New confusion -- shiv's mom thinks its ashi - Page 4

Originally posted by: katts

Hina: I already wrote this and writing again...he loves Ashi as "friend" not lover!!!!

And I guess Shiv wont have any problem clarifying this confusion! You already pointed out we love our family, friends etc..so he too just loves her in that sense. But thats not the case with Anandi😆

He can think of Ashi as his sister😆 But can he think of Anandi like that???

dear where did i say he cannot clear this confusion 🥱but he needs naa or not .?because people might think seeing their bond they might love each other which is true in ashi's case but not his ...and i have written many times here he loves her as friend ..pleech tell me where i said he is romantically involved with her .if he thinks ashi as sister tou rakhi bhandhwa lay everything will be cleared to all 🤣but till he doesn't get married and seeing his ashi's bond people can say perhaps they love each other so he needs to say i don't love her that way ..she is my best friend ...am i wrong? if a person like me ask him why don;t you want to be in relation with her of life partner she is your best friend when you have most things towards her which are good for a relation of life partner ...he can say i don't see her as my ideal life partner , my dream girl i always wanted to marry a girl like Anandi who shares my views of ideal life partner for me ...confusion cleared ...

You didn;t get my point ...yes he said i don't love her but how he doesn't love her when he has almost all those things towards her that a person has towards that person whom he loves ..so its easy to say for any person seeing their relation their bonding they are in love Ashi has all these towards him she says she loves him ..he has all these things towards her he says i don't love her quite confusing😆 ...his mom after seeing their bonding must have thought perhaps they love each other ...only my guess can be wrong too but seeing their relation any person can say they love each other but later shiv will have to clarify and tell i don't love her she is only my best friend...😆

Originally posted by: hina13

dear where did i say he cannot clear this confusion 🥱but he needs naa or not .?because people might think seeing their bond they might love each other which is true in ashi's case but not his ...and i have written many times here he loves her as friend ..pleech tell me where i said he is romantically involved with her .if he thinks ashi as sister tou rakhi bhandhwa lay everything will be cleared to all 🤣but till he doesn't get married and seeing his ashi's bond people can say perhaps they love each other so he needs to say i don't love her that way ..she is my best friend ...am i wrong? if a person like me ask him why don;t you want to be in relation with her of life partner she is your best friend when you have most things towards her which are good for a relation of life partner ...he can say i don't see her as my ideal life partner , my dream girl i always wanted to marry a girl like Anandi who shares my views of ideal life partner for me ...confusion cleared ...

i have given my replies but i guess i come to new post a new member come to old post and reply ..sorry cannot reply to everyone as i guess in my few replies i have cleared my view so sorry cannot reply to everyone again and again same thing ..don;t have that much energy ...i am very sorry for that

Originally posted by: katts

Acha so all the while you meant that he has a "need" to clear things?? Sorry I'm a tube-light😆

Well yes if such a confusion arises then he has to clear it😊

muaah lemme hug you for finally understanding what i meant 🤗yes i meant that

Originally posted by: hina13

muaah lemme hug you for finally understanding what i meant 🤗yes i meant that

actually i think hina's point is very clear from her first post we are not understanding ..she is not proving Shiv loves ashi and should marry her 😆she is saying he do love her but as a friend not seeing her as his future wife ..love and friendship elements are present in every relation its up to us what name is given to our relation or we give it that name ..seeing shiv's and ashima's bonding a person can say perhaps they are in love with each other and shiv only needs to realize his feelings for her like Anandi thought ...seeing ashi she understood she loves him more than friend but for shiv she thought perhaps he needs to understand his feelings for her ...but what she didn't know shiv only sees ashi as his best friend ...but he doesn't see her as his life partner .he doesn't want to marry her ..yes if ashima asks him to marry her seeing his care and bond with her i think he will say yes ashima too knows it thats why she lied to him i don't love you ..anandi misunderstood our relation because ashi knows if he comes to know perhaps to keep her happy not to break her heart he agrees to marry her ...and ashi doesn't want that she doesn't want him to marry her leaving a woman like whom he always desired a life partner ...but the thing shiv needs to clear his relation with ashi to people who misunderstands their relation ..perhaps his mom too misunderstood like Anandi...he only needs to realize his feelings for her but the thing is where to realize those feelings for her when he only sees her as his best friend not future wife and he has his own reasons for it ...but he will have to clear to people who confuses them ..i think he needs to clear to Anandi too or has he done it ?🤔i missed something and yes he can its not difficult for him

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

Dixie - me serious for 30 secs😊 Shiv loves Ashi...he's not in love with her...farq yeh hi hai...if Ashi had asked him for marriage he may have said yes, but not from his heart. Here he is trying to say "no" against his heart's wish.

Girl-boy can be friend but rarely so... and here one of them definitely wanted more...so, no

Now ... delete this post from your brain! Borrow Gauri's memory wippers... erase!

Originally posted by: dixie123

Anjie:

@bold: didn't understand the meaning😕