Don't want to interfere, but while reading Mahi's post I didn't feel she was making fun of you or bashing- the 'rofl' business was more aimed at Jagya and Gauri and their sufferings.
You made a post speaking of your fears and thoughts, she countered it pointwise- expressing her opinions. That's what forum discussions are for, right?
Please don't get offended, anybody, I just feltt here was a misunderstanding here and may be I could help.
Personally, the 4 month delay is making me uneasy too, but I hope what Mahi says is right.