Originally posted by: Tanyaz
You are right , Sulochna was wrong .
I know she is angry because of the way the girls treat Archana but she has to remember that Archana too is to be blamed for this ...Teju was so sweet and what Archana is doing to Teju is so unfair .She is giving Teju this idea that she wants money and not wants to be with her daughters ..Teju is not snooty and rude like Ovi , the poor kid is going through so much pain , thanks to her mother giving preference to sachin's wishes ...
Sulochna can be stubborn and very unfair at times .
She was also very hurt when Teju threw the money at her as if to say that Sulo hadn't really loved her. But Sulo needs to forgive Teju and move on.
While i agree that Archana needs to tell Teju and Ovi about how she really feels, and Manav too for that matter, i have really changed on being so mad at Archana for preferring Sachin.
After i looked at a lot of things, i came to the realization (imo) that her insecurity as a mother began when Manav abandoned her when they lost the baby (miscarriage). What Manav did is really unforgivable to me, because it gave the message to Archana that the loss of the baby was Archana's fault. You know how every woman who loses a baby feels somehow she failed. Do you remember how she became like a zombie? It was only Sachin's crying that pulled her out of her desperate state and brought her back to life again...and why i feel she has this inexplicable tie to him...maybe/ probably doesn't realize herself why. At a subconscious level, if she goes against Sachin, she is cutting the only thread that brought her confidence in her ability as a mother /
this is my opinion of course, and i've written it before, a couple times, but no one ever comments on it, so no one else must agree with me.😆.😆.. but i base it on a couple of true life experiences one with my aunt. (not that the CV's get that deep in their story thinking..😲 😆 )