How should I treat a woman

I am an older man who has been hurt by women who say they love me then leave me. I am quick to engage with women but slow to trust. I met a lady on a dating site, but not sure if I can love and commit to her. I need time. I have started a sexual relationship with this lady and we have taken our dating profiles down so I can get to know her. I am still meeting other women without the lady knowing. The lady says she is in love with me but I need time to grow into her. Is it right that I keep seeing other women while I work out if I can trust this woman and if she is stable and won't hurt me. If the lady finds out that I am still meeting others can I expect her to get really angry with me and ditch me. I am not sleeping with the other women but cannot commit to one woman only until I am sure. Is this fair on the lady to see others behind her back or what she doesn't know won't hurt her.

Originally posted by: COWBOY59

The lady at one stage did question my activities. She got extremely angry at me in text and email but I smoothed things and I told her that I am seeing emotionally safe women, one is my x girlfriend. I don't think she had the right to get angry at me. That has distanced me more from her as when people love someone they should not get angry, should they?