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Episode Analysis
I would like to say, a la Aman, HEY, RELAX! 😃
We have no proof that this is the reason Yash is angry...none whatsoever! This is all conjecture by Aarti and Aman. I still have a feeling that it something bigger than this. I don't think Yash doubted Aarti's character, but then even if he did, it is a good thing because Aarti can finally treat him like a person and not a god.
See you have to see the situation from Yash's perspective. Aarti said she was going to the mandir and then obviously met Aman...only to have her clothes returned the next day. It really does look like she lied just to meet Aman and left the kids with Yash, which is why he made that sarcastic remark when they left about her not being the only one who cared for the kids. And I think the clincher here is that she didn't get a chance to tell him. If she had told him up front then I think he would have been totally fine, but she didn't and it must have looked like she was hiding it from him.
I think this makes a lot of sense actually because it explains the waves of Yash's anger and madness. I think the real craziness set in when he realised he had given up on his magical connection with Arpita's stuff for Aarti, only to find that she had "cheated" him. And he got more and more aggravated because Aarti was "pretending" not to know what happened when he thought she did it on purpose.
Something important to remember is that Yash does not mind Aarti's mistakes as long as they are unintentional, the perfect example of this being when she broke Arpita's picture frame. When that flashback had aired I had said that it was sort of a reverse foreshadowing of what had actually happened to make Yash angry. There, Aarti did not commit the mistake of breaking the frame on purpose and Yash forgave her immediately and tended to her cut. Aarti also knew precisely what she had done wrong so she was able to fix it immediately. Here the opposite happened. Yash thinks that Aarti betrayed him on purpose and Aarti had no idea what she had done wrong so she had no way of fixing it...and so the situation got worse and worse.
And it all relates back to the fire episode too for the symbolism of the wiring and the geyser, i.e, Yash's deep seated problems (the faulty and old wiring that needed to be updated) and Aartis' carelessness, the two of which collided to create the explosion that led to the fire. Yash did not communicate the depth of emotion he was feeling towards Aarti, how could he when he had told her so definitively that he could never care for her? So Aarti had no way of knowing how sensitive and volatile his wiring was. And by not telling him (which I do believe was careless of her) she "left the geyser on." As a result the newfound faith inside Yash was burned in a blazing fire that erupted within him, and that faith was more necessary to him at that moment than even Arpita's memories because it was the thin thread he was holding onto that was leading him back to life and light.
So it is a combination of Yash's faulty wiring AND Aarti's carelessness that led the fire to break out inside him. And it flared up so fast that neither he, nor anyone else could even try to control it. That is why he never had the good sense to ask Aarti for an explanation. He was completely consumed by this fire and had no faith left to spare her. Then when he returned to Bhopal, he found he had also lost his connection with Arpita, not being able to go back to sleep after being thoroughly awakened during the Mumbai sojourn. Now every time he looked at Arpita's pictures he remembered only his own loneliness and isolation...the grave he thinks he dug for himself. He told Aarti he could never feel for her and as a result he "lost her" to another just as she was making a place in his heart. Then to make matters worse, he realises he also lost Arpita by letting her fade into a pleasant memory, in order to embrace the present with that same Aarti. This is his own, self-made hell, where he has nothing and no one all because of his own stubbornness. That is why he is punishing himself, that is why he says he has no right to punish Aarti: because even if she did go off with Aman, Yash knows she didn't technically betray him by his own definitions. And yet he trusted her to wait for him, without him having to ask her. So he feels betrayed but knows that he has no right to, and that feeling of betrayal is the punishment he is talking about, I think.
The point I am trying to make is that it doesn't matter to Yash what Aarti did with Aman that night. What is torturing him more is the possibility that opened up, that Aarti could go off with someone else, and that he could do nothing to stop her by his own definition of their relationship. And if she must go, I think he wants it to be as easy and quick for her as possible, just like he did with the almost divorce, so he is pushing her away with his anger and his madness, hoping that she will be pushed to stop standing by this marriage on principle and be actually happy with a person she loves (shout out to Kirthi...it makes total sense now!), and not have to sneak around.
About the agnipariksha thing, it sucks but it goes with Aarti's character to a tee. She is always waiting for these dramatic moments to punish herself and prove her love. So maybe while on other shows I feel like they are showing injustice, here I see Aarti's character sort of justifying her own humiliation sometimes. She totally gets a high off of these types of moments.
I don't think this is regressive at all to be honest because it is showing regressive behaviour, but always in a negative light. Why do you think everyone has taken to Aman so much? Because he is being portrayed as a ray of hope in a regressive quagmire.
Also, I finally saw some depth to Bua today. She was totally projecting her own desires onto Aarti. Did you see the look on her face when she saw Aman? Her eyes nearly popped out of their sockets. Everyone is basically projecting what they would do on to Aarti and so misunderstanding her, which I find fascinating.
We have no proof that this is the reason Yash is angry...none whatsoever! This is all conjecture by Aarti and Aman. I still have a feeling that it something bigger than this. I don't think Yash doubted Aarti's character, but then even if he did, it is a good thing because Aarti can finally treat him like a person and not a god.
See you have to see the situation from Yash's perspective. Aarti said she was going to the mandir and then obviously met Aman...only to have her clothes returned the next day. It really does look like she lied just to meet Aman and left the kids with Yash, which is why he made that sarcastic remark when they left about her not being the only one who cared for the kids. And I think the clincher here is that she didn't get a chance to tell him. If she had told him up front then I think he would have been totally fine, but she didn't and it must have looked like she was hiding it from him.
I think this makes a lot of sense actually because it explains the waves of Yash's anger and madness. I think the real craziness set in when he realised he had given up on his magical connection with Arpita's stuff for Aarti, only to find that she had "cheated" him. And he got more and more aggravated because Aarti was "pretending" not to know what happened when he thought she did it on purpose.
Something important to remember is that Yash does not mind Aarti's mistakes as long as they are unintentional, the perfect example of this being when she broke Arpita's picture frame. When that flashback had aired I had said that it was sort of a reverse foreshadowing of what had actually happened to make Yash angry. There, Aarti did not commit the mistake of breaking the frame on purpose and Yash forgave her immediately and tended to her cut. Aarti also knew precisely what she had done wrong so she was able to fix it immediately. Here the opposite happened. Yash thinks that Aarti betrayed him on purpose and Aarti had no idea what she had done wrong so she had no way of fixing it...and so the situation got worse and worse.
And it all relates back to the fire episode too for the symbolism of the wiring and the geyser, i.e, Yash's deep seated problems (the faulty and old wiring that needed to be updated) and Aartis' carelessness, the two of which collided to create the explosion that led to the fire. Yash did not communicate the depth of emotion he was feeling towards Aarti, how could he when he had told her so definitively that he could never care for her? So Aarti had no way of knowing how sensitive and volatile his wiring was. And by not telling him (which I do believe was careless of her) she "left the geyser on." As a result the newfound faith inside Yash was burned in a blazing fire that erupted within him, and that faith was more necessary to him at that moment than even Arpita's memories because it was the thin thread he was holding onto that was leading him back to life and light.
So it is a combination of Yash's faulty wiring AND Aarti's carelessness that led the fire to break out inside him. And it flared up so fast that neither he, nor anyone else could even try to control it. That is why he never had the good sense to ask Aarti for an explanation. He was completely consumed by this fire and had no faith left to spare her. Then when he returned to Bhopal, he found he had also lost his connection with Arpita, not being able to go back to sleep after being thoroughly awakened during the Mumbai sojourn. Now every time he looked at Arpita's pictures he remembered only his own loneliness and isolation...the grave he thinks he dug for himself. He told Aarti he could never feel for her and as a result he "lost her" to another just as she was making a place in his heart. Then to make matters worse, he realises he also lost Arpita by letting her fade into a pleasant memory, in order to embrace the present with that same Aarti. This is his own, self-made hell, where he has nothing and no one all because of his own stubbornness. That is why he is punishing himself, that is why he says he has no right to punish Aarti: because even if she did go off with Aman, Yash knows she didn't technically betray him by his own definitions. And yet he trusted her to wait for him, without him having to ask her. So he feels betrayed but knows that he has no right to, and that feeling of betrayal is the punishment he is talking about, I think.
The point I am trying to make is that it doesn't matter to Yash what Aarti did with Aman that night. What is torturing him more is the possibility that opened up, that Aarti could go off with someone else, and that he could do nothing to stop her by his own definition of their relationship. And if she must go, I think he wants it to be as easy and quick for her as possible, just like he did with the almost divorce, so he is pushing her away with his anger and his madness, hoping that she will be pushed to stop standing by this marriage on principle and be actually happy with a person she loves (shout out to Kirthi...it makes total sense now!), and not have to sneak around.
About the agnipariksha thing, it sucks but it goes with Aarti's character to a tee. She is always waiting for these dramatic moments to punish herself and prove her love. So maybe while on other shows I feel like they are showing injustice, here I see Aarti's character sort of justifying her own humiliation sometimes. She totally gets a high off of these types of moments.
I don't think this is regressive at all to be honest because it is showing regressive behaviour, but always in a negative light. Why do you think everyone has taken to Aman so much? Because he is being portrayed as a ray of hope in a regressive quagmire.
Also, I finally saw some depth to Bua today. She was totally projecting her own desires onto Aarti. Did you see the look on her face when she saw Aman? Her eyes nearly popped out of their sockets. Everyone is basically projecting what they would do on to Aarti and so misunderstanding her, which I find fascinating.
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