why marriage as life and death issue?

i have often been thinking seeing indian serials so much emphasizing on marriage but in some serials marriage has really been made as life and death issue e.g Balika Vadhu...i know marriage is important ..every person needs a support in his / her life ..a life long companion ...but why really so much pressure for it ...😆can't a person live without it ...a person who has the ability has made some purpose in his /her life that can make his/ her move forward in life even without it..e.g Anandi...she is right now strong enough and she can lead her life even without marriage .. her life is not purposeless ..she had made a goal in her life to help others to succeed her jaitser women ...she has support of her family ok they can't stay with her forever but she has her best friends and many she is making on her way who will support her forever ..yes we know she is in pain on breakage of her relation with Jagaya but ..the mission she made in her life made her come out of her mourning and do something in her life ...yes dadisaa and her parents like every parents want to see her as a wedded woman again.having all her happiness back but really why making it as life and death issue ? she doesn't want .to get married ...give her time and space and respect her decision ..perhaps someday she herself will be ready for it .but really why you all making marriage for her life and death issue ...😕i can understand dadisaa yeh dokri kabhi nahi sudhnary wali😆but Bhairo and Ghena are quite sensible people ..Bhairo was first protesting but now once again he is quite after dadisaa ...yeah they found gem of person in Shiv they know he will keep Anandi happy but Anandi is just not ready ..if she is not ready she doesn't want to marry ..she is saying she can move on without it ..give her a chance and stop pressurizing her ...now more emotional torture mother's last wish...really this is not marriage but whole world at stake issue ...if Anandi won't marry all world will be doomed and Anandi can save the world by remarrying 😆really they all need to get a life ..i consider myself so lucky that my parents are not like this who have made marriage for me a life and death issue 😆i hope shiv do a heart to heart talk to Anandi and says to Dadisaa he doesn't want this type of marriage with Anandi...he'll be ready to marry her when she will be ready from her free will till then he will always support her like a good friend...that will be good and sensible approach from Shiv

yes agree mahi ..marriage is really made a life and death issue for Anandi..really if she doesn;t want to get married ..she is just not ready for it ..ok fine give her time and space ..its not like she has no life without marriage ...she is slowly moving on helping other women ..making their lives better hence finding peace, solace and purpose in her life which is making her move forward in her life ..she is not alone and she never will be ..perhaps someday she herself will be ready for it on her free will it if not then be it ...but don't force her like this ..its like once again everyone is forcing their wishes on her not listening to her 😳yes everyone is thinking of her welfare but give her sometime to think about her own welfare too ..take decisions in her life ..why is that every time in her life others should take her decisions and just force them on her without her will...and Singh family is behaving a lot strange ...i mean how much you guys really know about Shiv ...just few things ..have seen few things about him ..don't know about his family yet and you are doing to Anandi marry shiv Anandi marry shiv...😕a person give his daughter's hand to someone after knowing and thinking about a person in her 100 directions and dadisaa just saw Shiv saving Anandi's life and bringing her on horse and her shiv jaap started 😆really dadisaa please and they are not doing justice with Shiv either ...they didn't tell Anandi's past story to him completely ...ok don't tell him entire story one one chapter ..but at least let him know what type of relation Jagaya and Anandi use to have ..what happened between them that their relation broke ..take him into confidence by telling him all instead of little bit so that in future these things won't create problem like in Jagaya Gauri case ..Gauri never bothered to know about Jagaya Anandi's relation story and when slowly things started to be revealed in front of her ..her why why started ...so Anandi's past should be cleared to Shiv no confusion ..everything clear ...i hope Anandi tells him herself no hopes from Dadisaa yeh dokri sachi nahi sudhray gi 😆and Shiv also needs to have a heart to heart chat with Anandi...tell her he doesn't want to marry her because he feels sorry for her and also he should clearly tell dadisaa he doesn't want this type of forced marriage with Anandi...he'll only marry her when she will be ready from her free will and i agree till then Shiv can or say should always support her like a good friend.

i wonder how those people live who don't get a chance to marry in their life ..don't find a right companion ...seeing Balika Vadhu and so much pressure on Anandi to get married i think those people have no life 😲bhai shaadi na hoe sach mein zindagi maut ka masala ban gaya😆

Lovely post and same is the reply ...

There is actually no need to discuss marriage in such an urgency .. Anandi should be left to live herself for sometime .. there are thousands of men and women who do not marry and they are happy ( do married people are all trouble free in life and they are always "HAPPY"?) .. it is the other people around then who keep poking nose and think it is their right to talk about it..

Even dadisa is acting silly.. what was the need to talk marriage when bhago just died and shiv came .. I found it as if she was no so concerned about Bhago's death but more happy because anandi agreed to marry.. she is doing the same thing again to Anandi what she did once in past.. Push,, force,, impose.

Shiv is ok as he has offered and he is now being guided by Dadisa but has his own thoughts also .. he is underplaying himself which is good...

but otherwise .. it seems as f Anandi has no right to live on this earth without getting married...