her Mannu, she did not give the poor girl a chance to explain herself..
forget about standing by her Mannu.. she was the one who stood against her Mannu and asked her to get out
forget about supporting her Mannu. she was the one who walked away running, when her own Mannu came to her di to seek some support, to believe her..to trust her.. was her di, the pillar of strength ...
If she was her mom, like di.. Mom's never are so harsh on the kids ..for a simple issue.. she realized her mistake only after Inder chachu tells her... until then she was hurt for telling off Mannu..but she never tried to know why Mannu did what she did in that situation
If she is bhagwan ' she should know the intentions in Mannu's heart.. without any explanations
If you believe your sister is 1 in a million ..you will side her and protect her against the whole world.. couldn't she stand against her own husband and his family .. people find the inner strength to protect the loved ones because you trust them implicitly ,. here she did not trust neither did she support her nor did she gain the inner strength to stand against her newly found in-laws

All she cares is about her husband and his family - aakhir SPA mein favorite bahu jo jeethna hain na

Ek Hazaaron mein meri behana hain - really huh, except for the abortion and BMT track.. I do not see the essence of EK Hazaaron mein type feeling .. where they claim to love each other beyond anything '

love is not about HUGS and KISSES and tears and giggles... love is all about the implicit trust, understanding the unsaid words..standing by each other in times of dire.. protecting each other in dire..caring and being concerned for each other..

In all this she stood as a true sister, only one other time, other than BMT, she stood by Maanvi's side , making the family agree to Virat and Maanvi's marriage ' I applaud that. but she could as well do the same during chachu's case and even now with respect to SB ..

Overall the creatives tried to create more and more drama..by giving up on the basic things.. Why is it that should scold, or tell off Mannu .. just because she is elder .. why couldn't she sit and try to talk or explain by giving proper reasoning .. she did not tell, for once that Virenji did not want them to inquire further into SB's past.. where is the TRANSPARENCY between them.. ?? Is this the unconditional LOVE between two sisters without TRANSPARENCY and TRUST andUNDERSTANDING ?? ***rolling my eyes**


p.s: well do I need to care for sense or pans today.. . because it is all about Munni badnaam hui😛...highlighted in blue not in pink for obvious reasons😛

i reallly wonder how many times maanvi talked about bua in front of J...only twice till now,...