Fab performance again closed!

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Just now the thread of the Fab Performance has again been closed.

It makes me very sad, that such drastic steps have been taken, even though I understand the point of view of our mods!

On the whole I don't see too much bad language in that thread and elsewhere in our forum also sometimes similar language can be seen.

Personally I have never felt offended when visiting this thread, I very much enjoyed the discussions, even when I hardly ever took part myself. The "Fab. Performance"-thread is a vital part of our forum and it will desperately be missed, but ofcourse the rules must be followed here too.

I understand that the bad language in itself was not the reason for closing the thread, but the reaction of the "thread-members" on the warning of the mods - starting a heated discussion in return - was the actual reason.

Our mods are our referees - we do need them! Nobody protested, I believe, when those were banned, who posed to be Prachi etc.. It's necessary to be respectful to the mods, if only because their job is not easy at all, I guess.

Guys, can't this be solved in an other way?

Both parties should, again, give way a little!

After all last time when it went wrong (few weeks ago), I feel that the Awesome Foursome plus some others, really made changes: they became much more welcoming and open to other members joining their discussion!

Please Fab. Performance-members perhaps you can make it up with the mods, if you've been too harsh and please mods: after some reconciliation allow the thread back on, many will miss these pages!

I hope not to have offended any one with this post and really ask both parties to act wisely and broadminded.

Thanks, if this might lead somewhere......

Maria-n

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Please give a thought about reconciliation mods and fab 4. Will miss this thread dearly. 😭 😭
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I think taking such drastic steps is a loss for not only us members who were loving such riveting discussion but also a HUGE loss for IF and KS forum in particular.

I don't think any other forum is as interesting as KS due to the discussions that "were" allowed to take place here.

Its a really sad state of affairs when things have to come to this.

I can understand rules and regulation but this is too much.

I am really upset and sorry to see this happening.

No offence meant to anyone,

Shilpa

Edited by srkcc - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: skn700

Please give a thought about reconciliation mods and fab 4. Will miss this thread dearly. 😭 😭

ditto...its just weird once you come to the forum and you don't see "What A Fab Performance.." anymore....

you guys worked it out a few weeks ago and i am a 10000000000 percent sure you can this time too...

PPPPPPPPPlease...😕

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hey, I know what you mean, but at the end of the day I personally think mods have the right to take such steps and discussions, so I leave the matter to them!
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: srkcc

I think taking such drastic steps is a loss for not only us members who were loving such riveting discussion but also a HUGE loss for IF and KS forum in particular.

I don't think any other forum is as interesting as KS due to the discussions that "were" allowed to take place here.

Its a really sad state of affairs when things have to come to this.

I can understand rules and regulation but this is too much.

I am really upset and sorry to see this happening.

No offence meant to anyone,

Shilpa

i agree shilpa..im very hurt...ive personally had many fruitful discussions on that thread... it had become a part of my daily routine to drop by the thread ...im really gonna miss that..it is truly a great loss...i hope we can come up wit a better solution..

sahar

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Yeh it's really sad that the thread had to be closed because there were some good disscussions taking place ,but I am sorry to say it was brought on themselves. There was no need for the rudeness and sarcasm the Mod's were trying to point out issues which would prevent their thread being closed or moved!!!I dont understand how inspite of being grateful they were rude. For those of you who have been here from the start of KS forum will know that Khoo and Monika have never been judgemental or rude and have always done their job to the upmost efficiency, I think you need to cut them a bit of slack. And rather than making these posts you should personally PM them as this way it looks disrespectful against their decisions.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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It was not only about rude comments!! WE are always being nice and supportive of them!

But they were rude many time, they were sarcastic, and they were not following rules!

Besides the mods, one of them made comment on RJ's of IF and also to other members as well!!

What do you expect of us! Do you always want us to stay quiet and keep warning them verbally! Despite all this, me and monika tried our very very best to cooperate, but every single one of them hurted us in some ways! We were always willing to compromise, but no, they were not willing to cooperate, and instead they raised fingers on us!

We have to treat every single member equally on this thread, but unfortunately, me and monika treated them as friends and as valuable members and always kept sliding and brushing stuff away!

I'm sorry to say, we too have self-respect, and if they would like to open foursome club, feel free to do it in the chat club section! Since we made the rules, we have to start doing thing according to that....we have to keep eye on things, if one thing is done to one members, then it should be done to the other too unless it'll be unfair at all!

By the way, there is so much you members are missing: MEmbers with all your respect, if you dont know what really happened & what was done, I suggest please don't comment, as there are reason behind everything we do!!

Thanks
KS IF DEV TEAM
Topic closed!

Edited by khoo - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Regarding this matter of the thread being close...i do not know what to say...but that i am sitting on the neutral bench.
I too once in a while visited that thread, just to silently read what the Fab four and many others were discussing...i found their topics quite interesting, i must admit.
Sad to see it close....but yet guys do not forget that we do not know the REAL reason as to why it was closed, we have only been fed tid bits. So i feel that it isn't just for us to attack the mods, who were just doing their job.

I suggest that we grieve at "their" loss but not make it a public issue...so apparent....as the mods in their own place are right at what they are did.
So i suggest, since we do not know the full story, that we say nothing and blame no one for this matter.

Everyone is right in their own way.

Just try not to make a big issue out of this till we know or are given more news regarding this matter. For the moment i keep hushed and sit alone on the neutral bench in hope that this duel will pass.
No one say bad about anyone, i must put my foot down on this because...no one should be blamed. Don't throw words of accusations at the mods yet neither throw at the Fab four...
Everyone is right in their own way.

Wishing no one offence...these are just my thoughts
Sweetu
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hi Tinkerbell,

Hope you are doing ok now.

Really no offence was meant to Khoo and Monika as I have the utmost respect for them.

I am just expressing the disappointment I am feeling right now.

I was out for dinner tonight and the first thing I dis when I come back (like I do when I come back from anywhere) is check the thread FAB Performance thread that now belongs to all of us not only the AF.

I cannot believe what is happening here. I am just really upset. This thread amongst others is like my daily KS routine. 😭 😭

I just hope this can be sorted out.

Shilpa

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