i pity Mr Arjun kiloskar - Page 7

in this case ovi is also running behind arjun like a love sick puppy ,wagging her tail..😈. n at the end of the day Arjun only loves purvi whether ovi agree or not... he is just struck with a spoilt brat like ovi for some time... n then he will be free... 😳

Originally posted by: ambolove

I thought it was made clear anyway that Arjun does not feel anything for Ovi 😕

He feels only for Purvi, the first and foremost person that he feels for the most. It's been made very clear in Pavitra Rishta.

It's love again. Arjun loves Purvi, love makes you do wierd things and even then you will be blissfully happy that you are in love, That's just the way love works.

By the way I've never seen bliss on Ovi's face, not the type of bliss that you see on indian serials, when a person in love is looking at their beloved.

Originally posted by: ambolove

Actually I am disappointed with Ovi in this aspect. The thing is Ovi was not Archu's boss so why should Archu call her 'Ma'am'?

In my opinion that showed that Ovi was boasting, had too much pride and was showing herself as above others. Remember this was at a time when I hadn't seen much of anything else on pavitra rishta so I was unbiased on most of the characters.

If I was the boss of a middle aged lady, I would not tell her to call me ma'am, It's disrespectful. I'd rather respect an elder than the elder feeling scared enough of me to give me such a title. It's fine if they say it of their own accord but forcing someone to call you by a specific title is silly and childish. In fact I'd rather have my elders calling me by my name.

It's the manner in which Ovi told Archu to call her ma'am is what got to me and then she had the nerve to give Archu 'the look' too.

Regardless of what we have, we're all humans and I would have rather had the CV's kept that part out of the way, if they had I would have respected Ovi alot more. Same goes for Soham, If he hadn't dragged Archu in a disrespectful manner, I would have also respected him more too.

And please don't give me the 'Ovi is spoilt so we can expect that from her' argument. Plenty of people in my family are spoilt, got what they want and never had to worry about a thing, least of all money but they still respect our elders. Because being spoilt and being taught manners are two different things.

Originally posted by: anoosree

@anoosree:superb post

i totally agree

ovi never had tld purvi to get her married to arjun there and there,it was purvis fault

ovi herself was surprised

ovi is so much into make up and everyting,and every girl wants to look best on their wedding,but purvi dint evn gave her a chance to get ready properly

Originally posted by: crazygirl4u

ovi is n was running behind arjun when he clearly told he doesnt loves her... n arjun can go behind purvi coz he loves her deeply n she too...n he even told ovi clearly about that...

what so ever at last arvi will be together.. not that ovi with arjun

Originally posted by: radha_krishna

I am sorry but you sound like a sexist to me! I hope you remember that if Purvi was selfish she would have never let arjun marry Ovi at first place. But she placed parent's happiness before her's. So that rules out the fact she would never ask arjun to leave his dad even arjun's dad also knew about purvi's good qualities. So get your facts clear mr/ms sherma! and yes love makes everyone a puppet like practically! and you cant control that as its natural.

Originally posted by: sherma

Respect our elders-this is exactly wat i meant,who was archu for ovi,a strnger and her fathers employer

ovi have alwys shwn reapecting,savita,damodar,manav,vandita,dk-who were her elder

soham language is bad,wich i dont like

calling ur boss daughter madam is not wrong,it was archu fault who was trying to b friendly

archu used to call ashna as ashna madam,although archu used not to wrk in dk company

Originally posted by: ambolove

I know very late reply but:

Calling your bosses daughter Madamis fine but if for example I am the bosses daughter and you are the middle aged woman and you accidentally called me by my name then I wouldn't look at you with a beady eye and look ready to slap you whilst at the same time saying something like 'Er...That's madam to you and keep that in mind' I remember she had a go at archana for being late and it wasn't exactly polite either. No, If I was in her position, I would have let archana know in a more subtle way whilst asking if everything was okay, at the end of the day elders are the ones who WE should look up to and in a way THEY are OUR bosses, giving us advice and guiding us, therefore I in particular was upset with the picturization of Ovi's characterbecause of that.

Having said that though,Ovi HAS mellowed down ALOT since then.

I just like Teju alot more, even with being rich, she's just so down to earth and respectful. She doesn't differentiate and show people that she's better just because she has more money.

Having more money doesn't necasserily mean that you are given full right to demand something with no respect.

Talking about Soham, at the moment he's doing what Ovi USED to do, so maybe he'll mellow down in the future too.

(Slightly off topic) 😕As for Purvi, it's beggars belief why she was waiting for her soham dada to save her, and letting a dirty oldman touch her face, I would have either run OR looked around for a sharp object to hit the guy with OR given him a tight slap on his face. But standing there? I know shock can do odd things but no way would a self respecting girl just stand there WAITING for her brother to do something whilst getting harassed. I guess this is the start of the downward spiral of Purvi's character. The old Purvi was a fighter.