Maanmeet jo ghaw lagaye, use kaun mitaye?

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Posted: 19 years ago
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chingaaree koee bhadake, to saawan use buzaaye

saawan jo agan lagaaye, use kaun buzaaye?

patazad jo baag ujaade, wo baag bahaar khilaaye

jo baag bahaar mein ujade, use kaun khilaaye?

hum se mat poochho kaise, mandir tootaa sapanon kaa

logon kee baat naheen hai, ye kissaa hain apanon kaa😡😭

koee dushman thes lagaaye, to meet jiyaa bahalaaye

manameet jo ghaanw lagaaye, use kaun mitaye?😭

naa jaane kyaa ho jaataa, jaane hum kyaa kar jaate

peete hain to jindaa hai, naa pite to mar jaate

duniyaa jo pyaasaa rakhe, to madiraa pyaas buzaaye

madiraa jo pyaas lagaaye, use kaun buzaaye?

maanaa toofaan ke aage, naheen chalataa jor kisee kaa

maujon kaa dosh naheen hai, ye dosh hain aaur kisee kaa

mazadhaar mein naiyyaa dole, to maanzee paar lagaaye

maanzee jo naaw dooboye use kaun bachaaye?😕

That song summed up all Jai went through today…being let down by the one u trusted the most... shatters ones very being, shatters the faith they have in themselves.

Anyone interested in Jigyasa's Nautanki? Not me atleast…. I really don't remember what she said, but I can guarantee you there was nothing new that Jigyasa had to add… except for one major thing. She thanked Bani for helping her clear Jai's misconception about his darling, innocent wife!

It didn't bother me what Jigyasa said about Bani… but my heart went out to Jai who just stood shell shocked and helpless… as much as he wanted to defend Bani… he found himself having nothing to defend. Bani wasn't the only one who was being taunted and humiliated it was his belief and trust in Bani that was mortified.

Jai wasn't the only one hurt and let down… Rano, Massi Dadi all were shattered…. Coz for all of them Bani was the Ideal being.😕

My heart went out to Rano also who stopped Bani and asked for an explanation. And the answers Bani was giving Rano brought tears in her eyes… it was like what have u done to my sister😭? She asked her why is turning away from the love of her life? Why is she leaving Jai when he has changed so much in her love… and pretty coldly Bani answered…'kuch nahi badla…humhari shadi ek samjotha te!' She finishes that she wants the money for her child! And she is happy with the decision she has taken. With that she walked away.

It was raining cats and dogs, Bani is about to step out… when Pushakr landed up with an umbrella!!! 'Chalo Bani GHAR chale?' Huh? Excuse me Mr. Shukla… if u don't remember she is standing outside HER OWN house and u escort her away from it😡. Pushkar, U better wake up and realise Bani isnt perfect... she makes mistakes too... and this time she is WRONG! Stop her... before she destorys everything and Jai. If u cant help knocking sense into bani... then KEEP AWAY, dont complicate things😡

That scene really bugged me. Too much of symbolism happening with Jai-Bani, Pia-Pushakr. The way they showed Bani and pushkar walk away together into stormy night… with Pia standing behind and acting as if seeing them off… was a bit too much. Yeh Bhagwan bhi na… pata nahi Pia ko akal galat time pe kyun dete hain😕. She has been self absorbed all her life… what difference would it make to have her like that for another week? No… u have to make her open her eyes and make sure u have the wrong scene in front of her to see🤢! Pia, please u get back into ur selfish mode… u are better off like that…

Now see what happens… Pushkar leaves Bani with the umbrella to go get the car… Jai turns up in front of Bani and what happens? A strong wind blows and the umbrella flies away!!! It was a stupid way of indicating that Jai brings in trouble into Bani's life! Then they get back Pushkar again to take Bani to shelter.😕 😡

I really don't want to dwell on what Bani said. 1st of all whatever she said made NO sense to me… and 2nd of all she didn't mean a word of what she said! It was just ma'am rehearsed lines to ensure her Drama goes through fool proof😡. She wanted Jai to believe she is over and done with him! Jai didn't believe a word of what she said… he had this 'I don't believe u' look till she said their Marriage was a jhoot😕. She gave a lecture on sindoor and mangalsutr… so it confirmed we aren't going to see Bani sport them any more. What troubled me most was both of them even mentioning the word abortion just for the heck of it. I wanted to strangle both of them😡. Bani called THAT night a mistake. Ok, Bani if u insist! 😕

I am not continuing with what Bani said… she will probably get the worst out of me today coz of her irrational behaviour😡. There is no point holding what she says against her coz she herself doesn't believe in what she says. Btw… more than listening to Bani…I was observing Jai's hair… the whitener they use for him isnt water proof… so it was washed away😆

What Bani is not understanding is this ACT of hers to save Jai's PROPERTY is destroying the MAN himself😭. What hurt me more were the tears streaming down Jai, Rano, Massi and Dadi's eyes. Bani diluted the Love, respect, trust that they had for her… she diluted her very being in their eyes… and the tears that flowed from their eyes stood testimony to it. Bani, Do u have any idea about the damage u causing to them and more importantly to yourself😡?

I care two hoots for Bani's sacrificial act coz circumstances doesn't require her to be a martyr. She just has to tell Jai and he is capable of handling and taking control of the situation in less than 24 hours. It is his Business… he knows it best and can handle it aswell. He has managed for 15-20 years before u showed up, Bani… I really don't understand why u think u are more capable than he is in handling HIS business. Sheer stupidity and u will pay for it one day… u surely will😕! I wont be one bit sorry for you… rather I wont forgive u for what u r putting the people who love through.

Again Jigyasa's nautanki... No takers for this one aswell. Sahil is a total jerk… couldn't he stand up for his wife😡? it was Anu to the rescue again… she is the only one who silences Jigyasa effectively👏.

The performance of the day goes to BANI… for her excellent execution of her stupid plot. She really managed to fool everyone with her cold exteriors👏. But I am least impressed. 😡

Ram and Prachi were good in the confrontation scene. Ram was exceptional in the 1st scene… a silent, helpless, shocked Jai, the drop of tear threatening to overflow… he captured the emotions of Jai perfectly👏. Aurinima was good when she questioned Bani👏. Ashwini was flawless as she seemed to be used to Jigaysa's nautankis😆.

That's it from me... I really hope we can get to see Jai in action t'row... it is the only hope that keeps me hooked to Ks... else i would have given up long time back.

Bye for now

Take care

Lots of Luv

Anu.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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As usual great analysis Anu. 👏 Somehow I feel better after reading your analysis, After another depressing episode. Yeh rona dhona na jaane kab khatam hoga 😭 . Ab to tear glands bhi sookhne lage hain.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Thanks so much Anu! Lovely to read your update. Gives us a real sense of what the epi was like.. and you beautifully captured the essence of what Bani's actions really are doing. Great way to put it -- her PLOT is nothing... Her actions really are KILLING all the love & trust within Jai. He's shattered by her betrayal of their marraige. And especially since he's opened his heart and soul to her....

What a sad state of affairs. And to top it all off.. we have Pia & Pushkar in the fray... causing more confusion.

Again I say, as i always do.. lets hope for the best! Can't wait to watch the epi & see RK...

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Aww...Anu I really expected to read your views about Bani's outburst! We need that pro-JW, anti-Bani shpeel! 😕 Oh well...you are so right in that Bani needn't be a mahatma right now and yet chooses that path....force of habit I guess! 😕 But with what she said about the baby..... it was def not necessary if she didn't mean it so I think she did! 😕 I mean she never reprimanded Pia for having aborted their baby but rather insisted that she stay with Pushky only. So she prolly isn't as mahaan as people make her out to be! Anyways whatever it may be Bani's irked me to no end today! 😡
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Fabulous update Anu, I WAIT AND WAIT AND WAIT FOR IT!

Thank you, its the same quality and quantity I have known in the past three months, impeccable job......... U really make me fall in love with JW all over again

CLAP CLAP CLAP FOR THE SONG!! ITS IN THE TOP TEN OF MY LIFE'S FAVES

Love
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hey Anushka: Thank you for you analysis which keeps me sticking around. What a beautiful song you have chosen to describe Jai's position today.

Yesterday I was angry and vented about JW's character being murdered but I am not making any comments about this episode.

It is apparent that Bani is going out of her way and maybe with much pain and anguish to her own self to make sure that Jai starts hating her. Why is she doing that. Is there someone else who is using Ranveer to get to JW and if Bani is in control of 50% of the assets and shows she hates JW too that person will try to get in touch with her. Is she doing this on her own or is someone like Pushkar or Aditya in this with her? Because even Aditya is trying to find who shot Jai. Is all this linked?

All we can do is wait is see what is thrown at us...........and watch the Jai-Bani hate story.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Great review again Anu.. 👏 .Couldn't agree with you more... I don't think I want to see this episode when it airs in the US in 3 months. 😕

The saying goes Journey is everything…But in the process you commit murders of love, respect, and trust of the ones you live for and who live for you, is it really worth to reach the destination? When she gets there will anyone be there for her? I doubt it…. 😕

I am baffled by the Main Mahaan hoon and Bhartiya Nari Roop…Take matters into your own hands completely undermining the husband's ability to deal with the problems.

Is it a self fulfilling prophecy whereby you rob the person of all he ever had, Love , Self Respect, Trust, his unborn child and money and then act like a Jhaansi ki Rani to fight his battles that could have been avoided in the first place?

Once broken or lost , some things can never be the same.

Btw loved your obs on JW's white hair streak... 😆 Has RK lost any more weight? haven't seen the videos for a long time.

Cheers..
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Posted: 19 years ago
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great analysis anu!! n the song is just perfect!! y do these ppl have to complicate everythin! if bani is doin all this to save jai from loosin everythin (which is what im hopin to happen) y cant she just tell the man! i mean come on y cant they communicate like normal ppl! n y does she have to say things she doesnt mean! is she really tryin to hurt jais feelings! cuz thats exactly what shes doin! her so called sacrifice is so not needed right now! lets c what happens next maybe a divorce just b4 jai finds out the truth n then its too late.. better yet pia becomes the new bani n leaves pushkar for bani! oh god pleez show sumthin positive tom or i might just stop watchin this show! im sooo runnin outta patience here!!

sahar
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: anushka_5

What Bani is not understanding is this ACT of hers to save Jai's PROPERTY is destroying the MAN himself😭. What hurt me more were the tears streaming down Jai, Rano, Massi and Dadi's eyes. Bani diluted the Love, respect, trust that they had for her… she diluted her very being in their eyes… and the tears that flowed from their eyes stood testimony to it. Bani, Do u have any idea about the damage u causing to them and more importantly to yourself😡?

I care two hoots for Bani's sacrificial act coz circumstances doesn't require her to be a martyr. She just has to tell Jai and he is capable of handling and taking control of the situation in less than 24 hours. It is his Business… he knows it best and can handle it aswell. He has managed for 15-20 years before u showed up, Bani… I really don't understand why u think u are more capable than he is in handling HIS business. Sheer stupidity and u will pay for it one day… u surely will😕! I wont be one bit sorry for you… rather I wont forgive u for what u r putting the people who love through.

Very well said, Anu!!!👏👏👏 I'm completely with you about Bani's irrational behaviour..I don't care a damn about her "mahaan aatma" act! If she continues with this behaviour then I'll fully support Jai if he gets back to that nasty angry arrogant Jai Walia that he used to be before..

I still can't understand why she just cud'nt tell him everything plainly..atleast she could've tried to tell Jai the truth and if he did'nt believe her, then after that she could've claimed for divorce with 50% property in alimony..and later on when Jai learns the truth he wud feel bad for not listening to her and believing her then..

She's used to doing these mahaanta drama everytime..during Anu's pregnancy, when she just had to mention it to Jai, she complicated things and chose to be a martyr..then about Sahil-Rano's relationship, again she did'nt tell him anything, even though the relationship between Bani & Jai was pretty good by then..

Anyway, I don't want to dwell on her behaviour anymore..she is plain WRONG in her approach in solving the so-called problem, and she will suffer the consequences one day!

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Posted: 19 years ago
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well anu .. as usuaL GREAT JOB....
wanna say that jigs wass goood.. 😃 wat she was doing .. she was shouting but ,,, her expresions were good..jigs plans are failed and has her dreams tooo yarrrrr 😆 😆 .. making every one live in walia mansion on her terms and conditions .. i feel sad for jai .. but he wil feel better as soon he will come to know about bani .... 😡 😡 😡 ..so called plan..
i agree with you as most of us said .. he can HANDLE THINGS TRUST HIM 😡 .... but nahi bani ji tu mahaan hain .. khud hi kuch karein gii woh ...
yeh Pia was seeing off them .. wat was that

well hope ajj kuch behtar hoga ...
cheers

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