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Ok for most people that know me I watch this show for two people only and that is Arnav and Anjali!
Their relationship is what keeps me watching this show otherwise I would be long gone, their moments always bring a smile to my face and today was no different, it was honest, it was open and it is exactly how their relationship has been and it did fracture, it happens in every sibling relationship its how you come out on the otherside...It was shown that they both have the same bond, Arnav was the only one that managed to get his Di to have medicine and she was the only one that stopped him saying what he was saying...
Arnav done what ever brother would do for a sister like mother he tried to protect her and in that he made a choice and Anjali never wanted him to make this decision it was never his decision to make...
Today I can see that everyone has gone OMG I hate Anjali what about Khushi etc etc... But finally Anjali blamed Arnav she had to the courage to blame her brother because he was the one that was wrong not Khushi for when he hid the truth... He is the one that gave her false hope, he is the one that let her build a life with Shyam and her baby, Khushi wasn't her own but Arnav was and the day of his wedding when he decided to shut her out he made his choice, for Arnav that was the right choice and being Arnav he would make the same decision a thousand times over but for Anjali it is something she has to deal with now, she reacted how Arnav expected her to and for that Arnav is more adamant that he had made the right decision...
But this is the loop hole neither sibling is wrong neither sibling is right... (Yes Shilpu I am putting our argument here😆)
Arnav was wrong for making a decision about Shyam on Anjali's behalf it should have always been Anjali's choice if she wanted to give Shyam a second chance to be the a husband and a father to their child, it was always Anjali's decision not Arnav's and Arnav made that decision when he didn't tell her the truth... (and Arnav also brought Khushi into the mess as more than an outsider...(I shall come back to this point)) It was never Arnav's decision to make, if your hubby is cheating on you it is your decision to give him a second chance not your brothers or anyone else's decision...
But Anjali was wrong for the fact she gave Arnav the impression that she won't be able to deal with the truth and it is true she wouldn't have but Arnav never thought it was important to tell her that he has decided her future she is meant to stay with a man that cheated on her... Yes she is still believing Shyam whatever, but what proof does she have that he is wrong nothing and she is meant to take her brothers word for it, fine! She accepts that but the trauma is still the same, the one person who has never lied to her just took the biggest decision of her life without once thinking to tell her or let her make the decision herself...
As for her being jealous on Arnav and Khushi's relationship, the fact that they are happy isn't what is affecting Anjali, the flashbacks and the portrayal of it is different but the fact is Arnav made a decision to protect his wife over his sister and that is correct as well but when Arnav made a decision to marry Khushi he chose love over his family not because Khushi betrayed her but because he protected Khushi instead of telling her the truth, even if at that point Khushi was blamed called characterless we would have all been just as mad but at that point Anjali would have been able to make a decision without having Arnav in the middle on these two women... Arnav never sought out the truth he blamed Khushi believed Shyam and there was nothing more to it, but this was what complicated the situation... But whatever happens now both of them are going to be hurt...
Is Arnav wrong to think about Khushi? NO!
Is Anjali wrong to say what she has said? NO! But Anjali has never told Arnav to stop thinking or caring for his wife, Anjali would never hurt Arnav like that but what she has said today wasn't about his marriage but it was about his decision behind the marriage when he hid the truth... Maybe circumstances were drastic but everyone can blame circumstances but the fact is Khushi can say if Arnav wasn't kidnapped I wouldn't have told the truth or if Anjali hadn't panicked that day, Arnav can say his Di was pregnant etc... Everyone has a list of excuses and all Anjali wanted was honesty something her and Arnav have always had she has shared everything with him and been through everything with him and that is what is hurting her that Arnav hurt her by lying not Shyam...
Is Anjali wrong to say what she has said? NO! But Anjali has never told Arnav to stop thinking or caring for his wife, Anjali would never hurt Arnav like that but what she has said today wasn't about his marriage but it was about his decision behind the marriage when he hid the truth... Maybe circumstances were drastic but everyone can blame circumstances but the fact is Khushi can say if Arnav wasn't kidnapped I wouldn't have told the truth or if Anjali hadn't panicked that day, Arnav can say his Di was pregnant etc... Everyone has a list of excuses and all Anjali wanted was honesty something her and Arnav have always had she has shared everything with him and been through everything with him and that is what is hurting her that Arnav hurt her by lying not Shyam...
It can seem selfish, it can seem like Anjali is being a 🤬 a lot can be said about the situation and that Anjali is to blame but one thing shall stand true lies hurt more than the truth, even if they are said to protect you... Arnav asked Khushi why didn't she tell him about Shyam and it hurt him? So why can't Anjali feel the same hurt? When Khushi hide the truth she worked for the family but Arnav was her own brother?
Neither is this defending Anjali nor is it blaming Arnav but I am glad the CVs actually brought this matter to hand and for that thank you that but also for showing that Arnav and Anjali's relationship hasn't changed Anjali still told Arnav how she feels... 😳
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