Anandi's memories

During this entire Teej episode and especially while doing the pooja in the end before breaking the fast Anandi's mind was filled with memories of Jagya.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

During this entire Teej episode and especially while doing the pooja in the end before breaking the fast Anandi's mind was filled with memories of Jagya.

I agree she had spent a large chunk of her life as Jagya so she will have lot of good memories and bad memories of her times with Jagya.

It is good that she has let go of the bad memories and hangs on to only happy memories.

How right is she is to hang on to those memories of her ex husband especially now she is getting married to another man?

I agree memories come like a flood you have no control over them shouldn't she consciously try and put a dam over those memories?

I'm 100% agreeing with u, i just don't get Anandi😕...And i hope CV are not going to bring Jagat back to Anandi and i hope she will not accept him😲...I mean i know she loved Jagat, but after everything he did to her😡 she is thinking abt him anyway!!! I hope she will fall for Shiv before their marriage!!!😳😉

I agree with you totally.

I have always wanted A to forget her past and move ahead. She has moved ahead in life no doubt but hanging on to those memories are not doing any good to her. Infact it makes her feel more sad. So yes they are coming in the way of her progressing. Yes it is a good thing to remember the good memories rather than the bad but that should help you feel happy, that you atleast lived that episode of your life well. But if those happy memories are making you sad then what's so happy about it in the first place? 😕 Yes she doesn't react adversely to someone who causes harm to her but if it is her family that is pained she does get angry. This time J insulted her dead mother but still she chose to think of the good memories of J. Really? That makes no sense at all. How come she has no disgust towards him?

Having said this, until she is single and does not have any other person in her life (in the place of a husband/fiance) these memories that she has is not harmful to any one else. But now she herself has requested Shiv to marry her what ever be the reason so she needs to work towards it too. After all it is her decision to fulfill her mother's wish so she needs to do it sincerely. Shiv did tell her that there is no hurry to marry and that she should take her time but she insisted on having it right away. So she needs to work on it too. I totally understand that she is going through a very tough phase since her mom's death and being forced into the marriage but if she has decided to take the plunge right away (not take more time as suggested by Shiv) she has to do justice to Shiv. What's his fault in all of this? He is still being understanding and supportive to her. But A is not doing anything in return. Forget making an effort to warm up to Shiv, she is not even ready to let go off the memories of J. She is taking Shiv for granted and is wronging him big time. She should have some respect for him like he has for her.

I don't expect her to change overnight but at least make an effort. There is no such thing shown till now and that's what's unfair and disappointing. I would not blame Shiv's family if they notice this attitude in A and be unhappy with Shiv's choice. Getting into a new relationship is not a joke. One needs to sincerely put the past behind them, its only then that they can do justice to the next.