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Posted: 12 years ago
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LONG POST, FORGIVE TYPOS

It is darkest before the dawn and yes happiness is all in the mind.

I was in two minds whether to write this post or let everything and everyone be. Then I decided that when the whole forum is unhappy about the current situation, I thought even if I could show the other side of the coin and a different perspective to people who are willing to see the brighter side, why shouldn't I try.

My post today is not about facts, but about two fictional characters who have managed to make a place in the heart of millions, Khushi and Arnav. And no I am not gonna compare characters for what they are and what they have become but for what is happening and what MIGHT happen.

Khushi Kumari Gupta (Singh Raizada)

The ever bubbly happy go lucky girl falls in love with her forced husband, adopting his lifestyle and habits , so much so that today she has started thinking like he used to and vice versa. A girl who believed in fairytales and was rudely brought back to reality to take a look at the practical life, now she only believes in harsh reality where there is no place for a happily ever after.

They say that u see and believe what u wanna see and believe. The mind and heart being in a dilemma whether to trust the good conscious or the bad one. When we are being pulled in a self made whirlpool of doubt, we chose the latter only to be plunged into darkness and walking through a long black tunnel where even a ray of hope or love and re-assurance CANNOT wake us up.

We are lonely, feel that we are being driven away from our loved ones, and chose to suffer alone, untill the break of dawn, which pulls us out of the dark abyss and helps us regain our lost faith.

Arnav Singh Raizada/ Now Khushi's Arnav

The guy who has withered many storms in life and believed to see only the worst side of everyone and everything, meets his soul mate in Khushi , who changes his beliefs and he now believes and sees only, the happily ever after.

The guy is head over heels in love with his wife and yes, it is a beautiful feeling to be in love. There is no right and wrong when people fall in love, he is so happy with his current situation that he believes all is well. He is married to the love of his life, according to him his personal life can't get better, with Khushi by his side, he is enjoying time with his family and an old friend sharing memories which he probably had forgotten and could never accept that he cherished.

Yes, the man had a painful past, but he fought and made a place for himself in this big bag world. But at the same time , he is human and lived his life too. Going to college and dating and playing games , unlike the popular belief is normal for teenagers, however, we do forget that even as teenagers we are all different, we might be reserved but that doesn't mean that we can't have a few close friends.

He has lived a life, a life where he worked and studied , had few friends but that life was a big FARCE( read Lavanaya ), untill an angel came along and touched his heart bringing him back to the real life, making him feel wanted and loved.

He is in a happy state now , a bubble where he is with someone he loves and trusts and knows he is loved back unconditionally, so much so that he is oblivious to his wife's sufferings. At the break of dawn his bubble will burst, he will realize that the only person he loves and trusts, doesn't trust him enough, even though he has cleared his stance. What will happen? Breach of trust and that a happily ever after was never meant to be.

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While penning down this characterization I have only kept the current and future scenario is mind. Please do not read too much between the lines and yes, unlike Khushi and Arnav , pls see the bigger picture.

PS: Its just a show, has to end one day, so chill. I am online and PM for queries.




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Posted: 12 years ago
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Res let me read first

ok...first of all awesome description of characters nishi!! especially what each of them are going through at this present time...each of their state of minds you described it perfectly.

U do know on tuesday i was very upset with arnav and in fact mad at him as i saw khushi broken and teary-eyed. but when i saw yesterday's episode, i realised what khushi is feeling is hidden within herself, its her inner turmoil and conflict...for arnav when he cleared his stance with her, he thought everything was again fine in his life. but he never realised that he did not squash or reassure khushi of her fears. i honestly wish he did! I would be lying if i say i like how arnav is for the past two episodes..because i dont i wish atleast for a minute he paid attention to khushi, i want to see back the arnav who only had to look at khushi's eyes to know the truth she is hiding inside...i want that arnav back (i am confident the day is going to come real sooon). honestly i dont care about Sheetal...whether she is positive or negative...all i know is that she is going to play cupid! but i care about my arnav and khushi!!

n now when khushi is going to distance herself or when he sees the second dna report...all hell is going to break loose. and at that point of time the intense passion,anger, hatred will come back. They are not fairy tale lovers to have an happily ever after..they are star crossed lovers who will have to go through all these conflicts to strengthen their soulmate bond!!happily ever after definitely right now...they both have to understand each others status right now :-):-)

i am loving this part of the track!
awesome post yet again!!thank you!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thanks for the PM yaar.

I understand khushi's feelings completely and I am able to relate to what you have written.

With respect of Arnav, I have few conflicts yaar.

Yes, the man had a painful past, but he fought and made a place for himself in this big bag world. But at the same time , he is human and lived his life too. Going to college and dating and playing games , unlike the popular belief is normal for teenagers, however, we do forget that even as teenagers we are all different, we might be reserved but that doesn't mean that we can't have a few close friends.

He has lived a life, a life where he worked and studied , had few friends but that life was a big FARCE( read Lavanaya ), untill an angel came along and touched his heart bringing him back to the real life, making him feel wanted and loved.


Regarding this part, I disagree!!! He had a painful past! Going to college, dating, playing games is not a problem here at all! ASR having a girl friend is not a problem. Because, he had Lavanya as his GF in the last year. So, sheetal being his GFs is not an issue. But, currently, they are showing as if he had some "emotions" attached to her during the college time yaar. This is so much un-asrish! The person, who lives for his Di, doesn't share anything with her. But, will he share things to his close friends? ASR is supposed to be a person, who does not believe in any relation and the only person, who mattered was Di! So, "close friends" concept doesn't work for ASR yaar!!! That is the main problem. Even if he has many GFs, he was portrayed as if he was never emotionally attached to them (Lavanya). But, in recent episodes, when he said to khushi that he thought it was love n then found it is not n broke up, shows like he had some kind of feelings attached to Sheetal, which is not the ASR that was shown! Another point is let him play. But, isn't he the one, who wants to always win? Wasn't he the selfish, ruthless man?? Him letting someone else (Sheetal) win in his college days after dark past seems totally disconnected. Like I said this negates the bet he lost against khushi during sangeet. We all thought ASR has lost for the first time and wanted to let khushi win. But, now it is shown like he did the same with Sheetal too. This gives us a disgusting feeling yaar. I think from audience point of view, we are thinking it this way only.

I understand he will be broken when he realizes khushi doesn't trust him enough. I want to see that arnav but will it come soon and last for long is my issue. I wish it is not just a 2 min apology n a patch up scene.

buddy. ur PS looks scary. I know it is just a show.. but, i can't see it ending yaar. please don't talk like that 😭
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Posted: 12 years ago
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A girl who believed in fairytales and was rudely brought back to reality to take a look at the practical life, now she only believes in harsh reality where there is no place for a happily ever after.

meets his soul mate in Khushi , who changes his beliefs and he now believes and sees only, the happily ever after.


yesterday i felt like cv's done a role reversal between arnav and khushi...for khushi now seeing is believing..she is just like asr in past..and arnav- he refuse to see the truth and lives in a bubble; just like khushi did in past..we are heading towards another heart break..this time is for each one to understand the other one's pain...as we all know we can't get the depth of pain till we suffers it..arnav will understand how it feels when the person whom you loves don't trust you..khushi will realize how it feels when the person whom you love breaks your trust..sometimes bad things lead to good things,may sheetal track makes them to equate trust to love,just as arnav said...


Edited by arshiii12 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Beautiful post. Will reflect on it before writing any more... thanks
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The last part of your article tugs at me the trust part

my question is will Arnav understand that khushi has the same insecurity like him of loosing the one she loves the most thats why her trust is waivering its not this khushis arnav she is not trusting its the Arnav Singh Raizada the ruthless man before and his past htat she is not trusting

i hope i have made it clear


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Posted: 12 years ago
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trying to stay positive but irritating shit-all makes me forget everything... my ability to think ! n at that moment i just feel like breaking the tv ! 😛
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Posted: 12 years ago
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All right guys many if you wanted me to KNIW my opinion ABIUT ASR -SHEETAL SUPPOSED EYE-LOCK

well I fell it wasn't an eye lock at all. SHEETAL was defo looking at ASR but if u see the scene carefully, ASR saw her for a second which is obvious don't we see people when they comes front of us..but he then took the ball from her and moved on...

Becoz ASR is used to women falling at his feet and he doesnt really care...the only one he cares ABIUT and the one who has captured his heart, is Khushi...SI my opinion Rabba ve is for arshi and will die with arshi.

PS thanks for comments in the previous post and yes, I am surprised myself, two posts on two consecutive days..but the positivity has to start somewhere.

Cheers
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: chowna

The last part of your article tugs at me the trust part

my question is will Arnav understand that khushi has the same insecurity like him of loosing the one she loves the most thats why her trust is waivering its not this khushis arnav she is not trusting its the Arnav Singh Raizada the ruthless man before and his past htat she is not trusting

i hope i have made it clear



Don't worry and njoy the ride...ASR is unpredictable.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ESR8

trying to stay positive but irritating shit-all makes me forget everything... my ability to think ! n at that moment i just feel like breaking the tv ! 😛


Eishita dear ...u talk to me off line ...n think positive.

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