What has the world come to???

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Don't the wishes of an individual matter anymore? If the bride wants a simple wedding and her immediate family has no objection to it alongwith the groom, why the heck does the mother of brides's sister's sister-in-law's daughter-in-law feel slighted?

Infact, she is no way closely related to Rashi, apart from the fact that this is a joint family? Why does Urmila have this urge to gain importance and prove her worth to everyone around her? She's got this complex that always drives her to do things that gives her recognition in the society and makes people acknowledge her. Perhaps this is stemmed by years in povery and being a nobody and that's why she got her daughter married in this family. But then trying wrangle out every invitation is just pathetic. And trying to get even with the entire family because she didn't get invited is simply a newer low, even for her. I find it really odd she would go to the extent of calling the neighbors to settle her scores.

Rashi...You must stand up against your mum now.

And CVs... Is this really what you want your audience to see? How to get back at the slightest assumption of percieved contempt and insult? I thought the underlying message beneath all stories is the emancipation of the human spirit and victory of good over evil but seeing almost all the plans of URSHI succeed, this looks too much to ask for.

What else can we do but bear the torture for yet another story of revenge and how to achieve those means?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Man, the way you put it, it seems like a transatlantic relationship. 🤣It didn't seem like that when I watched the episode. 😵

I completely agree with what you have said. If I were Urmila's therapist (and thank god, I'm not), I would really diagnose her with Histrionics Personality Disorder. She always wants to be the center of attention, whether she deserves it or not. She's no doubt going about it the wrong way because her behavior is not the least bit satisfying (or else she would've stopped by now). I don't know why she feels slighted whenever the Modis do something and she's no invited. For lord's sake, why bother with getting your daughter married if you feel so left out whenever her in-laws do something? Why try to mess things up? I haven't seen the Modis act like that with Kinjal.

Because this is a soap, the CVs have to come up with complexes that are irrational. This is probably one of those because there is absolutely no reason that Urmila should have a grudge against the Modis. They kicked Rashi out and took her back. It's even now. If only this message go through to her cortex...

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