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If you were Toasty, and had found out that you have brain tumour?

basket_101

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hey Guys!

I'm Hinal!

I've been watching this show regularly since a long time now, but have been an almost silent reader on the SBS forum...

But couldn't stop myself...

What would you guys do if you were in a situation like Toasty where you find out that you have brain tumour, that too last stage?

I personally would start by telling Tej, and then tell the whole family

I understand Toasty's POV that telling them will only make them worried... But they are family!

And especially Tej... I think he has a right to know

I don't think it's fair of Toasty to not let Tej know of such a huge issue...

What about you all? What do you guys think?

PS... Getting treatment done is a whole different concern as well

Agreed that a person probably doesn't want to spend their last days in the hospital, but considering that we have advanced a lot in the field of medicine and it is probable that a person may survive! If not survive, then at least be able to live for a longer period of time than one would without treatment...

This is the only thing that kind of irked me... But then again, she did justify the reason why she doesn't want to get treatment for it...

Anyways.. Would love to read your responses 😊

Till then,

Take care (=

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Cyberpsychooo

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Posted: 13 years ago

She def. took the wrong way!

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basket_101

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Cyberpsychooo
She def. took the wrong way!

That's exactly what I think too...

It is justified from her point of view... but if something like this happened to Tej and he hid it from her, wouldn't she be hurt too?

I wish she had told him at least

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nikkigreen

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Posted: 13 years ago

First confide in Tej; then, together, tell both of the families.

I realize why she didn't want to tell the family, but it is very cruel for Tej to find out this way.

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basket_101

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: nikkigreen
First confide in Tej; then, together, tell both of the families.

I realize why she didn't want to tell the family, but it is very cruel for Tej to find out this way.

That's exactly what I thought!

Her purpose to hide it from everyone was for a good intent... But she should've at least confided in Tej

She should've considered how hurt he must have felt when he found out about such a grave matter through others, and not Toasty herself