If Jagya deserves forgiveness then Gauri should be forgiven before that coz the sins of Jagya far outweigh than those of Gauri...
1. Jagya had lied deliberately about his marital status while in college to everyone including Gauri...and literally emotionally blackmailed Gauri when she first refused to accept Jagya after she got to know the truth about his marital status. He went on lying that he was forced into bal vivah and had never loved anandi...So which means that when he lies for his convenience and comfort and to hide his insecurities its ok...but when Gauri lies to hide her insecurities ...its a big sin...
2. He had time & again insulted Anandi about her being a village bred and lacking in etiquette suitable for the city...he had even fail to acknowledge anandi infront of his friends during her surprise visit to mumbai (on his birthday!!) .then how can he take offence when Gauri taunted her being a village bred during Anandi's visit to Mumbai?
3 If Gauri hadnt lied then Jagya would have been still with her...just becoz of one big blunder of hers he hasnt thought twice about leaving her...he seems to think that the root cause of his problems is Gauri's lie...and he doesnt take into account his actions until that day which led to his downfall...Gauri's lie had come much later in this story...but the key events were triggered by Jagya's decisions!!!
4 Finally ...Jagya doesnt understand the sanctity of a marriage...he broke off with anandi also just over a telephone call without understanding the implications of his actions...and he has done the same with Gauri...so marriage is like a joke to him which he can enter into & break off at his whims & fancies... The ideal way out would have been to make her (Gauri ) realise her wrong doings and then taking her along with him to apologise to his family...
So if Jagya can be forgiven then Gauri deserves forgiveness before him...coz he is the biggest culprit of Anandi & his family...
Edited by satyasudhas - 12 years ago