Yes, it seems like they're changing everything they "promised" the viewers, just like the promises in the serial 😳😔
It has become a love triangle, not the story of a girl... what are they really trying to show? Adi and Sugni - a match made in heaven? but what about Amrita? 😭 Perhaps it was not meant to be for her, not everybody gets the one they love even if they put in their all into a relationship.
Sugni seems to be blinded by her emotions, and maybe... just maybe, not thinking straight? She's rushed into something else (sardakhai, marriage with Aditya, etc) just so she could destroy Vikram's place in her heart? She doesn't want to run away to some far place because she still does not want to live on anybody's charity? But! I suppose marrying somebody gives the right to their money, so it won't exactly be charity 😳😒. Where has the old Sugni gone? But then again, not everybody has only one side to them. Trauma and hurt could bring out a side to somebody that even they may not have known existed? Sugni doesn't seem to have very good coping skills, so she became self-destructive and the like. she was betrayed by the first, as far as we know, person she ever liked/loved... then again, it's also a question if she
really loves Vikram since he
is her first chance/try at Love... (Although not saying the things she did were right, cause it makes me cringe). 😒
It's true though - she could have returned the sardakai money Adi gave her, but that would mean taking away her family's happiness... especially since there's a new little baby boy in the family who will need... things. But, I don't understand then? Couldn't Adi help them get jobs, and perhaps they could give him back most of his money (because Sugni saying not wanting to live on charity and wanting to pay Adi back... it would take her her whole life... doesn't this put an unnecessary burden on Aditya who may be touched by the gesture but not exactly Want that? and didn't he tell her to help him get Vikram and Rewa back together? I don't really see anything that they are
trying to do this... let alone even sit down with Vikram to try and talk through this instead of telling him what and what not to do) and Sugni could pay the smaller amount that they have of his, while working in some far away place. But anyway, one may say, why should
she have to leave her village... but then again, she was doing that before Vikram confessed his love to her.
Oh but ! Vikram might follow her there, and create all Hell of course ! the obsessive handsome, foaming-at-the-mouth man that he is! 😲 (I love him, by the way). He might stalk her with that gun of his and say, "admit it now, Sugni! you love me, your eyes say it, then why not admit it? you can't run, hop, swim, scoot yourself away from me! why are you doing this, Sugni? WHY ARE YOU MAKING EGGPLANT OUT OF ANGER!!" grabs her hand, drags her to a nearby temple, shove sindoor on her forehead and declare their marriage.
So... running away is not an option.
True, Sugni could have refused Aditya's acceptance to getting married because he felt sorry and thought what happened to Gulabiya was his fault, and that she thinks he didn't keep his promise. Sugni seemed to, however, get a sign from God (played by the writers of this serial) that she should marry Aditya. As anyhow, if Gulabiya passed away, she would have passed away in sorrrow, feelings of betrayal, and pain that her daughter may never get married (and whom was hurt by a very bad, evil, sadistic, maniac, scarf-loving man)... so in all haste and hurry and not-thinking-straight impulsive behavior, they two got married... and became pati-patni.
Spite could be seen when Vikram grew pale at seeing the sindoor on Sugni's forehead, and she confidently spoke "blah blah my PATI blah blah... blah. I'm off limits now. blah my pati ... blah." and he later says "you being married means nothing to me" So, I suppose the marriage spontaneous solution didn't work! (although it may work somehow later in the serial, granted by the writers) And now, Sugni is further disgusted by this lunatic of a man (I love his character from the beginning by the way, did I mention that before?) who has no limits!
They are in such a splendid mess. Rewa loves Vikram - Vikram loves Sugni - Sugni married to Aditya even though she doesn't love him but eventually will as far as this serial seems to be going - Aditya loves (or not?) Amrita but is now bound by marriage to somebody he doesn't even like... for life. but then again, he could divorce can't he? or he now has responsibilities and will assume these responsibilities just like how he told Vikram should fulfill his responsibilities and be with Rewa, and not do chase after Sugni. But, he can't be with Amrita now either... only as friends, but Amrita loves him? a married man now who told everybody that she's his friend (just so a lie could be covered up because then he woudn't be able to fulfill Gulabiya's vachhan).
So, where and what is the real blame here? is there blame? should fingers be pointed at somebody? Seems like every finger is pointed only at Vikram. Shouldn't some fingers be pointed at Gulabiya and Aditya's vachhan? *points fingers at vachhan* but one may say, that vachhan came about because of that crazy & dangerous Vikram. But remember, them blaming somebody means all the other fingers of their hand are pointed back at them too.
It seems they are caught in a snowball that seems to be rolling down a snowy hill... heading for what, we'll see? it's been building a WEB OF LIES !!!
I've no idea where I was going with this... 😲
Edited by octopie - 12 years ago