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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hi all,

I just read through some of the old posts ( I have a lot of time on a happening Friday night it seems :P ) but seems like our forum here has spiralled a little out of control, so decided to bring this up again. I have been noticing a lot of people hurling abuses and demeaning members directly and getting personal on forum topic comments. I think everyone here is entitled to their own personal opinion or point of view regarding the show, characters or story track. No one is supposed to force their opinion on someone else and no one should bash someone personally for writing down what they feel about the show.

It is healthy to debate over views or have a dicussion and challenge the point of view, but attacking a member personally for their opinion is absolutely uncalled for and this is not just for me, but I saw lots of people abusing other members on topics too. At the end of the day, we must all just remember that this is a show and not reality and what we all do in our personal lives or whatever beliefs we may hold are ours alone and no one has a right to dismiss them.

As for comments about characters and the show, we all have our personal favorites and we all also have our own biases, but the forum is made for us to put that down to share with like minded people or just portray your thoughts. So let;s maintain that instead of name calling and abusing.

I apologize to anyone who may think my comments are offensive, but at the end of the day, I have every right to maintain my point of view, just like everyone else on the forum is, and I am happy to discuss differing opinions but no one should be attacking people personally or hurling abuses here. I try my best to keep my attacks for the characters and not any individual member of the show. I personally am not a fan of any single character on PR. I used to love ARMAN and used to love ARVI. However, CV's decided to butcher both in my opinion hence I keep my remarks strictly based on how I see CV;s portraying them, and not as a personal insult to any group of fans favoring one or the other. I think most people here believe in that too.

Let's all enjoy the show and the forum without it getting personal. PR is truly showing the worst of our favorite characters on the show, let it not show our worst as well. :) Sorry for being such a grandma, but I really hope we can all have our opinions debated and challenged but not with the most demeaning personal remarks.

Thanks! And big peace out for everyone. :P Let's all enjoy the show, our own fav characters and the biases that come with it or our own takes on stupidity shown on the show. Important thing to remember always is, this is fiction and the moolah is being made by CV's, EK and the actors. But we, here are fighting against each other for NOTHING. :P

-- Happy weekend guys! 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well written post! I was feeling the exact same way šŸ‘ So many people are arguing personally over characters but at the end of the day, Archana, Purvi, Arjun, Ovi, Manav etc are just characters in a TV show. This forum is so we can express our views and find out other's views, not to fight to the death over our favorite characters šŸ˜†
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: arjunpurvixo

Well written post! I was feeling the exact same way šŸ‘ So many people are arguing personally over characters but at the end of the day, Archana, Purvi, Arjun, Ovi, Manav etc are just characters in a TV show. This forum is so we can express our views and find out other's views, not to fight to the death over our favorite characters šŸ˜†



hahaha exactly! Nor are we getting the monetary gains from this show nor are the CV's bothered about our opinions. But we all seem to boil our blood over fiction :)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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so true dear... agree with u totally...:):) thanx for making this post... we all r members of this forum and we should all respect everyone's views...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i too feel the same ...everyone has the right to express their feelings and their point of view ...afterall thts wht this forum is all abt...but getting abusive is definitely a no no😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shreya2094

i too feel the same ...everyone has the right to express their feelings and their point of view ...afterall thts wht this forum is all abt...but getting abusive is definitely a no no😊



you remind me of the beauty and the talented shreya goshal.
are you ? 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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oops...i think some of the recent posts call for attention on this request again! :P Making 2 segments and then people bashing one group over other instead of bashing the characters. Peace is truly called for! Let's just make this an invigorating place for discussion rather than the attacking war zone of personal rebuffs this has turned into!! 😭


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Pari dear thank you for making an awesome post...Agree with you completely..
We meaning all in this section started out liking many characters, leads and others, as the time went by characters got butchered, show became lopsided storyline than it became any one's game..
Show started out with really good storyline abt middle class maharashtrian family and now we dont even know what it is anymore 😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Such a wonderful post and I completely agree.

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