Love after or before marriage??

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jolenole

@jolenole

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Posted: 13 years ago

I saw on some link that Shiv said that he will only marry Anandi if she loves him and not because her mother asked her to👏👏👏... I was really happy cause i really want that too, i want Anandi to fall for him and start to love him and than get married😍, and what about you all???😉

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Myraa Khan

@QuagMyred

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Posted: 13 years ago

Most certainly!!!

Love after marriage is fine...but love after a 'forced' 'remarriage' is not...!!!!

I want Anandi to feel what love is and then marry Shiv. If she falls in love after marriage, it would seem she had no other option. But when she starts feeling for Shiv and then agree to marry, that would be the real 'MOVING ON', the one that we really want from Anandi...!!!!!!!!😊

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Suchi-

@Suchi-

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Posted: 13 years ago

The love will happen after marriage for Anandi and Shiv.

She will not be able to love him until she is put in that position. She is not a girl who is getting married for the first time rather a woman who was married for 17 years and rejected/humiliated/abused by her husband

So I do not expect the unexpected from Anandi.

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Myraa Khan

@QuagMyred

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian
The love will happen after marriage for Anandi and Shiv.
She will not be able to love him until she is put in that position. She is not a girl who is getting married for the first time rather a woman who was married for 17 years and rejected/humiliated/abused by her husband

So I do not expect the unexpected from Anandi.

I think she's now in that position...She knows everybody including Shiv himself, wants her to marry him. Now if Shiv tells her that he wouldn't marry her just because of the last wish thing, maybe she'll start thinking all over again.

And of course its very difficult to fall in love again if you have had a bad relationship, leave alone a 'marriage', but atleast she should start liking him, start warming up to him and consider him a friend.

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malika

@_symphony

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Posted: 13 years ago

It will be love after marriage and this is what makes sense too.How can u expect a girl who has gone through such a betrayal forget it all in a go and put trust in the same bond all over again so easily??Its not abt Shiv or any other guy.Its abt the fact that Anandi can no longer "herself" put trust on bonds like marriage or love.She needs to be proved that not all men are like jagya and not all marriages break.ANd that can only happen if ANSh get married.SO in their case love after marriage is the best option.

Edited by Malika - 13 years ago

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Myraa Khan

@QuagMyred

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Posted: 13 years ago

But then, Should a guy like Shivraj Shekhar, a district collector, full of integrity and maturity, get into a nuptial bond when he knows that the girl he's marrying, is marrying out of a last wish??? Will they be happy after the so called marriage??? Does marriage refer to only maang-bharna and saat-pheres??? Where's the Self respect of a district collector???

p.s. I know I have used too much of 'marry' and question marks. Sorry for that. I just wanted to say that Anandi should remarry only when she is sane enuf to make sane decisions and not under any pressures.

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poiu123

@poiu123

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Posted: 13 years ago

In Anandi's case its highly unlikely that it can be love before marrriage. at the most respect and liking.

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Monamie

@monamie111

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Posted: 13 years ago

has shiv said that he will marry anandi only if anandi will love him? 😕...i don think so! what i felt from the WU that he is not happy with the fact that..anandi was not ready for the 2nd marriage but still she agreed just bcoz it is her mother's last wish! it is not solely her wish...🤔..i think shiv is not giving her a condition like this marriage will happen only if u will love me! is he? 😲...i guess he just wants anandi to agree for the marriage at her own will & not bcoz her mother asked her to do so!

i don think anandi will be able to love shiv suddenly before marriage!...what all she will be able to do is giving her life a second chance!

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@Alpha_Aakash

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Posted: 13 years ago

I hope they follow Na bole tum style track were both leads are marrying after realising their love...in that show the lead is widow..

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Myraa Khan

@QuagMyred

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Posted: 13 years ago

#10

Maybe Anandi can't fall in love with Shiv so soon. But atleast she can start liking him, warming upto him and should be sane enuf to give him a chance and life a second chance...

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