shiv never expressed love to anandi

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anshul

@milindrose

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Posted: 13 years ago

shiv loves her but he had been behaving frndly and never tried to convey directly his love😳 to anandi ,he accepted marriage proposal of DS as anandi thinks just sake of sympathy 😳but she is totally unaware that he loves her ,nor he told him clearly he wants to marry as he loves her❤️ ,so anandi requested only for mother sake but she feels he will be same like other men 💔so sceptical💔 view she has for shiv

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gomatidj

@gomatidj

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Posted: 13 years ago

arrey anandi ne kabhi mouka nahi diya shiv ko...use dekhke to aag baboola ho rahi thii😡.he is only trying to be friend with her first...but usse pehle usne maa ko vachan de diya...bechara shiv kya karega...he would have wooed her otherwise😉 slowly but surely 👍🏼

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mbaparamita

@mbaparamita

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Posted: 13 years ago

are shiv is always telling nah ki "i am always der for u anandi" abh bichara aur kya kahega...jugg head ki tarha jor jabarjasti to nehi kar sakta ...shiv bohad samajhdar insan hai ishi liye he will slowly express his feelings...😃😃

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ButterflyChaser

@ButterflyChaser

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Posted: 13 years ago

Ashi told Anu tht Shiv loves her but she denied it by saying... itz just physical attraction... Itz gud tht shiv dint propose... else she wud hv given a big lecture on "diff b/w love and physicl attractn"

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tinoo

@tinoo

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Posted: 13 years ago

I think actions speak louder than words.

In anandi's place, what shiv has done for me so far (sumitra skype conversation); coming to mom's funeral; coming to mom's barsi; helping fix the roof of cowshed; celebrating the school's government grant with jalebi; thoughtfulness in getting small gifts etc. would have conveyed to me that he loves me ... without his needing to express it verbally.

It's certainly more than what jagya (her sole frame of comparison till now) has ever done.

Jagya refused to go to her school when she asked him to come, he said it was just some silly faltu activity she was engaged in.

He never came to jaipur for her illness when she was hospitalized despite several calls from bapusa.

He never got her any gifts as an adult, and whatever she got for him, he threw away saying they were 'gawar' knick-knacks not up to his very high standards;

he never celebrated any of her achievements or accomplishments when they happened, though prior to their happening he would always berate her for not being accomplished.

he never told her "if you need anything, just call me, I am there for you"... instead jagya said "if you need anything, it is your problem, dont bother me, I am busy".

At the time when shiv accepted dadisa's proposal... anandi had nothing to go by about shiv's feelings for her ... but now after his support through the divorce (in small ways) and his support at the funeral (both physical and moral) have given her a clear indication that even if he may not be loving her, he certainly cares for her more than jagya ever did.

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Suchi-

@Suchi-

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Posted: 13 years ago

I agree but yeah Shiv is trying to be friends first.

I wonder when he expresses his love how her reaction will be. I think he needs to speak about his feelings too. She needs to know , it will make her feel good about herself that someone loves her : ) and some how heal the wounds inflicted by Jagya

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ButterflyChaser

@ButterflyChaser

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Posted: 13 years ago

@tinoo... well said!!

Shiv is expressing his love by his actions!!

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Teeya

@Teeya

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: gomatidj
arrey anandi ne kabhi mouka nahi diya shiv ko...use dekhke to aag baboola ho rahi thii😡.he is only trying to be friend with her first...but usse pehle usne maa ko vachan de diya...bechara shiv kya karega...he would have wooed her otherwise😉 slowly but surely 👍🏼

Aapko nahi lag raha hai ki anandi Aapni jagah sahi thi?