Originally posted by: elasingh
Sukanya, my views on Jagia are very different than urs. We all are product of our experiences and also what we see around us.
I m fully on Jagia's side. I have never considered his marriage with Anandi as real. He had no say in it. Yes he consumed his marriage without really understanding the seriousness of it. I teach teenagers and a few of them are married. They really are immature lot.
I also feel that Anandi's pain has been glorified in this serial.. Yes he ditched her, married someone else(thinking it was legal) , accused Anandi for miscarriage etc. Gauri also shouted at her. All this was was humiliating and insulting to her but it was not ugly. So I don't hold Jagia much wrong here.
But Jagia was wrong when he washed his hands off Gauri over somthing so small. It shows he lacks sticking power and cannot sustain a relation. He also cannot face adversity after a certain period of time.
When Jagia came asking for forgiveness, he should at least not have been insulted. There is communication gap between father and son.
When Jagia said "Dard Anandi ko mila, lekin use uski bharpoor keemat bhi mili" , he was right.
Jagia needs support and care but family doesn't know how to give it to him. I m not talking abt financial support but emotional support.
@Elasingh, Yes,your perception of Jagya is quite different from mine. We do look at characters the way we have come across people in our lives. It is true that he was married when he did not know the meaning of it. But,it was a marriage nevertheless. When he grew up and fell for Gauri ,he was an adult and he knew what he was doing. If he decided to go ahead with Gauri,he should have done the right thing by annulling his marriage with Anandi. You do have a concern for a person with whom you have been so close in your childhood, to know exactly what happened when you decided to dump her. He did not love her, did not find her his equal,no issues. .But, he did like her as a friend so it is only expected that he would have taken care of Anandi when he decided to part ways. He should have taken some steps to see that girl does not suffer the humiliation of being abandoned by her husband. He could have ensured a better future for her. He did not understand the meaning of marriage with Anandi,but, Anandi also did not understand it either! I think, a failed marriage for a girl who lives in rural India with little or no education,is a punishment beyond belief. Had Jagya taken some steps to alleviate her sufferings,things would not have taken such an ugly turn and getting forgiveness would not have been so difficult. His absolute disregard for others and their sentiments made things difficult for him later.
Anandi was lucky that she had a very understanding and considerate in-law. It is hard to get such understanding people these days. Her pain was not glorified,it was the pain of an abandoned wife and I found them quite natural. Later on,with the help of others she gathered her life and tried to set it right,which is commendable. But, a suffering is a suffering and a loss is always a loss.
As for Jagya, I find,his character is inherently weak and he is clearly indecisive. But he is supremely overconfident which led him to make blunders after blunders.
Having said that,I do respect your view point and thanks for responding to my request.😊
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