MEN HATE REJECTION! ASR IS NO 'EXCEPTION'!! :) - Page 4

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Posted: 13 years ago
#31
I think some people here are disappointed because somewhere they keep expecting IPK to be like other shows. In this case, they were eagerly waiting for the day when the mighty ASR will fall flat on his face, regret what he has done and change his world view. But that does not happen in real life. People do not change so easily. Especially not a person like ASR. He is used to being selfish and a jerk. Domineering and goal focused. He had to grow up and harden himself against feelings and manipulations. Even if such a person regrets his decision, his basic personality is not going to change overnight.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#32
yup completely agreed.. infact khushi took it tat far.. she didnt argue the moment she entered the room.. she changed to lehanga,, gave him visual treat.. let him touch her.. put her on bed(just see how he has a palm under her head when he placed her on the pillow so caring) and when he was super turned on and abt to .. well that "nahi arnav ji" shouldve shocked him.. instead the lovely guy asks.." why not khushi ? are you okay? "...and only after her bashan on riti riwaz he gets irritated .. his tought.. "girlie.. come on.. i thought u were not ok me touching u.. but then thats not ur concern.. u need it as much as i do but u r worried about some stupid rituals"...Guys Pls. understand ASR..
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Posted: 13 years ago
#33
Lovely post and agree.
Men hate rejection especially when they make the move. I am married and have a 6 year old and I can see it sometimes in my hubby too when all my attention is only on the little one. He is not romantic or possessive but that how men are. they need their attention and when they demand it better give it to them.
And personally, I was also annoyed with Khushi. She hugs him, teases him, sleeps on the same bed with him, has had so many near kises with him, etc etc etc but does not want to consummate the marriage because of pheras, I find it ridiculous. If there is a contract and her marraige is registered, where is the question of pheras either.
He has gone out of character to make it special for her. so a lame thing about pheras does not work. atleast for me. I agree with Arnav when he says the feelings matter the most especially when they have been living together for 6 months and the entire household in RM as well as Gupta house think they cannot stay away from each other or keep their hands off each other.
And given the gentleman he is he stopped when she asked him to stop. Otherwise it would not have taken him long to over power her and force her too.
He is trying to fulfill every wish of hers and neednt have waited till yesterday to do what he intended to do.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#34
I love every bit of ASR in the epi...I do NOT think he was being a jerk. I just LOVED how he showed his fustration. It happens sometime in a marriage when the woman is not in the mood 😃LOL
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Posted: 13 years ago
#35
Excellent post Mandy. You said it all and there is nothing else to say. He is a human being only. A guy after all. He always desired Khushi ,though he suppressed his feelings in the name of hatred. Now that he is married and living with her in the same room , he never tried to force her into Physical relationship. Now that they love each other he wanted to be fully committed to her and wanted the same from her. She never said that she does not want it properly. She was scared but any girl would be scared for her first night. ASR stopped as soon as she asked him to stop. He was angry and a bit mad but Any guy in his situation would go mad. It's very difficult for a man to accept rejection and that too when he is fully turned on and had to stop.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#36
well said, your title made me think u were talking of rejection in a different way, glad i still read the post...

hope to see khushi talking to arnav in todays episode before the end of the night
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Posted: 13 years ago
#37
actually you brought forward a very key point in male woman relationship
you are bang on right.
men hate physical rejection
to them love is expressed physically and for women it is emotional
a very good observation from your side
beleive it or not i actually thought on the same lines
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Posted: 13 years ago
#38
completely agree!
there was no point to bash arnav,i always criticize him 4 his ultey Asrish actions but yesterday he was a man in love with charisma of beauty, his reaction to her reaction was completely natural,yes he did add some extra spice but it was expected as he is like this all the time! i didn't find any thing wrong ,he has right over her,he is irritated becoz of all the rituals but he was right at his place that they r actually husband wife,he was practical in saying that there feelings matter more,nd even if he had only sexual tention,then again so what,hez a man nd its was his way to show his love, though loved khushi for what ever she said nd did!
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Posted: 13 years ago
#39
You analysed and penned it down so nicely 😊 . Thanks for finally deciding to post 😉. As for bashers/ haters . . .

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Posted: 13 years ago
#40
All that i kow is that ASR was right and he is portraying his character perfectly.

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