MAHAAAN Gauri... ufff... I lost all words for her.. i dont understand why she wants to CONTROL her husband.. whatever Jagya wants to do to make himself feel better and responsible ..She starts suffocating him by imposing her decisions on him.. I mean today's argument was baseless.. and to me Jagya was making more sense (I know Gauri lovers must be laughing while reading all this but as I dont care what is right is right) Jagya is trying to justify himself by working.. and who says while studying you can not work? In fact its a fantastic opportunity for Jagya.. working while studying will give him experience and more self confidence which he said he is losing.. and Gauri is deciding on his behalf what is right and what is wrong for him!! Then Gauri lovers call Jagya a kid who can not take his own decisions!! Gauri doesn't let him do what he thinks is right for him.. and she has to put her fiery nose in between and treat him like a kid.. Jagya very clearly said "I want to do whatever is my responsibility as a husband.. he want to earn cz its very frustrating for a guy of his age sitting useless" She is just not understanding anything.. bass madam ne keh diya k kaam nahi kerna to nahi kerna..
Seriously aaj to hadd ho gayi apni naak ghuserrne ki.. waise to ek wife ki tarha behave nahi kerti aur decisions impose kerne mein sabse aagay.. She is not ready to understand that her husband wants to work.. and usko kisne kaha k padhayi k saath kaam nahi ho sakta.. if he has these high spirits to work and study together let him give it a try.. and Gauri is again underestimating him by saying "har naukri se jhagra ker k nikal diye gaye ho" where as she very well knows in his first job that hospital was indulge in illegal sex determination and he did not want to do anything illegal so when he spoke against it he was kicked out.. WHO WAS AT FAULT THERE?? For Gauri lovers ... its Jagya i know.. cz he did not go with the flow.. Second job was under Gauri which he some how accepted against his "male ego" and Gauri also insulted him in front of everyone and the doctor was very unreasonable with him.. No doctor speaks like that but since its a serial anything can happen.. there Jagya did wrong by holding doctor's collars... lekin wahan bhi doctor was rude to him first and he was already hurt with Gauri's remarks when she cud have easily avoided.. (i see that episode as Gauri's, doctor's and Jagya's fault.. everyone's fault.. they should have not reacted like that Gauri should have handled the situation well and then later Jagya should have not reacted violently..) THAT DOES NOT MAKE JAGYA A QUARRELSOME AT ALL.. I beg to disagree on this.. He wants to improve his life with his own efforts to ismein bura kya hai?? Phir Gauri k supporters kehte hain k JAGYA APNI AKAL SE KUCHH NAHI KERTA.. Kuchh kerne diya he nahi jata aaj bahut bada proof mila hai iss betukay argument se! So I fail to understand what is Gauri's actual problem?? Wasn't her argument baseless today? Wasn't she imposing her decisions on Jagya today?? Wasn't she trying to control Jagya's mind, decisions and life??
Itna pretend kerti hai uski khushi ko celebrate kerne ka aur phir na jagah dekhti hai na mauka shuru ho jaati hai argument kerne.. khud aaj tak Jagya ki koi baat nahi suni apne mann ki kerti hai aur usko apna puppet bana k rakha hua hai.. ishara kiya to waise he woh nachay.. I dont understand ..Gauri kabhi baday hospital k dreams over night poora kerna chahti hai.. kabhi Jagat ko top pe paas kerwana chahti hai kabhi jagat ko apne hospital mein job lagwa deti hai aur kabhi usko loser keh k dhitkar deti hai kabhi kuch kabhi kuch.. ismein jagat ki "say" kahan hai? all who is saying is GAURI! And more over what an ignorant she is.. "maine kabhi tumko iss baat ka ehsaas kerwaya k tum kuch nahi ker rahe?" MADAM GAURI JI.. aapne kaun sa mauka chhoda hai usko neecha dikhane mein.. kabhi kehti hai.. "tum yahan to kya.. kahin job kerne k layak nahi ho.. tum useless ho.. main salary laa rahi hoon.. tum ghar k kaam ker sakte ho.. bla bla" aise words kisi bhi self respect wale ko majboor karenge k woh kaam kare aur yeh sab usko sun-na na padey. Chalo maan lo agar jagat nahi bhi sochta yeh sab to usko society wale taana maar denge to woh kis kis ka munh band karega? aur phir "QUARRELSOME" ka khitaab mil jayega usko.. Gauri ko dhele ka wishwas nahi hai apne husband per she assumes things when he doesn't pick the call.. First Gauri rubs his ego the wrong way n when he wants to prove he can do it she is discouraging him... I just hope Jagat says yes to that lady doctor and works and proves himself.. to shut this ever barking mouth of Gauri!!