Should Ajay be forgiven?

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Posted: 19 years ago
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ok ....we all kno what has happened with neha and ajay....we kno under what circumstances ajay slept with anothr woman...we also kno what kind of ppl neha and ajay normally are,....and all abt their relationship....do u think he is justified in the act5 of sleeping with anothr woman who was his ex-flame......???? ok not justified....the question here is..... should neha forgive ajay???

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Posted: 19 years ago
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well Reshma this post is exactly the same as what I wanted to post. I personally think that Neha should forgive Ajay. Ajay really loves her. At times we cannot control our passions,our hearts. Maybe Ajay couldnt control himself on seeing his ex-love. I think Neha should have a direct talk with Ajay as to whether he really loves her or not. If he does then she should forgive him. After all "to err is human, to forgive divine"
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I feel the base of any relationship is TRUST....if it is broken or even a scar appears...it is the end of such meaningless relationship....i know everyone of us make mistakes but this is not just a mistake....Ajay has in a way murdered Neha's trust ...she will not be able to trust anyone again ...she loved Ajay (knowing his character...his flirty nature)with a hope that she can change him with her true love ...but he does not deserve it...how can he sleep with anyone else so easily...so what if it was his first love ?...tell me one thing...if it was vice-versa ...if Neha slept with someone else ...would he tolerate it???? well ...all men r like that...M.C.Ps...

well in my view PEOPLE LIKE AJAY SHOULD NEVER EVER BE FOGIVEN ...if they r forgiven there r high chances that they repeat it...i feel Neha should find a better, worthy person soon and show Ajay what he lost....

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Posted: 19 years ago
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yeah pari...i feel every word of what u said is true,,,,totally agree with u.....
but hey....dint u vote...im the only one who's voted for no....plz vote...this is supposed to be a poll!!
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Posted: 19 years ago
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i think yes he should be forgiven.

no way justifying his actions. but i belive the motive behind everything is important. cheating is a mental conscious decision and more so when its prolonged over a period of time basically for physical gratification or kind ...here ajay did a mistake but at the spur of the moment and with his someone who he loved once...so its a mistake no doubt but i feel forgivable, espcially sicne ajay is repenting. its easy to break and walk away but difficult to maintain things and relatively small mistakes shudnt be the reason for ppl who still love each other to break up.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: AryanDipikaFan

i think yes he should be forgiven.

no way justifying his actions. but i belive the motive behind everything is important. cheating is a mental conscious decision and more so when its prolonged over a period of time basically for physical gratification or kind ...here ajay did a mistake but at the spur of the moment and with his someone who he loved once...so its a mistake no doubt but i feel forgivable, espcially sicne ajay is repenting. its easy to break and walk away but difficult to maintain things and relatively small mistakes shudnt be the reason for ppl who still love each other to break up.

I agree with u completely Sofia. Ajay never cheated on Neha intentionally. and as u said since Ajay is repenting, Neha shuld give him another chance.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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i feel neha shud 4give ajay.although i m not takin ajay's side or anythin and i c it clearly dat he has done wrong. but she should give him just one more chance and ajay should never again repeat wat he had done 2 neha.and if he does dat again ,neha should shoot him den and dre.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I think Neha shud forgive Ajay but only after a while.Considering that Ajay is an impulsive person who hardly has any control over himself,his act thou cant be justified but he can b given a second chance.Its human to make mistakes but his fault mainly was not admitting his mistake.He shud hve been honest.But I think "galtiyan karne se insaan galat nahin ho jaate".At the end of the day intentions does matter.
but most imp thing is dat Neha has always loved him no matter what he's been like.She'll torture herself by breaking up wid him(U couldn't hve missed how much in pain she was) & there's no point in dat.
Lastly as they say,"Set ur luv free if it comes back its urs & if it dopesn't it was never meant to b urs" & Ajay did come back to her after watever happened & now its time for her to follow suit.After all she luvs him so much.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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well i think if we couldn't control himself even after being attached with neha then he should NOT be forgiven by neha he should have atleast thought about how neha would have felt if she found out...but what can we do men will be men
p.s. no ofrence meant to anyone
Edited by sedna - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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hmmmmmmmmm... quite a lotta interesting thought here.....
thanx for votin on the poll all u guys!!!!!!
cheers! 👏

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