Ok, let me first say, I'm a L-I-T-E-R-A-L-L-Y C-R-A-Z-Y admirer, nope actually . . . .a TRULY D-E-T-E-R-M-I-N-E-D & G-E-N-U-I-N-E LOVER of Shantanu Maheshwari / Swayam Shekhawat . . . SwaRon holds a TREMENDOUS space in my heart & lands me any time in purely ecstatic state or in grave condition without much effort . . . .but to be honest, I'm a Shantanu FREAK soul in first place . . .
Let me start with his most important asset i.e his love for Sharon..Lately I don't feel his love for Sharon..That intensity is lost somewhere..He is doing nothing special for Sharon infact it is the other way around..It is refreshing to see Sharon doing something special for him but it doesn't mean that Swayam just sits back and relax..and now most of the time he is on an assumption spree'It is hard to believe this from him..I thought he was the most sorted one'I get it that MU's are bound to happen between SwaRon but not because of his stupid assumptions..It can be something genuine too..The pre trial-relationship Swayam was so much better..
Well, in ur post, u stated that u dont get the love of Swayam for Sharon lately . . . . ok, lets visit back the Thursdays episode ( 16/8/2012 ), where we spotted the ever composed Swayam in Sharon's house trying his best to calm the highly distraught-ed at the same time agitated Sharon inspite of being himself in the defeated team ( I dont blame Sharon for that state because it was much reasonable ) . . . . .Swayam didn't care his own mental agony of loosing the footloose final, but he cared the inner turmoil of Sharon going through . . . . He pocketed every wrath of Sharon very understandingly and eventually uttered the standout line, -"u r pushing me away, Sharon" which overtly depicted how earnestly he wanted to stay with his girl . . . Swayam is the person who overlooked his own plight to give priority to others is being blamed for lack of intensity in his love . . . . .
and then in Monday's episode ( 20/8/2012 ) . . . we inspected the profound emotional stress Swayam went through for not being allowed to be by Sharon's side in the Adhuri Kahani song sequence . . . and how he revealed his dire frustration in front of Rey . . . then in the college , he stood up against the taunts that were being hurled towards Sharon and it was Sharon who pushed him more away much in his disapproval . . . .
And in yesterdays scene, we got to see the most precious trait of lover Swayam. . . . his momentous respect towards the point of view of his love , " ur wish is my command " . . . by following this line he again proved it's Sharon solely who matters the most for him . . . and to make he feel better he walked away which was nowhere for invalid reason. . . According to u Swayam gave rise to more farness between SwaRon because of his misinterpreted assumptions . . .then let me ask u, dont u think it's majorly Sharon's REPEATED misleading attitude for which Swayam is misinterpreting stuffs ? I mean, look . . .despite Swayam's repeated attempts to approach Sharon, Sharon is brushing off Swayam a couple of times . . . ( 1. Cutting down Swayam's calls again & again , 2. throwing the remote on Swayams' pic of the projector which happened literally before Swayam's own eyes, 3. Yelling at Swayam to stay away in front of other college students & 4. screaming out loud and forced Swayam to leave although Swayam was keen on remain with her in Thursdays episode .😕 .) Here , I'm not at all miscounting Sharon's actions , as she had also some reasons . .but the fact is, it's Sharon who is passively yet majorly pushing him away. . If Swayam would came into conclusion just after one incident then u could term it as stupid assumption. . . but when so many incidents taking place showing same direction , then how can u point finger at Swayam's assumption ?
And comparing pre-trial relationship Swayam with present one is not actually legitimate because the circumstances are pretty different . . . . so, for me the LOVER Swayam is just Flawless just like always . . . . .
Now coming to the most neglected relationship on this show Swayam-Taani..
I know for a fact that for a show based on dil,dosti and Dance and having 15 characters,it is difficult to concentrate on bro-sis relationship but CV's whatever you show please try to make it realistic'Is Swayam really Taani's brother?According to me a big NO..No brother in the world would be OK with his sister dating a guy like Shivam'I guess CV's are showing this so that in future Swayam has no problems with Rey-Taani relationship but this is so not Swayam..I know some of us here may have forgot about this thing and some of you don't care but this has butchered Swayam to a great extent'
Again . . .Disagree . . . If u remember , all the misunderstandings SwaRon went through before this Footloose fiasco were sorely because of Taani . . .lets go back down the memory lane . . . During the 6th dancer issue / Taani boycott track and that crap cyber war mess . . . . Swayam was too involved with these blows that he somehow made light of his priced possession , the Trial Relationship with Sharon . . .I still recall the line of Swayam to Sharon- " it's not about u or me , it's about my sister " . . . if Swayam weren't a good brother, he would go on thinking about his own life, not about Taani's problems . . . .
And about ur take on Swayam's responsibility concerning Taani-Shivam relationship, I'll say , u somehow misinterpreted Swayam's point of view . . .he already justified this aspect after that "Rey-students addressing-Taani-Shivam-BF revelation " scene . . . in his opinion, Taani had undergone a couple of blunders after her arrival at St. Louse ( 6th dancer shrew up issue and ACS mess ) and therefore she experienced considerable mental pressure. . and Swayam did want to give her some fresh air of freedom by not interfering in her decision . . . . And this is the reason Swayam didn't intercede in this shot . . . .
And as this show is all about 'Dil', 'Dosti' & 'Dance' . . . I really D-O-N-T W-A-N-T further more brother-sister saga . . . . .
And now regarding Swayam as a friend..Weird but I actually started liking Swayam because he was always there for his friends and not because of his love for sharon'But now I doubt that does he really care about his friends..In fact it is Rey who cares about weaklings more than him'Rey has literally taken over the role of Swayam as a friend..Rey is doing a great job too but I expect a little bit more from Swayam'He just tried talking to Sharon for the disqualification thing..He should have been there for his friends too who couldn't perform in the competition for which they have been practising hard for over a year..
Me too initially started loving Swayam for his friendly approach towards everyone and for me he's still the best friend to all . . he is the most matured one who doesn't loose cool every now and then and keeps balance between friendship and love . . . I really dont know why u think Swayam was only caring Sharon in this footloose fiasco where even Sharon blamed him for not raising his voice against the taunts his friends were throwing at her . . . the fact is Swayam was there to arbitrate both the sides . . . infront of Sharon he was justifying the anger of his friends and infront of friends he tried to justify Sharon's sanity . . . . .
And about ReYam friendship. . . . . .this one is a TOUCHWOOD stuff of D3 till date . . .but it could never be so compassionate and meaningful without the same weight put from both ends . . . Rey can never go perfect if Swayam wasn't there and vice versa . . . . They both are the strength of each other . . . . so, I just chuck the point " Rey taken over Swayam as a friend" realistically . . . . .
combining this three I feel that the current Swayam is HELPLESS which I literally HATE the most..
In the show each of the main character has some major role to play except SWAYAM..
Swayam is like in his own little dream world where he thinks of new ways of misunderstanding Sharon and that's it..He has no sister or friends there..
I've already sorted my points out on the table . . . .so, I believe Swayam is the most strongest character of this show . . .infact he has got a role which has many dimensions comparing to the other characters. . . . 😊
P.S. If you feel that I bashed Swayam here then I am sorry'I had no intension of bashing him..I tried to understand Swayam's POV too but i found way too many faults of his so couldn't restrain myself from writing this as my first post..
Yeah, no hard feelings for ur POV . . . .😛 . . . .I respect ur opinions and just like u, I've written the above lines from my aspect . . . .Shantanu Maheshwari / Swayam Shekhawat is SERIOUSLY a mention worthy reason of my living , let alone watching D3 . . . . .
And WELCOME to IF . . . . . 😊
Edited by MagicalShantanu - 13 years ago
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