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zeezee55

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Posted: 13 years ago

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On reflection and after seeing subsequent events, and I hate to say this, i now tend to agree that Ovi does love Arjun a lot - selfish though it may appear - but she loves him enough to fight for him, tooth and nail...

Sadly Purvi has not shown that she would do her all to keep Arjun's love, to safeguard Arjun and to protect him. At the first sign of distress, she willingly gave up Arjun - she did not care that Arjun loved her and that she supposedly shared the same depth of feelings - she did not care that she was destroying Arjun by forcing him to marry Ovi.

For Purvi her family is more important than her own happiness or love - but she failed to realise that in sacrificiing her own love and happiness, she was also sacrificing Arjun's love and happiness for him - in other words she decided for him. She failed to realise that she had no right to force another person to sacrifice. She put her family's so called happiness above Arjun's happines - and that sends warning bells that should Arjun and Purvi get together- she will continue to place her family's happiness over Arjuns . In fact, no man will be happy being married to Purvi because she will always place him second - to her mother, her father, her sisters - her everybody. She will never consider her lover/husband as top priority.

Purvi - i think its time you step back and think what is right and what is wrong.

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-LiveLaughLove-

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Posted: 13 years ago

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I think Purvi needs to have an AHA moment( if any of you watched the Oprah show then you know what im talking about)

She needs to have self-realization and reflect on herself she needs to sit down and examine all the deeds she has done in the past few months and how it has affected others and herself.

Ovi may put Arjun in front of everybody.. but heres my pov on love, love should not make a person loose their senses.. and love is also another name for trust and understanding...

I used to feel bad for Ovi becuase Arjun nevr gave her any closure he never talked to her one-on-one about his decisions and that he would always be her friend.. but the fact that she went to blackmailing made me loose respect for her... when she blsted at Arjun after seeing Pics of Arjun and Purvi at a wedding it made me upset, she didnt even give him a chance to defend himself...

As for Purvi.. I think her decision was wrong.. but in a way it was justified. In Purvi's eyes Archana was more than her mom she was a n angel who had saved her from a horrible life, she gave her love, and shelter. Her whole life Purvi had heard/seen her mom longing to be with her family... She saw all of this and tried her best to reunite her with her family but her falling in love with Arjun made it worse...

I think she felt to an extent indebt to Archana for all she had given her, and she was instead making Archana's life worse by leaving her and further seperating her from her family...

What went wrong with Purvi's decision was this it was her decision to leave Arjun... but who is she to tell Arjun to marry Ovi?? by emotional blackmail... I also lost some respect from Purvi then..

I still have hope for Arvi.. slightly... I want to see Purvi fighting for Arjun this time though and go through that self-realization process.. and feel jealous of Ovi and Arjun... She needs to go through that...

I feel as if if Ekta wants them to reunite them.. the only way she can make their bond stronger is if Purvi fights for the love this time.. because then it would be useless a person cant decide when they do and dont want smeone in their lifee

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JShiv

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: bhallarox

Hey jonelle hope u dont mind me quoting u.😊 I totally respect ur opinion and even I agree that nothing is wrong in Purvi loving her mother. But however what I feel is that she has given Arjun pain. I haven't watched PR lately but a little before I stopped watching Arjun was having to go thru a lot of pressure, living in a chawl etc. As u said he was showing true love for Purvi when he did all of this for her but unfortunately Purvi hasn't been able to reciprocate. Ovi, on the other hand, as selfish as she maybe but she has always loved Arjun. She has always put him before anything, I believe she even sided with him against Soham-Vishnu. She will support Arjun thru thick and thin like a loyal wife should, I would not call it an obsession necessarily. Purvi, on the other hand just hasn't done anything for Arjun or anything to prove that she loves him.

Hi ballarox i don't mind at all you quoting me😊. And i totally respect your opinion as well

My take on life and love is not easy. I am taking a page out of my book and i am talking here from experience. I was cheated just like Arjun was cheated by Purvi i will say she cheated him and so has Ovi who claims to be his best friend. I could have fought for my love as well or do the same thing Ovi did but at the end of the day it was wrong and i know that if i do so i will be unhappy cause the person i was gonna fight for was in love with someone else and i respected that so i let go and at first i use to cursed love but i never gave up hope and today i am happily married with my husband the person that i never taught i would have gotten marry to and then i realize that we don't always get what we want in life. But i am more than happy to have someone in my life that loves me more than anything and appreciates the love i am giving him. Yes sometimes you have to fight to get what you want in life but cheating to get what you want is totally not acceptable. Ovi didn't fight to get Arjun she cheat to get him and that's the truth she might be supporting him but only if she is benefiting from it.

Purvi is no one to decide for Arjun i agree with that but Arjun has a mind or his own he don't have to keep doing everything Purvi tells him to do he is a man and needs to put his foot down when needed.

Purvi did the same thing Archana did Ovi came to Archana with the very same deal and Archana refused to accept it cause she knew it was wrong. Purvi on the other hand accept it cause she knew that this might be the last chance she get to give her mother the one thing that she preached about for the past 18 years so Archana tries to protect Purvi happiness and Purvi did the same for her aai whatever Purvi is doing she inherited it from her mother the woman who sacrifice and shed tears 24/7 After she hurt the ones that cares for her. And i can't remember Ovi doing anything to prove her love for Arjun either other than plotting and blackmailing her way through if that's how you prove your love to someone you say you love. And if Purvi and Arjun gets reunited i too will love to see her proving her love and fulfilling her promises and accepting that what she did to Arjun was unfair she has to understand that when making such decision she cant expect others to go with what she decides Ovi too needs to understand that getting what you want in the wrong way don't always last its bound to fall to pieces. Arjun too needs to decide for him self and stop letting two sisters tramp on him.

Blaming one in this triangle is not fair cause all three did what they did fully well knowing the consequences.

Sorry for the long post i get carried away😊

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crazygirl4RD

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: jonelle

Archana put fourth a condition but it was up to Arjun to accept it or not he chose to accept the challenge to proved his love for Purvi.😊 Purvi never ask Arjun to prove his love to her he chose to do so? That's true love.❤️ People are saying that Purvi only loves Archana but to be honest i love my mom more than anything in this world and i would have done the same if i was in a position Purvi was in. Choosing her mother's happiness dose not mean she don't love Arjun But she was in such a position she had to give up her happiness in order to save her mom's happiness and by doing that Arjun was crushed.🤢 she made a decision to get Ovi and Arjun married Again the decision was Arjun's take it or leave it he take it so i don't know about anyone but i know that she love's him and it will be proved someday if the two are meant to be together. Who wouldn't want to see their mom happy??? At least she didn't do it for her own selfish happiness unlike Ovi who thinks only and only about her self (the sole reason for all this crap in the first place) And even if she doesn't love Arjun like many of you say she at-least love someone her mother but Ovi love's no one but herself and sometimes i wonder if she love's herself cause who will want to marry a man who is madly in love with their sister??😲 only mentally sick people right .Purvi don't have to prove her love to arjun cause he knows how much she loves him 😛 Ovi's lust or obsession or madness whatever it is. Is genuine love in the people's eyes who support her cruel and sick intentions which i will never called her love for Arjun cause its pure obsession she will never change for the good she will remain spoil selfish and evil as long as people continue to support he wrong doing

Just my POV😛

agree jonelle.👍🏼.greatly said... 👏 👏 👏 u r right n it was ovi who took the oppurtunity of her parents divorce to get arjun...if she was so nice she would have united them with out any deals n other stuff. JLO is self centered... n i love the last lines about ovi's obsession... i m waiting for the day when cvs show us that purvi has proved her love...

n ya it was archana who told arjun to prove his love... now she can say it to ovi too..

n if ovi loves arjun let her prove her love , lets see what she can do for him..only she cares is that arjun should be with her only n no one else.. 😲

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Kalapi

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Hey jonelle hope u dont mind me quoting u. I totally respect ur opinion and even I agree that nothing is wrong in Purvi loving her mother. But however what I feel is that she has given Arjun pain. I haven't watched PR lately but a little before I stopped watching Arjun was having to go thru a lot of pressure, living in a chawl etc. As u said he was showing true love for Purvi when he did all of this for her but unfortunately Purvi hasn't been able to reciprocate. Ovi, on the other hand, as selfish as she maybe but she has always loved Arjun. She has always put him before anything, I believe she even sided with him against Soham-Vishnu. She will support Arjun thru thick and thin like a loyal wife should, I would not call it an obsession necessarily. Purvi, on the other hand just hasn't done anything for Arjun or anything to prove that she loves him.

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Besides, Bhalla there is a fine balance, being a daughter and then becoming a girlfriend/wife. Then, it isn't necessarily one or the other. It becomes important that this girl manages all her relationships without necessarily letting one down. It is great Purvi loves Archana, she also confessed of loving Arjun. But, when a real challenge came, she just left Arjun stranded, emotionally forcing him to marry someone else without even giving him a choice. That then becomes high-handedness. If she had a conflict, shouldn't she have solved it involving all of them, instead of becoming God and deciding the course of action single-handedly. Is that the true definition of love for even a mother? Not in my dictionary. Purvi's love for Archana is also a form of obsession that she can't see beyond her….

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Dabulls23

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

Jonelle I am sorry for your heart break sincerely. I dont think you would have been so understanding if you were dumped by your ex for your sister..Or your sister got involved with your fiance.

We all go by our own experiences...Yes I agree Ovi put a deal forth...She was also cheated by Arjun completely and by Purvi to some extent. Purvi should have never continued this relationship after knowing the fact Arjun was engaged to her sister Ovi..but Sulochana and Archana both supported this wrong relationship...I am not saying falling in love is wrong...But in this type of situation one must be really careful...Arjun and Purvi both made this grave mistake...They should have worked on curbing the feeling as it was all new and fresh..Understood the complexity of families, relationships and business between two families Deshmukhs and Kirloskars..

Although I am happy you found someone who loves you with full heart and cherishes you...I bleieve in if you love someone than you let them go...But that is in real life...This is fictional story. One fights hard for their love and friendhsip...Ovi chose to do so and Purvi let him down when it came time to prove her own love for silly mother who is not worthy of this type of sacrifice.

No mother in their right mind would take one daughter's side over the other and support this ArVi relationship..

WIth that I am sorry for your hurt but so glad u found your soulmate and true love..God bless..

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Shruthi

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: 2407
As we all know that Arjun truly loves Purvi because he had proved it. But how can we say that purvi also does?😕 She never proved for it. Instead she always gave sadness to him. Firstly she denied the love for Arjun. Then she gave a tight slap to him. And now because of her Arjun was forced to marry Ovi. Now it is the time for purvi to prove her love😊

whats left to prove yar?? everything is over... its tym for her to repent nothig else...v all need to prepare to accept arjun-ovi not to expect arjun-purvi again😭...no signs of their reunion nw...

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Dabulls23

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Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Sona 2 fabulous post..👏

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Julie

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Posted: 13 years ago

#19

@2407

,,,,,,but there was one other option for it,she could have done something for bringing true face of savita and sachin,but she wanted to become TYAG KI DEVI..

That line above is what I was thinking while reading the posts. Sona, you have said it. All she had to do was speak the truth on behalf of Archana who was also trying to be Mahan by fulfilling Sachin's wishes.

I don't think that I could ever be the spouse of people like Archana and Purvi. They both need to live in some Ashram on a mountain far, far away from mankind

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