Originally posted by: mushiroxx
hmmm i disagree here...avantika did let her meet adi first...n she didn't fix the wedding...she just wanted to have latika n her mother's( who is avantu's friend) consent on the engagement wedding so that she can furthur correspond with adi abt his marriage. plus harish n adi's nanu didn't ask avantu's consent when they made plan of making paya meet again...pankhu is adi's heroine n tha'ts why we r loving harish-nanu n not avantu...:) but this doesn't make her totally wrong in seeing a girl of her status for adi...she gave pankhu's family a chance but they id that tilak thing n avantu is not one f those people who will trust a person ,who betrayed them, again..:D so she sounds fair to me..:)
yes what you are saying is complete correct ..she let them meet 1st...but well without meeting they would never know about pankhuri or any girl...so isnt that obvious to have 1st meting...
@red - here actualy you yourself is answering and questioning...she meeting with latika already with a engegment in her mind...to whome did she talked...whoem did she shared ke how latika is...did anyone in family knows about it...about latika...only adi meet...did he even hinted he can think of spending life with latika...he only stated they much beter then pankhu family...atlesat latika was opne about whats in her mind...thats it...isnt avantika doing exctly what mamaji did..hiding the truth form evryone even after knowing...and no..atm i am not alanlysing pankhu as adi heroin..i am analaysing the situation acording to the scene they showed swetuuu...my problem was not ke she choose adi for her nor when adi meet not even when she caled up to ask adi kaisaa laga...my issue started ke she herdelf took decision of choosing latika as her futire partner wihout anyone concent in family...forget evryone..even nana..but harish...lolzzz...she is nto a single mom...its been shown clearly even after being seprated harish and avantu share as much in upbringing as other spouce..just because he is staying with avantu dosent mean harish has less part in hsi upbrinign...hwo can she decide even to the point of thinking of geting them engage wihout harish knowing...
lolzzz...avantu wasnt cheated or being betrayed but she herself is the reason for making it look like one side mistake instead of some miss-concept and miss-understanding...if she has behaved maturely the situation would ahve been different...but think of avantu behaving maturely is soem thing out of blue ... if harish had got the news 1st i am dead shure he wouldnt have let the situation come to the level avantu let it come out...and her way of talking to elders and not trying to find out the real reason shows she is character of sheere insecurity...im-mature person with no head to think rationaly...and one who works out with ego only...and her biggest insecurity is harish and adi themself...she is scared she might loose adi over harish...which already has...she is not acepting it and she heersef to harish and his maturely nature and his straight manner of speaking...
and last but not the least...nana ji ,harish and shanky made plan for not geting adi engaged but to clear the missunderstanding between 2 people...they dint have in mind about anything beside patch up...and patch up dosent mean geting engagement...and they ditn hide from avantu they taking adi to kulu..they only hide ke thy trying to clear the missundestanding..and to me its a nice thinking...ke in future even if they meet their is no bitterness between 2 families...and that has ben done...now only avantu who has biterness for pankhu family...rest is all nuteral...so that ws good step...to hide form avantu or both families would be in very pwkwrd situation if even comes to meet face to face...now atleast they can meet humanly wihout disgracing each other...
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