Where should our loyalty lay?

When we become US/UK citizens they take the oath of allegiance to the host country. But even then we still have loyalty to our home country. When there is a cricket match between India and England many support India even though they are British citizens. By doing so are we deceitful to our host country? I see that many here are US/UK citizens but are proud to be Indians and Pakistanis. Where should our loyalty lay?

I am talking about US/UK born kids (like my daughter) or the ones who have adopted citizenship. Former England Captain Nasser Hussain (drool-drool😳) was born in India but then his family moved to England and became British citizens. There are many in West Indies team who have Indian origin like Chanderpaul. They support their host country.

So it just came to my mind that where should our loyalty lay if we had to choose between the two?

Originally posted by: sowmyaa

bluepink it's so nice to see your old id back 😛 this is really good question.


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This is like heart vs brain debate. Your heart will always want to take side of place you were born. Where you grew up and basically that is what your identity is. Your brain will ask you to be loyal to your oath. once you take oath you are naturalized citizen of that country. You get some benifts from that country which is not yours, but they treat you like theirs. I would say for small issues like game, cricket it's not big of a deal if you go with your heart, but with bigger and more serious issues, it gets really hard for one to decide.

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my kids who are born citizen of this country. I think i would want them to support the country they are born in and brought up in. I dont' want my kid to support India 'coz her parnts are from India...for her US is her country.

These are just my thoughts, and that too very confused one...😕 to be frank, I myself get lost with this questions somtimes, but just wrote what i felt today.

I think you exactly wrote what most of us feel like. I took oath in 96 and do feel obligations towards USA, but my emotional attachements are in India.

ONe thing I am very proud of is our community make sures that our children know their language and religion. THis is very important. My friends and work get very surprised that my neices who are born and raised in USA can read and write Punjabi.