I kinda agree with Arnav...

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-sanika-

@-sanika-

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Posted: 13 years ago

that feelings are more important than rituals.

It reminds me of a line I had heard in a movie, probably Sex and the City which goes something like this, "The wedding is for others, the marriage is between two people. Most people confuse the two."

Edit : Personally, I think Arshi is just starting. Arnav and Khushi had been attracted to each other before and have eventually ended up falling in love. But this is not the final point in any relationship, its just the beginning. Only now have they started to understand each others likes and dislikes and adjusting accordingly. This process will take time and will not happen overnight. Only when they make mistakes can they learn from it. Its the basis of any relationship.

Edited by sanika_hp - 13 years ago

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@Tish_Ani

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Posted: 13 years ago

I wanna be neutral oderwise dere wil b another debate on dis!

Bod r right n bod r wrong in deir own ways...

But frankly speaking, i pity ASR, his wish never gets satisfied, maybe a defect in his kundli🤣

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Hiruni

@CDlove

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Posted: 13 years ago

That's his opinion. Shouldn't he consider what the woman wants before enforcing his perceptions on the matter? What if the woman doesn't want to bed him? A little bit of decency wouldn't have hurt.

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Shazia

@shockalot

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Posted: 13 years ago

I'm not siding with anyone - i agree that feelings are foremost - they're so vital and so telling - a ritual can just signify the coming together of two people in a religious sense but feelings connect us on a deeper, emotional level.

At the same time, I'm quite religious and I can't imagine getting into an intimate relationship without it being solidified into a marriage via the necessary ritualistic ceremonies.

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vijji12

@vijji12

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Posted: 13 years ago

if the wedding is for others then it is not required but u r partner is very particular about wedding and she dreamt about it so much he has to give importenc eto it.

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Johny S Raj

@Johny.S.Raj

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Posted: 13 years ago

I am very happy Khushi stopped him and Dadi saw them, now atleast there will be a re marriage forget redemption. Khushi gonna be happy again and i am going to love it. If he re-marry her that is all she wants

Edited by JohnySolomonRaj - 13 years ago

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srishipra

@srishipra

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Posted: 13 years ago

sanika_hp dear,

You aptly said it. Thanx.

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Arshig8

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: shockalot
I'm not siding with anyone - i agree that feelings are foremost - they're so vital and so telling - a ritual can just signify the coming together of two people in a religious sense but feelings connect us on a deeper, emotional level.

At the same time, I'm quite religious and I can't imagine getting into an intimate relationship without it being solidified into a marriage via the necessary ritualistic ceremonies.

Wow loved the way you expressed your feelings about relationships etc,.. Agreed with you. Personally I can not imagine myself involved with anyone before rituals,

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icegirl31

@icegirl31

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Posted: 13 years ago

True feelings r imp... bt in India more importance is gvn 2 rituals n religions... n Khushi has been taught d same n thus she ws also nt comfy wid ASR n Lavanya's live in... she does give rituals more importance n ASR wants 2 do wat he wants bt it wud nt harm him if he listens 2 Khushi once n dats wat wud happen REMARRIAGE n he also knows wat his family members thinkng is abt d whole marriage system

Can CV's hv anythng peacefully in their life b4 any Drama ??????