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Posted: 13 years ago
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Between everyone there is one person, I really felt bad for today and that is Sumitra...She has not been a strong person and that is the way she has been since the beginning...But she has been a best mother-in-law one can ask...Always supported what is right...Loved Anandi more than her own son, did everything to make her comfortable in the new house when she was small, comforted her when she used to remember her mother, gave so much love, that Anandi started regarding her as her own mother...She had so many dreams she had dreamed for her son and daughter in law...And then everything fell apart...But still she supported her daughter in law, in worst of the moments and had gone against her own son...It shows how good person she is...! There are very few mother-in-laws who would do so much...Her tears just bought tears in my eyes...It is such a tragedy for a family to loose a son, still they thought of their daughter in law and did every thing they can to see that she is happy...! Even at the cost of tears for loosing their beloved daughter in law for another family...! I wish that every girl should get a mother in law like her, who has such a unique bond with her daughter in law...!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yes, even I was moved by Sumitra's tears today😭. Both Bhairo and Sumitra has always considered Anandi as their own daughter. They have showered her with love, fought for her, been her support for in her difficult times, always given her right guidance, encouraged her to grow as person, felt pride in her achievements, even put her happiness before their own like selfless parents.

I remember Anandi's dialogue when they were celebrating Anandi's triumph over Heth Singh by proving Anandi's innocence and sending HS's son to jail. She said,"Pyar to mujhe mere maa bapu bhi karate hai. Par aap logo ne sincha hai mujhe." It was such a beautiful dialogue. It showed how the Singh's had become integral part of Anandi's life😊

And this is the only gloomy side of this remarriage track. Anandi moving away from Singh's.😔

But the happier part is she is getting larger than life person Shiv as her life partner who will cherish her in every sense.😃

So, ek aankh main Anandi Shiv ke ek hone par khushi ke aansoo aur dusari main Anandi and Singh pariwar ke alag hone ke dukh ke ansoo.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yeah that is why i made the thread called tears yesterday.

I was totally in tears when Anandi came down. I want her to be with Shiv but it was totally sad when Sumitra closed the laptop. The girl whom she invested in so much, the emotions , the love...

when Sugna's gauna was in talks, she convinced bhairav to bring in Anandi even though at their place the gauna happened usually after the girl hit puberty... , she forced bhairav to bring Anandi , so that she would not have to face the pain of a daughter going away.

That is why Anandi came to the haveli early on, even before it was her time to come.

And such a girl , she is losing cause of the stupidity and selfishness of her own son.

Must be devastating.

But I am sure she will be happy once she sees Anandi Happy with Shiv :)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@sdk10 - I know, those relations are more near to her than her own parents...She has grown up there and had become one of them, and now she has to bid bye to the place which was her safety net...I hope Shiv understands her and stands by her and give her as much support as he can, so that Anandi comes out of grief...Her happiness, will atleast make Sumitra assure her self, that whatever it may be, Anandi is happy...
@ Suchi- I know Suchi, that she will be happy seeing Anandi happy...But about when she knows about Jagya...That he had left Gauri and came back in a hope to re-consile...She will be in such a fix...She can't go forward, neither can she go backward...It will be test of her motherhood too...It is always difficult situation for a mother, to see her son in such a state...!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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but prepare ur self for coming threads sumitra ne gusse mein laptop band kyon kiya is she really want anandi to marry shiv or she is behave as hypocrite
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

but prepare ur self for coming threads sumitra ne gusse mein laptop band kyon kiya is she really want anandi to marry shiv or she is behave as hypocrite

I don't think she is hypocrite...She is really happy for Anandi, though she might not really want Anandi to go...! She said as much to Bhairon...But then she also knew that Anandi will be all alone in future and she wanted what is best for her...She also told that she had some hope of Jagya and Anandi reuniting till the divorce thing came up...But then she was dissapointed...She is angry at Jagya that he had it all and had lost it all due to his own foolishness...How can a mother be happy, if his son commits such a big mistake...She is angry as well as sad for her son...! But happy for her daughter in law...!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i am not saying sumitra is hypocrite but some people may say she is hypocrite thats why i am saying prepare ur self for such type of thread
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: vamita

@ Suchi- I know Suchi, that she will be happy seeing Anandi happy...But about when she knows about Jagya...That he had left Gauri and came back in a hope to re-consile...She will be in such a fix...She can't go forward, neither can she go backward...It will be test of her motherhood too...It is always difficult situation for a mother, to see her son in such a state...!


The thing is Sumitra has gone past that 'mother in law' phase LONG ago.

She was the first one to suggest Anandi's remarriage with BHairav, and at that time Jagya was not even married to Gauri.
The very fact that he was about to get married to this girl made her come to that decision.
She was the first one to tell Anandi to STOP putting sindoor on her forehead...

So I disagree with everyone on this forum who think that SUmitra is weak. On the contrary... Sumitra and DS will be first to make sure Jagya does not come back in Anandi's life.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

i am not saying sumitra is hypocrite but some people may say she is hypocrite thats why i am saying prepare ur self for such type of thread

Oh yeah...I know, there are few, who mis-understand goodness to something else as well...Thanks for the warning...I usually don't reply to negative posts...! And if someone does, then I just ignore it...! I just like to discuss topics which show us the right path...I have two sons, and I will some day get two daughter in laws as well...I just watch this show, because they really show the reality, and how a person should behave in given situation...That is why this is the only show I watch regularly...!😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian


The thing is Sumitra has gone past that 'mother in law' phase LONG ago.

She was the first one to suggest Anandi's remarriage with BHairav, and at that time Jagya was not even married to Gauri.
The very fact that he was about to get married to this girl made her come to that decision.
She was the first one to tell Anandi to STOP putting sindoor on her forehead...

So I disagree with everyone on this forum who think that SUmitra is weak. On the contrary... Sumitra and DS will be first to make sure Jagya does not come back in Anandi's life.


I understand what you are saying Suchi...very well said...and I take back my word about Sumitra...I really want them to support Anandi in this difficult situation...! I hope they do it with flying colors...!

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