How long can you morn someone? - Page 3

Originally posted by: su0612

Well said rani... 👏i think all things goes for only kunal... kunal do that ..kunal do this ..here is only kunal who do everything wrong... is he really do...????😲 i mean wat he sit 24/7 in corner n think n cry... 😭 if he do this also... that is also disliked ...😔 so cant say anything more ... just if kunal is not always ryt so also not wrong all time...

Originally posted by: -Rani

Exactly my point too Rush, no matter what Kunal is always at fault because he doesn't shed buckets of tears.

@ Red - That's what I always feel too, no matter what Kunal ki hamesha bajani hi hai, but I am also okay with that because that shows how important his character is that all of us only focus on his character more than any other character in the show👏

Originally posted by: jay_bpm

Exactly my point too Rush, no matter what Kunal is always at fault because he doesn't shed buckets of tears.

@ Red - That's what I always feel too, no matter what Kunal ki hamesha bajani hi hai, but I am also okay with that because that shows how important his character is that all of us only focus on his character more than any other character in the show👏

Originally posted by: Mages

well di...it depends on a person nature...how emotionally attached with the person whom he lost...

well you say in real life there isn't such person...well in my family there is one such person who is mourning for his lost mom for almost 7 yrs...my cousin bro lost his mother and now it has been 7 yrs...in this 7 yrs i have not seen him happy...he is party person...he always love to go out with friends...organise parties in diwali for family...he dances to the fullest...and even make us dance...he is the best bro 7 yrs back...but after he lost his mother whom is my aunt...he lost his smile...his jovial nature...though he arrange parties...but he never participate in it...he always sit in one corner...thinking...he always look lost...the brightness in his face is lost...he is 27 yrs old now...but you know in the night he held his mother's pic close to his heart and sleep...my uncle always gets worried for him...at times we come to visit him...he gives a fake smile...but deep down he is lost...since there is one in my family...in form of my bro...so there is people in real world mourning for loved ones for yrs...even for their whole life...such person are more emotional than practical...when its the matter of relationship from hearts...its expected...i have come across such person...my bro even now remember the funeral rites he did for his mom...and i remembered how heartbroken he was...when my aunt body was taken away from cremation after he created his rites for his mom...the way he cried upon his mother's body and ask them not to separate him from her...everyone had to hold him...in real basis there are such person who is still mourning and brooding for their loved ones...whether its death or long separation like SiNal...

now for KC rocking the party to the fullest...well though i can't digest see him dancing and enjoying himself...bcz in 9 yrs instead of dancing and enjoying himself...he can work and give support to his lame family and then he can dance to the fullest forgetting siddhi also...but then on second thought he was doing for seema and anand C happiness...once he told veena that he will do anything for his son...so thats what he is doing...hiding his pain of lost love and just for the sake of his son he brings a fake smile on his face...but that doesn't mean in such a extend where he forgets abt his wife in jail rotting bcz of his filthy past...i have mixed reactions on his dance but sammy looks cute when dancing...post-leap he is super cool...

since you love KC enjoying party the fullest and dancing with full force celebration...what if siddhi does the same that KC did yesterday?...will you give the same reaction?...siddhi enjoying a party to the fullest forgetting her husband and elder son...she is rocking the dancing floors...celebrations in full swing...forgetting all that happened in 9 yrs...forgetting that she is a mother of 2 kids...forgetting that she is married as well as divorce to KC...will you support her?...what is your view upon it...

now coming to siddhi's sacrifice...sorry di...i have different POV...siddhi did not betrayed her husband...if now KC is happy dancing...celebrating...and living for his son is all bcz of siddhi...if she never sign the deal and sacrifice her life...KC would be rotting in jail for no crime of his...he might be even hanged to death...you are right that siddhi should have told kunal abt her deal with richa...but then richa is way too powerful than KC...what if she turns her promise and hook kunal into a another case...siddhi have thought all this aspect than sacrifice her life...if KC is with his family is bcz of siddhi's sacrifice...she never betrayed KC for her own happiness like richa did...infact she betrayed KC for his own happiness...which lies in his family...and their son...yes siddhi made him believe that she has become a vamp...but how can kunal even thought that siddhi can kill her own new-born son...why did he need to listen to a matron...can't he find out for himself...even with her younger son she only thought abt KC...how will he be w/o his son...he will be devastated...heartbroken...he will go back to his old ways...she was concern abt him...she kept kunal above everything even for her kids...she wanted kunal to have her younger son too...she sacrifice everything for kunal...her life...her career as a lawyer...her kids...what more she needs to loose...even after 9 yrs...what she got loosing...a son who can't recognise her...who is rude to her...who can't accept her...and KC got silver spoon...anand C has his mother qualities inherited in him...anand C is taking care of his father rather than vice-versa...KC has his full family with him...his son is exact replica of his mother...well its all siddhi's stupidity...but can't blame her she is blinded by love...and when its love...everything is fair in love and war...what did siddhi cheated him...i don't think she cheated him...did she take thakral's money and enjoy herself...she was rotting in jail for 9 yrs...noone knows she is alive or dead...she was not enjoying herself...

well its completely my POV...no offend...i don't mind KC dancing ...he was looking cute...but just that i can't digest due to circumstances this anniversary is being celebrated...they all behave as if siddhi does not exist in the world while siddhi on the other side is always remembering her family and KC...and they act as if anand C is born by clouds...

well 9yrs is a long time...siddhi has been alone...so there will be a little change in her psychological thinking...emotions...and reactions especially when living in a jail rather than a open separation...so she into believing that KC has moved on in life is realistic...she can't trust her life...happiness doesn't stay long in her life...so she bound to think as such...here its not abt trust factor...even seeing KC-richa in such circumstances...she still loves kunal...and never form a hatred for him...she accepted that he has move on...but for her she still loves him...unlike KC...who till now i don't know what he feels for siddhi in this 9 yrs...ok fine getting drunk and blabbering her name...deep down KC loves her...but when he is in sense...what is his thoughts abt siddhi...which i fail to understand

Originally posted by: -Rani

Exactly Sonia - Actually Kunal is going through more pain than anyone in real life would after 9 long years after their spouse betray and leave them.

Since we, the audiences know the truth behind Siddhi's intentions, we can forgive her for hiding things from Kunal and being very cruel and brash with him when he came to meet her.

Is it really easy to forget the taunting words that his wife said to him? Worthless, good for nothing what not, but still the guy can't stand a word against her which shows his decency and kind heartiness.

I also hope, we can start seeing things from his perspective as well. The who sheds more tears doesn't always mean is in more pain😉