My POV Paridhi's Rude Behaviour

Hmmm...I have a different POV on Paridhi...

Originally posted by: akui1984

Hmmm...I have a different POV on Paridhi...

I think she is justified (to a certain extend) in her outburst with Prateik..She basically echoed my thoughts...She could not understand why the whole family puts Yash on a pedestal and carter to his every whimper...Actually when I was watching the show, I was also thinking if I have such a bro-in-law, I would probably care at first but after a while I would prob be indifferent esp when he goes on and on abt how he cant talk abt what made him angry..Anyway, do we really need the whole family to witness Yash's every outburst and try to calm him down?

And she prob cannot stand the fact that Prateik place much more importance in helping Yash and Aarti salvage their marriage and their so called "love" then focus on his own marriage which is not going perfect...Actually Prateik basically lied to her..time and time again...Before marriage about how she can work after marriage, how he will talk to his dad abt her work, how he will talk to dad abt gg to mubai...He spoke to no one - how is Paridhi not correct in saying that he is spineless??? (though i know she was just being spiteful and wanted to attack his ego and make him feel useless which I did not like...but i agree with what she said). And she had to come up with ways so that she can actually go and work when she came into the marriage thinking that there will be no problem working!!! Prateik is always making empty promises to her...She must be damn frustrated!!!

I dunno but I can identify with Paridhi more! I am sure some others would feel differently though and see it from your POV...

i really hated her yesterday, i mean she right that she want to do a job & if she is doing it secretly it's not her fault, her in laws forced her to do this, but her behavior towards her husband & other members of Scindia family & aarya is really not justified, i did'nt like the way she talk abot aarya, how can she do...not she really proved that she is selfish!!!

Paridi and Prateek marriage was a love marriage. They practically go out and dated before they got married. That should have given Paridi an idea of Prateek and his characters. She should have known that the Scindia family are dictated completely by the elders and that the parents have the final say in the family. She shouldn't have married Prateek in the first place when she knew that the family is such a traditional family unlike her much more modern family where she was given much more freedom than before.

There is no problem if Paridhi wants to work. Even to certain extent, considering the type of Family Scindia's have Papa Scindia would not let her work so easily. He needs to be convinced properly for this n then he will definitely agree with it but with the condition that she will not forget her responsibilities towards family.

Actually Prateek has lied n responsible to a great extent. But he is cooperating her n allowing her to work even if he did not like her to speak lie to in laws n go for working. This should have sorted their problem. But Paridi is not happy with this. She is calling Prateek spineless, was she not aware of this before marraige? why had she married to a man who is not ambitious, just helps his brothers.

Prateek since begining is been shown to be very close to Yash. Whatever happens in Yash's life affects him. He has not married unless Yash got married second time. Paridi new all these things.
Y'day actually Prateek was not wrong at all. He had expected Pari to meet Aarti bhabhi n there is nothing wrong in it. she should have done it without telling. Its about how much u love n care ur other family members.

No body is asking her to get into Yash's problem. She can very well stay out of it but its her moral responsibility to console Aarti n sympathies her.

One more thing, she should not forget that she is married now and has some responsibilities towards husband and family. The way she told Vidhi to keep her tiffin ready in the morning was ridiculous. If u want to take tiffin, u should make it n take it or take help of the servants. She is not sharing any responsibility in the home. This is what I don't like about her. When u want to be a working woman, u have to be multitasker. You can not run way of ur responsibilities whether u r in a nuclear family or a joint family, u r rich or from average background.

I agree Paridhi was rude , yes she also insulted AarYa but looking at it from her POV , fine she has a love marriage but did they discuss what she wanted to do after marriage , and whenever she needed her husband's support he did'nt give it as he was too afraid of his family .

They really need to move out of the house and have their own house. Then she will have freedom to do whatever she wants and that includes working as a married woman and then she will be happier and fight with Prateek less. Though I doubt Prateek will have the guts to move out from the house and built his family on his own. Plus, I don't think Prateek has the means and guts necessary to take this kind of decisions.