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Posted: 13 years ago
Do we women always keep ourselves in fairy land?? when we cross with a handsome guy does our hair starts moving with the wind, Does any rabba ve play. Is life for a women all about drooling for a handsome men. We as women, does our life stops because of men??Ok in romance serials it happens. But to show a lady being treated as a puppet, how much do you think its justified? Being a women i cried watching the recent episodes of Iss pyaar ko. Does sometimes ROMANCE is bigger than Women SELF RESPECT??if u say that wait and watch for the story to unfold, i would like to say that its not about eagerness, its about the episodes.
Look my point its 1 month of kidnap is over, and fans wanted to see arnav repenting, feeling guilty like hell for what troubles he has given to khushi always. Khushi risked her life to save arnav. But instead of showing Repentance, they are showing ARNAV devising tactics to woo khushi by his own methods. sometimes shouting at her or blackmailing her. I wanna aks girls Suppose if a boy misbehaves with u and wants to appease u win ur frendship back. wud u like him to forcefully try to make things normal without apologising??No never. U wud want him to be sorry and then things to turn normal. Similarly what arnav is doing is not pure love. We want to see Apology first than Romance. Being its difficult to see a women character being treated as doormat, being used as commodity from time to time. Just look when arnav felt he wants to safeguard his di's mariage he forcefully married khushi, Now he wants to remarry for his happiness. When he will think about what Khushi wants?Is rabba ve, some cozy moments enough. All Just ask this urself as a women Are we women meant to be treated as commodity only to suit according to mood of men??

And thats the reason TRP is down. even if they fill up all coming episodes with romantic scenes nothing can please us untill Arnav cries and regrets his mistakes. We cant wait for this track any longer because its getting too much. Except young girls, the majority house wives who form the major TRP audience are not liking the fact that Khushi has no self respect. She was insulted badly by arnav on 12th july yet arnav has no guilt.
If Gul is truly a women i expect things to change sooner or else i must say its truly KALYUG
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Posted: 13 years ago
Nice poem Hiru 🤗 To me this current track seems more like pampering ASR's ego than a wooing track... 😭
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Posted: 13 years ago
Something that I posted elsewhere

Understanding Khushi's pain and suffering has really nothing to do with love - it has to do with realising what all he has put her through, it's realising that his family is still blaming her and trying to clear her name, it's trying to defend her dignity, it's ensuring that mami does not ridicule her. If my husband stood silently allowing his mother or aunt to call me names, he better be worried about his family jewels! :-))


All this has nothing to do with love. It has to do with realising that as a human being he has wronged another human being, and the need to set that right. That requires you to understand pain and suffering and that is one thing Arnav is no stranger to, so it amazes me that he can't see or feel khushi's pain when he can see and feel Anjali's pain. Understanding pain is not person specific - you either do or you don't. However you can chose to alleviate that pain or not, turn a blind eye or pretend it doesn't exist at all.


And what he is doing to Khushi now is rubbing salt into the wound - unpardonable! No matter what his intentions, even if he finally intends for the Gupta's to move to a better house / neighbourhood or build a better house for them. There is a wonderful quote that I am reminded of : "Never take a person's dignity: it's worth everything to them and nothing to you"


Arnav now reminds me of a kindergarten kid - its his obstinacy, his zid that he gets Khushi, by hook or crook! He doesn't stop to think or really care how she feels. So Devdas it is, if it gets him to realise that.




"Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who stands by you when no one else is willing to, who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky his is to have you... The one who turns to his friends and says, 'that's her.'"


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Posted: 13 years ago
wow i went thru a qucik summary of the epis i missed...
i find witht the drama that the fail to tie of their ends or taper off a crescendo well bfore they leap to the next part or even keep a regular momentum...some tracks ...seem so unwantedly drawn out and some finish in a flash...viewing satisfaction is somewhere lost in the see saw...
where every situation cpl are different and they deal with things differently eccetera eccetera eccetera...the current one is kinda hard to follow...
she was accused of the gravest crime by him...punished severely...then he gets kidnapped, she defies all to get him back, shyam is exposed not convincingly...family esp di misunderstands...her lif comes crashing down...bro then dispite having losely said i luv yous and non verbally supported each other...accuses her again...then sans convosation retorts to black mail with the old warn out black maile again...then decides to woo her...(while sissy is falling to peices)...then he dicides to force feed her his gifts and then bother her...tease her...plans to win her in 12 odd days by ermm showing how dependent she is on him!?
and for all that this cpl have never really courted confessed or had any real conversation...
and why prey is she going along...
yep i think they seem to be scared to delve into anyone type of story telling with boldness..they allude and skim over things...they milk the tear ducts and then are at a loss to bring the curve back...the story lacks depth the charactors lack depth...
and all in all i think the past glory...is what is pulling it thru...
and an audience that has been sold on Arhi Sarun...and are not willing to let go...an old habit...
foot in door syndrome...
and now to answer...does he really love her..i dont think he knows the answer luv cos he has not even once sat down and sorted his thoughts out...
Mr R was some one who did not believe in love now apparently he is in love...and yet his Eurekha has not come...then we ask how much does he know her..to love her like she needs to be...

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