a lot of topics that are posted are not the bashing of any of the actors that are currently protraying certain characters...people are just saying how or what is affecting them in the context of the shows. as such we can all discuss what we like or not like and i do believe it is healthy, at times humourous, sometimes serious but in all it is a good forum that is provided...a lot of the happenings in the shows are sometimes unrealistic to the average human mind and as such we may or may not be able to associate or like or dislike said tracks but it is indeed natural to criticize, accept and make our point of view...i am seriously of the view that this is what the forum is intented to provide except of course the disallowance of obscenities, i do enjoy reading people's point of view and look forward to all the healthy topics that are discussed on this forum...we have to learn to accept that not everyone think the same and infact it is a healthy mind when we can agree to disagree...