Ahem and love: listening to her

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Posted: 13 years ago
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How can Ahem help in this family situation?

Jigna is not his contemporary, his cousin or sister or his wife to help. She is his aunt. She wants to get married but his mum opposes it due to her age and societal perception. Therefore in Ahem's mind he believes that it is best to let his mum decide in dealing with his situation.

He did return home and found out about this. He was changing when Gopi came in to give him his tea. He looked on at her face as it reflected the situation whilst he took his tea. He knew she will know more of the happenings and wanted to find out more.

The discussion turned out not what he expected but what he had never thought about. He believed his mother was absolutely right in her decision. He felt she had justified her decision on Jigna's age and societal perceptions. Little did Ahem know until he was reminded by Gopi of her studying at her age. Her words left him thinking.

What makes this scene between Ahem and Gopi fascinating was to watch the burden resting on both their shoulders, the patience and calmness in listening, communicating and reasoning, the looks Ahem gave at both times when Gopi mentioned her studying and more so when Gopi told him that everyone deserved a partner.

This scene shows their growing husband wife relationship, their closeness with each other, their love for each other and their participation in family matters. When nani left she told her daughter that she did not see closeness between Ahem and Gopi, will she get to notice it now?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Awesome analysis swasthi...it was indeed a remarkable scene...ahem was on the point that jiggy shouldnt get marry at this age...was he true??no as each and every person deserves a true sathiya in his/her life with whom he can share joys n sorrow...and gopi made ahem realise this...
gopi has face wrath from her husband in initial days of their marriage...but as their bonding built up they started sharing their joys and sorrow of their life...when gopi used to be not there around ahem...ahem used to feel lonely n vice-versa...same she tried to convey to ahem...
and about giving the example of age...which is the big problem prevailing...anything and everything can happen at any point of time in life...the only thing is necessary that you should believe in what you are doing😊

Nani comeback...a much awaited one😃true it was a time when she had mention that gohem lack closeness...that time it was just not the closeness but to be a true sathiya of each other..but as time has pass things have change...now just a hope that nani notice this instead of creating any sort of mess😆..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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spot on analysis ...
I was feeling bad after reading some posts abou tgohem that the scene may not be as good...but the scene was indeed fantastic.
the warm regard and respect in ahem's eyes ...the look when he sees gopi at the door...it is only evber so slight..but Naz has mastered ahem so much that he can now underplay scnes very well..
Gopi so refreshingly assertive...no fear, no hesitancy with her hubby...confident about her own views..Gopi looked very bridal today in her pink saree.
loved the scene...their vibes are very strong..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hetp

Awesome analysis swasthi...it was indeed a remarkable scene...ahem was on the point that jiggy shouldnt get marry at this age...was he true??no as each and every person deserves a true sathiya in his/her life with whom he can share joys n sorrow...and gopi made ahem realise this...

gopi has face wrath from her husband in initial days of their marriage...but as their bonding built up they started sharing their joys and sorrow of their life...when gopi used to be not there around ahem...ahem used to feel lonely n vice-versa...same she tried to convey to ahem...
and about giving the example of age...which is the big problem prevailing...anything and everything can happen at any point of time in life...the only thing is necessary that you should believe in what you are doing😊

Nani comeback...a much awaited one😃true it was a time when she had mention that gohem lack closeness...that time it was just not the closeness but to be a true sathiya of each other..but as time has pass things have change...now just a hope that nani notice this instead of creating any sort of mess😆..


You are welcome Hetal.

Well said too.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: mona05

spot on analysis ...

I was feeling bad after reading some posts abou tgohem that the scene may not be as good...but the scene was indeed fantastic.
the warm regard and respect in ahem's eyes ...the look when he sees gopi at the door...it is only evber so slight..but Naz has mastered ahem so much that he can now underplay scnes very well..
Gopi so refreshingly assertive...no fear, no hesitancy with her hubby...confident about her own views..Gopi looked very bridal today in her pink saree.
loved the scene...their vibes are very strong..


My pleasure Mona.

Well said too.

I think there is no way both were in the the mood to steal any warm moment for themselves. This situation is very close to home - being his mother's sister. Hence the concern and worry is visible for both. It became more prevalent when the whole family talked about it at the breakfast table.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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great analysis swasthi!!!

I think their changed relationship is awesome. It feels more and more like they are equal partners in their life and that desicions are taken together.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ichangedit

great analysis swasthi!!!

I think their changed relationship is awesome. It feels more and more like they are equal partners in their life and that desicions are taken together.


Thanks Kristin.

Absolutely well put.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Much appreciated Ritika.

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