IS JAGYA REALLY DESERVE TO GET ANANDI BACK TO HIS LIFE?
This is the question I want to ask each and every viewers of the show Balika Vadhu (may be they are the JAAN supporters or may be they are the ANSH supporters).
All of us know that Anandi loves jagya madly from her childhood days becoz he was her husband and she was forced to marry him and love him in the tender age of eight. They share many beautiful childhood memories. They were very good childhood friends also .Is all of you are really thinking that only those things are the important things for a successful marriage couple?
I think a success of a marriage (even each and every possible relationship of our life ) is depending on few other things also.tthose are TRUST,RESPONSIBILITIES , REGARD and OWNERSHIP. True Love comes after.
TRUST:- jagya leave anandi for an another women .Is any woman can trust a man who is her husband after this incident?
Responsibilities:- Anandi fulfilled all her duties to her husbands and to her inlaws.Is jagya did any of his duties towards anandi as his wife or towards his inlaws (anandi's parents) properly.I know many people will say that he saved her from the kidnapper. But my question is that is those kidnapper could make anandi's life more miserable than jagya?Even in the last week episode jagya was committing to himself that anandi do not want to forgive him and want to go ahead with another man so it is his responsibility to ruin and crush her life.Is this the thought process of a civilized and educated person who belong to a well known family?
Regards:-I think regard is the most ridiculous think in the JAAN relationship.Jagya is the person who has no reguard to any one in the world (even on himself also).On the other hand anandi definitely love jagya but she never ever give regard to jagya.
Ownership:-This is the another ridiculous thing of their relationship.An example of JAgya's ownership towards the JAAN relationship "TERE AURAT KISI OUR KE SATH JAA RAHI HAI.ROKH LE USE .MAT KAMIYAB HONE THE USE.".Is we are in 21st century now?
My request to the forum members that please do not take the post personally .i jast want to know what is yours views and ideas on this matter .I will be very much happy if some one will rectify my thinking.