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Posted: 12 years ago

Alright I am going to quibble over semantics.

There has to be a legally spiritually sanctified ceremony in the first place when they got married for the word Remarriage to have any relevance to the track
I have no problems with married women members going on about the wonder and uniqueness of the initial enforced temple scene (though what is so unique when hatred and fear was the emotion and not love and trust is beyond me but whatever floats their boat) as they know better and are smugly settled in their own lives but where I am terribly uncomfortable is how the KKG ASR live in wedding has been romanticized to the point of nausea by members who don't know any better period.
I have my own sense of deep unease over some very young members as very evident from innumerable cloying responses will go into real life believing this to be a method of sealing a marital deal and so sweet and probably get the shock of their lives when they lose their own honor dignity and respect if not worse to an unscrupulous scoundrel
Please understand this is no moralistic judgment for there are those who come from evolved culture do know better but like it this way I am referring to a segment many of the sensible viewers will cotton on to who are naive innocent and come from very conservative backgrounds but take vicarious pleasure in what's happening on the screen and think Hola this is who and how I want to settle with

I know many will say get off the soap box we don't need a lecture but then turning a blind eye will only mean allowing a wrong to flourish now

At least my conscience is clear

FLS signing off

Edited by FairyLiquidSoap - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: FairyLiquidSoap

Pinky brilliant thoughts as always and more than happy to join in your chorusthey have toyed with the character of KKG so badly that she no longer has any meaning or relevance to this story any more I thought i was watching the love story of a man and a woman now if it was going to be all about the Chote And Di show they could have picked any vapid pretty wooden faced actor to essay the role and none of us would have been tricked into watching what is now essentially an emotionally incestous story

the wedding has been lost in the drama of WW Moaning Myrtle It has now become the gap filler instead of the main show and folks are leaving at the intermission
I am going to save my energy to rant in your brilliant thread so will catch u there


Aww Swathi, your posts are always the most special! 😳 Thanks for your wonderful rant.
This thread of yours especially brought out the inner "feminist" in me, if that's what we are called for being self-respecting females who just wants to see another female getting equal treatment. It's amusing because that should be a common opinion among folks in the 21st century, but I realize there are still a few regressive mindsets around (headed by Gul Khan).

The show is suffering from a number of problems and digging a bigger hole with each passing day. However, I think the root of the problem is how the characterizations of Arnav and especially Khushi have been tarnished. It was these two unique characters and their "opposites attract" chemistry that pulled us toward this show. Now that's gone completely and so is our passion for the show. I know characters are meant to grow and change but in this case, it hasn't been depicted properly (especially for Khushi). So it leaves us feeling unattached to these characters that were once so well-established and connected to us.
Edited by AyeReKhushi - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: FairyLiquidSoap

thats alright i think you have given sufficient information for us to figure out the rest again thank you for the same


😆 he he he ... Basically summer has just ended and i have 3 weekends and I don't know what the bloody hell to do with myself since I am used to staying up late these days and found my way back to IF and now am kind of stuck due to those amazing BhaTiya posts and these more serious common sense one's like yours.


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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: AyeReKhushi


Aww Swathi, your posts are always the most special! 😳 Thanks for your wonderful rant.
This thread of yours especially brought out the inner "feminist" in me, if that's what we are called for being self-respecting females who just wants to see another female getting equal treatment. It's amusing because that should be a common opinion among folks in the 21st century, but I realize there are still a few regressive mindsets around (headed by Gul Khan).

The show is suffering from a number of problems and digging a bigger hole with each passing day. However, I think the root of the problem is how the characterizations of Arnav and especially Khushi have been tarnished. It was these two unique characters and their "opposites attract" chemistry that pulled us toward this show. Now that's gone completely and so is our passion for the show. I know characters are meant to grow and change but in this case, it hasn't been depicted properly (especially for Khushi). So it leaves us feeling unattached to these characters that were once so well-established and connected to us.👏

erudite viewers like all of us here got attracted to this show because it was not lopsided in favor of one character both brought their charm
kkg has had no character growth in fact has regressed to someone who has no unique identity of her own and if iwere a new viewer to this show I would be left wondering just what was in her that got ASR interested she has no job no spunk no fire so bland and boring now
i give up girl and can only just mourn just for what once was this show RIP!
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: IFID


😆 he he he ... Basically summer has just ended and i have 3 weekends and I don't know what the bloody hell to do with myself since I am used to staying up late these days and found my way back to IF and now am kind of stuck due to those amazing BhaTiya posts and these more serious common sense one's like yours.


Bhatiya and gang post always rock this forum in fact it has come to a point where i now like to watch the show only to see what nuggets of delightful posts they will come up with Honestly i dont have the wit to match their incredible sense of humor but can laugh real hard
their posts have the immense gift of being able to change the mood for the better
Sia the day is not far when we all will have early nights and fresh mornings and gasp😲 have fruitful weekends outdoors😆

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