Originally posted by: honeypriya
How about the "other women" being given the haq if she has already had pheras too...and a temple shaadi ????
Why have we not seen an answer to ASR's anger with the "marriage ceremony" till Khushi recounted how important it is to her during Preeto's wedding ?? 😉
If that's the case..as in other women getting married with all 7 pheras...but it was not in presence of anyone...no families..no elders to bless the union.
..and also the fact the man is not marrying for the first time...and that he has married already...either the first out of family and second for love...or first wedding out of love and then the wedding in front of the family ...the actual status of wife..a proper wedding in front of family and friends..
So there s something that has left an impression on asr's mind...but for someone like Khushi who knows the importance..the pheras shud have been brought into light a way before..yeah given all the hungama that has happened..the time has come now...
And for pheras na..it's the vow u take in front of Agni..the messenger between gods and people..bond that is unbreakable with each other exchanging vows..in my house style of wedding..we don't have 7pheras..we have only three rounds around the fire and 7steps..it's called Sapthapadhi...and wedding is considered incomplete without it!!!! Why cos the lord of fire..the messenger ..hasn't blessed or acknowledged the union!!!!
I don know if I made sense though!!!!!😕
Edited by subiscs - 13 years ago
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