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Dear Ovi,
Please stop this constant whine. Your incessant whines for your ill conceived thoughts for the past few weeks are getting on my nerves now.
In this very forum, it was written that -
- No one put a gun on Purvi's head for her to sacrifice Arjun, and,
- No one put a gun on Arjun's head and asked him to marry Ovi.
I would then write,
- No one put a gun on Ovi's head and forced you to marry Arjun too.
You married Arjun.
Arjun did not come and ask you to share your husband with Purvi,
Purvi did not come and ask you to share your husband with her,
So, why this 'I cannot share my husband' rant now?
Arjun is not making efforts to reach out and meet Purvi. Neither is Purvi doing it. They are happening to meet. If you do not know, then try to find out. If you cannot find out then trust what you are being told by the husband you so wanted to marry and married him.
If you had so much of an issue, who asked you to marry him knowing fully well that Arjun and Purvi loved each other? You claim you were in love with Arjun and you could not give him up and hence wanted to desperately marry him, that was when Arjun kept telling that he never loved you as a life-partner. When you knew that Arjun-Purvi loved each other, then you also should know how difficult it is forget their love. If one-sided love was so difficult to be forgotten, then two-sided love should be doubly difficult, isn't it?
That rainy night, on the hill-top, when Purvi was ready to give up Arjun for you to marry him, why did you not talk to Arjun and fetch a promise from him that he will never talk/see/meet her ever again in his life? How could you enter into a matrimony with a guy without hearing or knowing anything from his side? Why are you crying about it now?
The 1st mistake was to want to marry a guy who does not love you and had told you so innumerable times.
The Next mistake is not to know what his stand was, before entering this matrimony with him.
Now, either stop whining and accept what is being served or believe what the husband of yours says and make the best of the marriage.
-Bee.
Please stop this constant whine. Your incessant whines for your ill conceived thoughts for the past few weeks are getting on my nerves now.
In this very forum, it was written that -
- No one put a gun on Purvi's head for her to sacrifice Arjun, and,
- No one put a gun on Arjun's head and asked him to marry Ovi.
I would then write,
- No one put a gun on Ovi's head and forced you to marry Arjun too.
You married Arjun.
Arjun did not come and ask you to share your husband with Purvi,
Purvi did not come and ask you to share your husband with her,
So, why this 'I cannot share my husband' rant now?
Arjun is not making efforts to reach out and meet Purvi. Neither is Purvi doing it. They are happening to meet. If you do not know, then try to find out. If you cannot find out then trust what you are being told by the husband you so wanted to marry and married him.
If you had so much of an issue, who asked you to marry him knowing fully well that Arjun and Purvi loved each other? You claim you were in love with Arjun and you could not give him up and hence wanted to desperately marry him, that was when Arjun kept telling that he never loved you as a life-partner. When you knew that Arjun-Purvi loved each other, then you also should know how difficult it is forget their love. If one-sided love was so difficult to be forgotten, then two-sided love should be doubly difficult, isn't it?
That rainy night, on the hill-top, when Purvi was ready to give up Arjun for you to marry him, why did you not talk to Arjun and fetch a promise from him that he will never talk/see/meet her ever again in his life? How could you enter into a matrimony with a guy without hearing or knowing anything from his side? Why are you crying about it now?
The 1st mistake was to want to marry a guy who does not love you and had told you so innumerable times.
The Next mistake is not to know what his stand was, before entering this matrimony with him.
Now, either stop whining and accept what is being served or believe what the husband of yours says and make the best of the marriage.
-Bee.
Health and Fitness
Anupamaa
CID
